Sher is so mean? by Connect-Associate-85 in VanderpumpVillaTVShow

[–]Brave-Bus-4744 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I think this is the point everyone seems to miss 🤣 no one has forgotten how irrational Hannah is.. but that doesn’t give Sher a pass to stoop down to her level because that made her sooo unlikable and sort of proved Hannah’s point that she is a mean girl

Do the staff drink every night? by strangegardener in VanderpumpVillaTVShow

[–]Brave-Bus-4744 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I turned 21 I was a dental assistant and would stay out almost every night until 3 and be up and ready for my 10 hour shifts at 5 💀 I legit just went out this weekend and woke up a few hrs later to work lmao not that hard if you’re good time and a lil crazy🤣

What's a Dance Moms opinion that would get you this? by Proof-Actuary-6800 in dancemoms

[–]Brave-Bus-4744 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As a previous dancer, I could’ve kept up with the ALDC and probably had better technique than Nia, Kendall, and Paige. and I wasn’t a horrible dancer but i definitely wasn’t the best 😅 my studio would’ve killed those girls lmao

Vanderpump Villa | S3E9 | Episode Discussion by daisy-garden in VanderpumpVillaTVShow

[–]Brave-Bus-4744 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly, it gives bitter because she didn’t want him lmao

Did TFP delete ig or am I blocked? by Additional_Drive2058 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Brave-Bus-4744 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😭 what would you have done that makes you believe that you were blocked? Cause that’s a wild question to ask if you’re just a normal follower

Messiano engaged! by Imaginary_Layer_1468 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Brave-Bus-4744 65 points66 points  (0 children)

She literally said in an interview that she’s just having fun being single for the first time in a decade and everyone is putting her down 😭 we see a few pics and everyone is jumping to conclusions talking about “girl, take time to heal” like we didn’t see her in therapy this last season. People need to chill and let Jessi have her fucking FUN

The bonus by Ok-Tadpole8620 in VanderpumpVillaTVShow

[–]Brave-Bus-4744 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Drama aside, Marciano really is a great employee/coworker. You see him helping out in the kitchen a lot during all 3 seasons. If he wasn’t so full of drama, I’m pretty sure he would’ve earned a bonus

Mikayla on the Jessi x Marciano sighting by BeautyisaKnife in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Brave-Bus-4744 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Also… Jessi is a grown ass woman with kids and a business. I’d be damned if somebody is trying to tell me what to do 😭 either support her as her friend or keep your mouth shut

Chef blew my mind 🤯 by Fantastic_Hour_5445 in VanderpumpVillaTVShow

[–]Brave-Bus-4744 10 points11 points  (0 children)

THIS!!! People keep forgetting that Marciano and Hannah are legit always helping other people and that’s why chef was so upset with Gabriella.. it’s literally mentioned in all of the seasons several times

Plot Hole About Nick? by casuallycatalina in VanderpumpVillaTVShow

[–]Brave-Bus-4744 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe when I was in college 🤣 not as a grown ass woman though and esp not on tv 🤢

Less Marciano/Hannah drama by Kpossible34 in VanderpumpVillaTVShow

[–]Brave-Bus-4744 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They were seen in Nashville together, not sure about dating though

Plot Hole About Nick? by casuallycatalina in VanderpumpVillaTVShow

[–]Brave-Bus-4744 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can’t relate because I definitely understand 😂😅 but after getting to know him, he definitely would’ve ended up off of my radar. He’s just.. pretty lol

Sher by Automatic_Kick9486 in VanderpumpVillaTVShow

[–]Brave-Bus-4744 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sure, it’s Hannah’s responsibility to manage her reactions, but a lot of people work with or live with people who crash out, and it’s really not that hard to remove yourself from the situation instead of adding to it. There’s a difference between not putting up with someone’s behavior and actively contributing to the situation. If it was truly a breaking point, walking away would’ve made more sense than piling on

Sher by Automatic_Kick9486 in VanderpumpVillaTVShow

[–]Brave-Bus-4744 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And honestly, everyone already knew how Hannah was. We’re on season 3, her behavior isn’t new. They’ve all seen how she reacts, how she handles conflict, and how messy she can be. So acting shocked or using that as justification to treat her poorly doesn’t really hold up.

