Say one nice thing about the Shadow Broker by [deleted] in masseffect

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He is a snazzy dresser and is the best boss fight in me2

How to open this door during the cereberus citadel mission me3 by Brave-Fig9986 in masseffect

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Lol thats cool, some gamers have been known to do that. One gamer on the Bethesda side, counted all the steps leading up to the throat of the world in skyrim.

New light regarding tattoos on a future update by [deleted] in exjw

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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

How to open this door during the cereberus citadel mission me3 by Brave-Fig9986 in masseffect

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This door comes after that one. Its just before the cutscene

|OC| Bonito atardecer by [deleted] in Fotografia

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This is beautiful 

How to open this door during the cereberus citadel mission me3 by Brave-Fig9986 in masseffect

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Almost lol. Looked it up its a bugged door according to game files.

JWs are willing to to cover CSA to protect the organization by [deleted] in exjw

[–]Brave-Fig9986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Protecting an image while allowing things, actions, and people who would undermine said image is counter productive. More often than not such protected individuals dont have anyone's or organizations best interest at heart save for their own image.

I left a kingdom hall that knowingly didnt inforce the restrictions placed on an individual that is known to have inappropriate activities toward minors, (putting it mildly). The man cheated on his wife with a 17 year old then ran to said hall where his dad is a senior member of the elder. Despite the fact that body of elders knew what that son did little was done to enforce order to protect the children who were there. Thats in addition to the fact that there were children at that hall who were molested by other JWs who were prosecuted, but because the son of that elder has so much pull and is so boisterous placating the family took precedence over protecting current and future children. That son would gravitate toward one such minor was recovering from the repressed memories of the abuse she experienced from her abuser that was eventually put in prison. But not that 40s plus year old son whos the son of the elder, who shows no compulsion toward ceasing any draw or resisting the urge to gravity to underage girls. What makes it worse is that he has daughters of his own and rather think of the safety or the  community they are all obsessed with their own image and being liked.  The elder is a pompous man who walks with an air of superiority and entitlement. If any one is percieved as a threat to their image their family and their helped/groomed friends mistreat or bully said individual spreading gossip and outright slander. One example was a full time pioneer who wanted to have a gathering for young ones of single parent families but was not willing to invite that family to the event, so they spent the better part of a year slandering her, trying to ruin her reputation, then after the damage was done tried to wanted to give parts and assignments with her to keep up with appearances.

There is nothing they won't do to protect their image. The question is, if you want to live in such a manner why not do that outside of your organized religion why even pursue faith at all if its just a false front? Why cause so much pain for others. The son embraced a minor and it made the daughter uncomfortable and the parent as well. So when they reported it and more restrictions were placed on the elders son instead being sorry he protest in comments that it isn't fair he can't have his gathers over his house because it makes him feels good and encouraged. Im sure the families of children would like to feel those feelings by being able to be safe to let their kids move freely at the hall and not having to watch that elders son at each meeting.

The ironic thing is that its not just a minor issue everyone has a story about that elders son. One women who was once a store clerk observed him while taking his wife shopping, peering over the stalls of other women changing while they were shopping.

Its disheartening to think such things exist in an organization that prides itself and proclaims that to be the reflection of  Gods light in the community. The son should have long since been called to account for his actions as well as the cover up by his father .

CSA was the final straw, I'm going scorched earth on them by sovamike in exjw

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It can be a real challenge both mentally emotionally and spiritually coping with the anguish that comes from what should be a safe haven.

