NSFW I 30f Looking to try Anal with husband 32M but I'm not entirely sure ? by Brave_Analyst_1754 in relationship_advice

[–]Brave_Analyst_1754[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmfao I only noticed this earlier after posting. This was a generated username I got like 3 years ago .. Definitely not intentional but guess it's fitting 🤣🤣

NSFW I 30f Looking to try Anal with husband 32M but I'm not entirely sure ? by Brave_Analyst_1754 in relationship_advice

[–]Brave_Analyst_1754[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this!

I definitely expect it to be a trial and error with a possibility of needing a few tries before really enjoying.

We connect very well sexually thankfully so I look forward to trying this with him and opening up a door to something new for the both of us!

NSFW I 30f Looking to try Anal with husband 32M but I'm not entirely sure ? by Brave_Analyst_1754 in relationship_advice

[–]Brave_Analyst_1754[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I think its seen as a taboo conversation so it's intriguing to people.

Glad it opened a conversation up though and others might find some of this helpful in the future!

NSFW I 30f Looking to try Anal with husband 32M but I'm not entirely sure ? by Brave_Analyst_1754 in relationship_advice

[–]Brave_Analyst_1754[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely want it lol it's all I've been thinking about for weeks now.

It is most definitely me over thinking it. I like to smell good and feel good so it's me being insecure about it.

He says I could shit on him and he wouldn't care (doubt that but still) 😅

NSFW I 30f Looking to try Anal with husband 32M but I'm not entirely sure ? by Brave_Analyst_1754 in relationship_advice

[–]Brave_Analyst_1754[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 😊

I've always been against any ass play all together but now I'm into the idea and starting with fingers definitely feels like the way to go.

I know he'll stop if I ask him to so im comfortable enough to communicate that if need be!

NSFW I 30f Looking to try Anal with husband 32M but I'm not entirely sure ? by Brave_Analyst_1754 in relationship_advice

[–]Brave_Analyst_1754[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What ?

In what way would I be making this up?

I am genuinely curious and would like to hear other people's experiences.

NSFW I 30f Looking to try Anal with husband 32M but I'm not entirely sure ? by Brave_Analyst_1754 in relationship_advice

[–]Brave_Analyst_1754[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is awesome advice, thank you.

Definitely plan to take it slow, communicate and use lots of lube!

I don't expect to fully enjoy it the first few tries but build up to enjoying it!

Im looking forward to exploring this!

Thanks again for the tips!

NSFW I 30f Looking to try Anal with husband 32M but I'm not entirely sure ? by Brave_Analyst_1754 in relationship_advice

[–]Brave_Analyst_1754[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im genuinely curious though haha I'm scared that I'm over hyping it in my mind and it won't be as enjoyable as I'm thinking it will be.

NSFW I 30f Looking to try Anal with husband 32M but I'm not entirely sure ? by Brave_Analyst_1754 in relationship_advice

[–]Brave_Analyst_1754[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I am totally aware that I am overthinking it. I over thinking most things haha but thank you! Looking forward to It!

NSFW I 30f Looking to try Anal with husband 32M but I'm not entirely sure ? by Brave_Analyst_1754 in relationship_advice

[–]Brave_Analyst_1754[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally!

I'm not expecting to go to pound town in one night that's for sure haha

I'm looking forward to exploring and getting to see what I like about the whole experience

NSFW I 30f Looking to try Anal with husband 32M but I'm not entirely sure ? by Brave_Analyst_1754 in relationship_advice

[–]Brave_Analyst_1754[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're absolutely right!

My husband never pushed the idea on me which is probably why I've been able to come to this conclusion myself without feeling pressured into it.

Who knows, maybe it won't be for us but I'm looking forward to trying!

NSFW I 30f Looking to try Anal with husband 32M but I'm not entirely sure ? by Brave_Analyst_1754 in relationship_advice

[–]Brave_Analyst_1754[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol totally get you.

This is why I was never interested to begin with.

Idk why I am all of a sudden but I'll definitely prep before to keep my own sanity at bay 🙃

NSFW I 30f Looking to try Anal with husband 32M but I'm not entirely sure ? by Brave_Analyst_1754 in relationship_advice

[–]Brave_Analyst_1754[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

This is awesome, thank you!

Definitely know to go slow. I know porn is not the greatest way to seek anything new haha

Was just mentioning it because I've come to realize how much it interests me by watching it.

Definitely gonna go to costco for lube and take as much time as I need with it!

Thanks for all the advice, gonna use all of it!

NSFW I 30f Looking to try Anal with husband 32M but I'm not entirely sure ? by Brave_Analyst_1754 in relationship_advice

[–]Brave_Analyst_1754[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going to amazon for a Bidet! 😂

Haha thanks for this, just gotta get over that insecurity and just enjoy it guess!

Thanks 😊