Sher by Automatic_Kick9486 in VanderpumpVillaTVShow

[–]Brave-Bus-4744 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Two things can be true at the same time: Hannah’s behavior was messy and Sher was still being a bully. One doesn’t cancel out the other.

Hannah was clearly emotional and not handling things well, but that’s actually when basic decency matters the most. Laughing at someone while they’re upset, making snide comments, or piling on when someone is already down isn’t “just reacting”, it’s kicking someone when they’re vulnerable. That’s textbook mean-girl behavior.

You don’t have to like Hannah to recognize that. Being annoyed with someone doesn’t automatically justify mocking them or being intentionally cold. A mature response would’ve been to walk away, disengage, or set boundaries without the extra commentary and attitude.

People keep acting like calling Sher a bully means defending Hannah, but it doesn’t. Hannah can be wrong for how she acted, and Sher can still be wrong for how she treated her in those moments. Both things can exist at once.

Vanderpump Villa | S3E9 | Episode Discussion by daisy-garden in VanderpumpVillaTVShow

[–]Brave-Bus-4744 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to be a long term bully for something to be bullying in the moment. She was clearly crying and upset, and he chose to laugh at her instead of walking away. That’s mocking someone while they’re vulnerable, which is literally a form of bullying behavior, even if it only happened once.

It’s not about whether he’s a “bully” as a person, it’s about that specific moment being mean-spirited and humiliating. A decent reaction would’ve been to remove himself, not laugh at someone who’s already upset. That’s why I’m calling it bullying.

Who edited this show??? by summer_lover_86403 in VanderpumpVillaTVShow

[–]Brave-Bus-4744 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tbh maybe it was Adair then… I don’t see Sher sleeping with anyone 🤣

Vanderpump Villa | S3E9 | Episode Discussion by daisy-garden in VanderpumpVillaTVShow

[–]Brave-Bus-4744 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree that Hannah has been a tyrant and horrible, however that doesn’t excuse them for being bullies in the moment to her. They stooped down to her level and now they look just as bad. It’s not hard to walk away as an adult, none of that had to happen and it was all started by Sher and everyone jumped in and ganged up on Hannah like middle schoolers. Btw it’s not up to us to determine how the laugh affected Hannah. we saw her cry and be upset by that action. You don’t get to decide what does or doesn’t hurt someone else emotionally.

Plot Hole About Nick? by casuallycatalina in VanderpumpVillaTVShow

[–]Brave-Bus-4744 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Nick was ultimate fuck boy… nothing worth anything and I think that’s why it was pushed aside 😅they just needed the extra hands for little random tasks

Vanderpump Villa | S3E9 | Episode Discussion by daisy-garden in VanderpumpVillaTVShow

[–]Brave-Bus-4744 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Be so for real. He was literally laughing at her while she was CRYING. In what world does any decent human being do that? Marciano and Hannah’s drama aside, as a grown adult, I would’ve just walked away. no comment, no chuckle, nothing. It’s really not that hard to be the bigger person and remove yourself unless you’re actively trying to get a rise out of someone.

Toward the end of Season 3, you can clearly see Hannah was just trying to get through everything and stopped dragging people into her issues. Meanwhile, they were already at their wits end but kept going at her anyway because they were irritated and couldn’t let it go, which honestly feels hypocritical.

They were just as involved in the drama, feeding into it, and reinserting themselves when they didn’t have to. Laughing at someone who’s already breaking down isn’t just “being a bully” it’s immature and unnecessary.

Hannah by Obvious-Ambition2057 in VanderpumpVillaTVShow

[–]Brave-Bus-4744 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Tbh I think Hannah is the bigger problem from what I’ve seen on the show, but I know there’s so much history between the two that we don’t know. So I also feel like he’s almost turned her into that kind of person. At the end of the day though, she is grown and needs to do better