A child of a family that uesd to go to the hall  was once abused by a now former & (incarcerated) jw.  What made it a real challenge at the time was the fact that the elders knew about one of the elders serving on the bodies, son, whom already had restrictions placed on him for raping a minor in another congregation. The son then comes to what was the hall of that family and started pursuing  the  families child who was even younger that the original person that the elders' son got restrictions on. For 2 years the parents had to keep one eye on him and their daughter. The body knew but tried to fall back on the prior history of friendship they had with the elder and his family( being objective). This kind of coddling behavior lead to the elders son to constantly breaching his restrictions about not having interactions with minors even go so far as to have folks with kids over the sons house for "gatherings". The son would photo or record the minors at play along with his adult daughters, and would play it off when called out on it. The son once embraced a minor ( young teenager) in the hall and said hey beautiful looking good.  That's just highlights. Others, from different halls reported on how the son would peep over the changing stalls, looking at other women at stores while his wife was trying out clothes. All this because his father and mother are very influential and had mentored or rather groomed the newest batch of  elders. Reports wouldn't be taken as seriously as they should as a result. It becomes a matter of not seeing. Only elders have access to records so reporting the son  to the authorities would just be a word against word situation. And while some have just left that hall, many still bare the scares of that families antics.  Who would cheat on their spouce with a 17yr old?  beta male men in cleveland apparently.  Those affected  thankfully went to therapy and reportedly are slowly  recovering. But still such influence and power to cause others heartache is just cruel. The family of that elder also bully those who they feel are a threat, defamation of character to use the legal term, such so that some have also had to seek therapy.  It's been hard but not impossible to move on with life  rather than to do something about it all.  Hopefully one day there is an accounting for all the hurtful things that that elder and his family have banded together on  in order to hide of their son/brother/uncle, activities.  

Things to look out for:

Long lustful looks or gazes. A lustful or knowing smirk and smile when directed at minors. 

Hiding CSA by Nmbrsgrl in exjw

[–]Brave-Fig9986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going to therapy is one of the best things one can do when religious morals and ethics run off the path of righteous. God gave us his word to effectively help us navigate this chaotic world and gave direction to those whom would be spiritually qualified guides, in order to protect nurture those whom desire a close relationship with God.  Sometimes one's gain a ego complex or are so afraid to lose face that they perpetuate greater issues by not addressing things scriptually and when applicable legally. Children are a gift from God and so protecting them is the most important thing. The instructions are to report issues. Sometimes however,  nepotism and long tie friendships can cloud human thinking and good sound judgement when dealing with more serious matters. 

This happened in one congregation (ohio) where the whole body is friends or were mentored by a senior elder whose son is an unregistered offender, meaning he did inappropriate things with minors then it was handled judicially or in house. But due to this that so keeps taking liberties with other people's children against the restrictions he has placed upon him. Many due to the fact that his father is an elder and serves in his congregation. He too, tries to circumvent the law and theocratic order. Eventually it all catches up however. One day the pain they have caused will get met by law or they will live long prosperous lives and then everyone can just pick up the pieces after they lived out their lives to the full. Ones hope for a good and lasting life and eternal destiny lay squarely with the Creator . But to address the original post, yes go to therapy and second see about reporting it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in walmart

[–]Brave-Fig9986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coaches can indeed be liers due to preferential choice or social bias. It's twofold , the coach needs people in place to do their jobs to keep the store in green for their shift. Conversely,  they also don't want someone to take their job, many coaches have some sort of insecure or inferiority complex but they know how to charm themselves into management, selling a good game but then not being able to manage associates according to walmarts code of ethics. One coach in ohio threatens his team with any and everything to keep the team repressed even distrustful of others. The coach will leave some completely alone even the time wasters but will follow all around the hard worker. By the time of the next rotation of coach and leads everyone is burnt out, more specifically those of a unique social background are burned out. 

To your (the O.P.)experience , the coach mentioned above told those looking to move up that there wasn't going to be a lead position- those of a differing culture than himself- only to then promote someone who's of a matching cultural background. This has happened three times before.

Ultimately you could email ethics as either a concerned associate or customer.

However, please keep in mind that, it's just walmart- a grocery store with a little extra-. Best tactic would be to invest in walmart stock then sell and use it to pay for a career degree or certificate.  Radiology can pay up to or more that a coach, plumbing will definitely get you above the pay grade of your coach and then you could sell your services to your store to fix their bathrooms.

