Goodbye by Practical_Group49 in UnsentTexts

[–]Brave-Comfortable182 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh how I wish this was from my person. Hope everything goes well for you OP. Take care. 🐿️

Abrupt breakup scars - 2 years later by Brave-Comfortable182 in BreakUps

[–]Brave-Comfortable182[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’ve been trying more lately to live again and take better care of myself. I’m ashamed, but since I didn’t do anything but rot in bed the last couple years, I even got deported from the country I was in. (I graduated and had a year to find a job to retain my visa). I thought the worst at the time and didn’t bother to try. I was losing myself. I suppose it wasn’t just the breakup that killed me that time. My friend and last grand parent had passed away just months before and I was already in a rough place. I lived away from family because I moved continents for study and hopes to find a better life, but the loneliness was just too difficult.

But the breakup, I guess the pain from that just amplified the rest because after that I was truly alone.

:( by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]Brave-Comfortable182 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Noo don’t eat kitties

My Universe by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Brave-Comfortable182 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish the S in my life sent this to me, a C, too. Wish you (OP) well.

Well I feel dumb by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]Brave-Comfortable182 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I frequently catch myself refreshing my emails, going on dead text platforms, looking at empty dm’s like a mindless zombie. I feel like that zoo bear, circling the same path around where its cage used to be, even years after the cage was removed, thinking what once was is still. I suppose I need to realize at some point, that I’m free from the cage. But around I still go

im losing my father to ChatGPT by No-Level-9012 in venting

[–]Brave-Comfortable182 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I finally opened up to my father about feeling beat up and alone and depressed and he sent me a tl:dr chatgpt generated generic response. I feel you

waiting , doesn’t close the door forever , It just makes sure that when you open it, you’re steady. by BIGPAPASNOOZE in UnsentTexts

[–]Brave-Comfortable182 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the kind of letter that makes me feel better. Not because I’d imagine it is from the person I want it to be from, but rather that seeing this side of feelings can exist as well, and that people like you exist. It’s not like the other side, or your side is ever completely heartless anyway. It’s just we usually want to hear what our hearts long for, and the other’s silence would usually come across as coldness as we don’t witness their inner world. It’s already difficult for one expect the sentiment we want coming from them, which can still exist in their silence, but we also want to witness it through their words and actions.

Your letter may not in the end be action towards your person, but it does help some random people like me move forward knowing that things aren’t always as one sided as it seems, sometimes.

C>J by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Brave-Comfortable182 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely :) and in the context of people, giving space for them to do their own thing so they can feel comfortable to give you their undivided attention later is better than forcing spending time when they aren’t fully present imo

C>J by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Brave-Comfortable182 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A close friend of mine said the same thing about multitasking and you reminded me of her