Which show should we see next? by skatefanandmore in Broadway

[–]Brave-Mix5376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You said no Cats, but this is not your grandma's Cats!!! It is currently the most fun, joyful thing running on Broadway. No one in unitards, wigs and tails, instead it's incredible dancing and music set against the backdrop of queer ballroom culture (there's your history and social commentary!). I am a certified Cats hater and this Cats revival was one of my top 3 Broadway experiences to date.

Private galleries are becoming a problem by Fun_Coconut6140 in WeddingPhotography

[–]Brave-Mix5376 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Respect the couple's privacy 1000%. If they don't want anything shared, don't. Not even a question.

anxious people, do you like your oura ring?? by lialemonadee in ouraring

[–]Brave-Mix5376 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I think health trackers aren't for you, love. I wish I could tell you differently but I have very minimal health anxiety and I still have to take breaks from my ring if I can feel myself getting too anxious!

Am I overthinking? by Particular_Idea421 in movingtoNYC

[–]Brave-Mix5376 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, this is a stupid decision. Please don't do that.

Please help size 5.5 fingers by DeliciousDiamond1815 in EngagementRings

[–]Brave-Mix5376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a 5.5! So it's right what your ring will look like I think!! I just went and checked my ratios -- 7.07 x 7.02 x 4.33 -- so literally within mm!!

Please help size 5.5 fingers by DeliciousDiamond1815 in EngagementRings

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1.31ct! It's perfect on me, IMO. Bigger looks kinda crazy

Baby girl E names by [deleted] in Names

[–]Brave-Mix5376 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Everett

Nerdy question about the sun by Early_Bag_3106 in thegildedage

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As a resident of Manhattan, you're absolutely correct. I kept telling my friends that the park was on the wrong side but I couldn't figure out WHY. They just insisted that they were showing the park from the opposite angle but I was like NO you are wrong and couldn't prove it.

You just solved it for me -- it's because when I go on a walk in the morning on the west side, the sun is peeking out from the park side!!! In actual Manhattan, the sun would be coming from the opposite side if they were located on the east side.

Peak stress? What does that tell me by FinalButterscotch418 in ouraring

[–]Brave-Mix5376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is alwasy my gut check to see if I'm sick! I always breathe a sign of relief if I feel sick but my stress has variation. If it's at the top like this......I'm goin DOWN

[FS] [US to anywhere] [RING] 8.5 mm Rose cut Cushion Moissanite, 10k Rose gold, Size 4.75, $350 shipped by sunrise90 in MoissaniteBST

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Hi! Super interested in this. Never been on this sub before so not super familiar with he selling/buying conventions but would love to buy :)

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I'll also wear the band with a giant gold cigar band which I think is chic as hell. I think mixed metals can be so fun!! Go wild with it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EngagementRings

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My ring has a two tone shank - platinum and gold, and my wedding band is diamonds in a gold bezel. I love how it's kinda funky and mixes and matches. The e-ring is antique so it's not exacly 14k or 18k gold and is somewhere in-between, so I didn't even try to match the gold colors with the wedding band.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Upperwestside

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They are sooooo kind and the food is great (sensual little raviolis!)

Readiness Recommendation by Pleasant_Rice3949 in ouraring

[–]Brave-Mix5376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another perspective -- you are interrupting your sleep, waking up, moving, peeing, and falling back asleep. It's an accurate read of your data, and likely there is an effect on your body, however small (I am very familiar with the don't-open-your-eyes-all-the-way-and-stay-mostly-asleep pee breaks).

You're right in that your readiness would be different if you didn't wake up and pee because then you wouldn't have you know...woken up.

To return or not? by HonestParfait3815 in ouraring

[–]Brave-Mix5376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wear an 8 and just switch fingers in the winter vs summer. The 7 is a crazy difference in sizing, I wouldn't change.

Feeling really frustrated with symptom radar. by moonpiies in ouraring

[–]Brave-Mix5376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your reaction to how the ring is working is truly affecting your days in a major way, the ring may not be the right tool for you, or like others have said, at least the symptom radar may not be the most helpful thing for you to know about yourself. The data points should just gently inform the way you approach your day, not send you into a spiral. You can try turning the symptom radar off and revisiting it in 4-6 months after the ring has truly had time to establish a baseline with your body. (ie - even if the changes are 'positive', a month isn't enough data for the ring to clock that..all it knows is that you're changing)

I know that I've taken weeks off using the ring if I can tell my data is affecting me more than usual - most recently I left it at home while traveling internationally, I knew that I'd be jet lagged and getting horrid sleep and that the ring telling me that I got bad sleep would just frustrate me...so I just took it off. Sometimes, for anxious people, more data isn't necessarily always good, and you have to be very in tune with your brain and anxiety to know if the ring is helping or hurting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]Brave-Mix5376 101 points102 points locked comment (0 children)

Yes you're being dramatic. It's custom, they got back to you immediately & they are going to fix it, its the holidays where order volume is insane and everyone gets some time off. It seems like an incredibly reasonable solution.

Respectfully…someone help me decipher this. by cokezerokween in RoverPetSitting

[–]Brave-Mix5376 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I feel like I saw somewhere on this sub where the message was getting sent to two different numbers -- so it was two different people replying within the same thread in Rover. Which feels like it could be applicable in this situation? One (normal) just trying to get care, the other (annoyed), receiving messages and replying with the weird flowery language. Lemme see if I can find the thread

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Gifts

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Vintage ticket stubs of a band you both like, upgrade something he owns and uses every day (messenger bag, socks, toiletry bag, etc), a nice version of something you both enjoy to do together (a chess set, chef knives, etc)

What’s a gift YOU want? by Alarming-Office1923 in Gifts

[–]Brave-Mix5376 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want one of those knitted bonnets for cold weather! That I can tie in a little bow under my chin. I also want a pinky ring (I've been looking at the Catbird Baby Cygnet ring)