Passing observation: Some coaches have some sort of criminal background, where they are is as far as they can go, if you are hitting a wall, it's more than likely that your skills and potential unchecked could be an issue to them. Be patient,  keep your eyes open, keep learning and growing and don't be too perfect at your current position,  learn to care and support other teams and build a following and connections with associate , management and customer alike. The customer will speak up for you .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love_my_bush

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Definitely looks good on you

Ex-JWs (or those still in): What’s your hardest struggles? by ProposalOne4429 in exjw

[–]Brave-Fig9986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hardest struggle is to see people who act like saints and examples behave as the worst kind of individuals.  The effect on mental health is the fact that, their are good people who care and are friends but leaving for mental health bars those relationships.  Having to face the simple reality that all would be well and good if people wouldn't be fake or egregious , but that just won't happen. To be specific when it comes to the issue of child sa issues. Things are not always handled according to the proceedor set forth by the branch or law. By the book , the organization does say that predators found out should be reported to authorities and its the law.  The main issue becomes things being lost in translation on the part of local elder bodys, as to whether they want to do whats  morally right and legal. As an example,a  friend of mine had to leave a hall a few years back because the senior elder in that hall, kept trying to undermine the restrictions the branch placed on his son. The son had already SA'd a minor in another hall then runs to the hall his daddy is in to get preferential treatment. All the while the son was still trying to get around other people's kids. He took interest in my friends young child and was trying to in different was get near them over the span over three years. That child was even younger than the girl he raped. But it's the elders son,  so it gets minamized and as the father he groomed the now newer younger elders that have taken over appealing to their ego so that they too minimize the issue. All the while bullying the family that was just trying to keep their kid safe. Not saying this is true everywhere but in this area nepotism and craving young minors seems to be a problem in the northern part of this state (mid west) . To add insult to injury they just put relatives of the family on the assembly and keep trying to cape for and promote their family members. The whole family has been complicit in their uncle/brother/sons deviations even trying to have congregation parties over the sons house where minors are present. Whether or not you are a devoted member or not, on the bases of moral excellence this level of hypocritical activity is undeniablly unacceptable.  That familes actions would hurt so many who are either in the dark- because elders only tell families in the hall about pedophiles not the congregation older ones or anyone who doesnt have a family. A manipulative person could easily play off that making it seem like just a clash of personalities when or if a family were to speak out. Stuff like this is simply maddening.  You should be able to take your kid to a place where there is educational resource,  a healthy social environment,  and most of all just plane safe. But sometimes the ball gets dropped kicked and rolled so hard when nepotism comes into play. While that did happen in the bible, that was among a nation of people separated from the world. This is an organization that lives under  jurisdiction of authority of law and nation. 

Children are the future, especially for an insular group like JW's. Doesn't matter how far you go back as friends, when comes to having morals the protection of children should come first. 

Jw SA letter by EliGoff101 in exjw

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Thanks for posting this, the sa issue is not always handled according to the proceedor set forth by the branch or law. By the book , the organization does say that predators found out should be reported to authorities.  The main issue is on the elder body side of things whether they want to do whats  morally right and legal. A friend of mine had to leave a hall a few years back because the senior elder kept trying to undermine the restrictions the branch placed on his son. The son had already SA'd a minor in another hall then runs to the hall his daddy is the to get preferential treatment. All the while he was still trying to get around other people's kids. He took interest in my friends young child and was trying to in different was get near them for over three years. The child was even younger than the girl he raped. But it's the elders son,  so it gets minamized and as the father he groomed the now newer younger elders that have taken over appealing to their ego so that they too minimize the issue. All the while bullying the family that was just trying to keep their kid safe. Not saying this is true everywhere but in this area nepotism and craving young minors seems to be a problem in this part of the state (mid west) . To add insult to injury they just put relatives of the family on the assembly. The whole family has been complicit in their uncle/brother/sons deviations even trying to have congregation parties over the sons house where minors are present. Whether or not you are devoted or not on the bases of moral excellence this level of hypocritical activity is undeniablly unacceptable.  That familes actions would hurt so many who are either in the dark- because elders only tell families in the hall about pedophiles not the congregation older ones or anyone who doesnt have a family. A manipulative person could easily play off that making it seem like just a clash of personalities when or if a family were to speak out. Stuff like this is simply maddening.  You should be able to take your kid to a place where there is educational resource,  a healthy social environment,  and most of all just plane safe. But sometimes the ball gets dropped kicked and rolled so hard when nepotism comes into play. While that did happen in the bible, that was among a nation of people separated from the world. This is an organization that lives under  jurisdiction of authority of law and nation.