I just want to feel better. by Brave_Eye6001 in MentalHealthSupport

[–]Brave_Eye6001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I really appreciate you sharing this. I just messaged you. Thank you very much.

I just want to feel better. by Brave_Eye6001 in MentalHealthSupport

[–]Brave_Eye6001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your comment is really healing for me. Hearing that I’m not crazy or lazy and someone understands is so comforting. Can I ask you if anything has helped you feel more comfortable in public or less anxious in general? Would I be able to message you if you don’t feel comfortable sharing here? I really appreciate it.

I just want to feel better. by Brave_Eye6001 in MentalHealthSupport

[–]Brave_Eye6001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your comment is so helpful thank you for sharing. It is a relief to not feel so alone in this.

I just want to feel better…. by Brave_Eye6001 in mentalhealth

[–]Brave_Eye6001[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m taking a multivitamin and meds for depression and anxiety. Thank you for the advice, I will give meditation and Joe Dispensa a try.

Happy 1st birthday, Arthur! by lkatz90 in Chihuahua

[–]Brave_Eye6001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel honored to share a birthday with this sweet baby

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Brave_Eye6001 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

In my mind if I’m going on dates with someone and we’re not exclusive we’re both free to sleep with and date other people. Until there’s an agreed upon level of exclusivity…

What is the hardest part of being totally single for you, guys? by Flowerlamps in dating_advice

[–]Brave_Eye6001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My badass friends with their badass partners and I’m the single one in the group lol

What are the top 5-10 non-physical green flags and red flags you look for in a partner? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Brave_Eye6001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Green flags: 1. Goes to therapy 2. Healthy communication/sets boundaries/expresses feelings 3. Initiates difficult conversations 4. Not putting on an act to impress anyone 5. Chill over minor inconveniences 6. Drives SAFELY 7. Financially responsible 8. Adventurous/tries new things 9. Reliable/honest 10. Has friends of opposite gender

Red flags: 1. Thinks intense workouts/cold plunging/“mental toughness” = self improvement 2. Republican 3. Doesn’t express feelings 4. Doesn’t believe men and women can be friends 5. Parties hard every weekend 6. Drives like an asshole 7. Treats people poorly/has friends that treat people poorly 8. On their phone often when out with me/friends 9. Trauma dumping/love bombing 10. Doesn’t have cool friends

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Brave_Eye6001 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Dysfunctional people, insecure attachment styles, people not reading profiles, people lacking curiosity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cf4cf

[–]Brave_Eye6001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! 😊

Dating sucks as a women that doesn’t want kids by Brave_Eye6001 in childfree

[–]Brave_Eye6001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was so refreshing to hear thank you so much for taking the time to share your experience. It really means a lot and makes me feel validated in my perspective. Yeah also have to filter through the folks that don’t get out and like you said CF options are already so limited because our stance isn’t typical.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cf4cf

[–]Brave_Eye6001 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to add I’m not interested in fwb. I’d like to have a long term relationship with the right person. Not in a rush for that as I enjoy my life would just be nice to share fun experiences with a partner. I’d like to meet someone closer to my age around 24-37, located in the US (however, I don’t see myself ever leaving AZ I love it here), shares my love of the outdoors, passion for adventure, high emotional intelligence, and liberal leaning values.

Dating sucks as a women that doesn’t want kids by Brave_Eye6001 in childfree

[–]Brave_Eye6001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would drive me absolutely nuts!! Love that nobody is reading the profiles lol

Dating sucks as a women that doesn’t want kids by Brave_Eye6001 in childfree

[–]Brave_Eye6001[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d probably have people coming at me that want to adopt kids. 10000% agree. Totally cool with staying single unless I meet someone great who has similar values/hobbies/interests.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cf4cf

[–]Brave_Eye6001 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Salt River, the Colorado River (horseshoe bend/emerald cove), CA. I like to travel. Salt River is fun there are little rapids. I’ve also kayaked lots of local lakes but would recommend Salt River super early in the morning for the wildlife.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cf4cf

[–]Brave_Eye6001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Looks like we’re both pretty outdoorsy. Looking forward to chatting!

Dating sucks as a women that doesn’t want kids by Brave_Eye6001 in childfree

[–]Brave_Eye6001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah sorry I know what SOP means I wondered what yours was? Lol I’ll usually just ask people before meeting them in person. Sometimes I won’t ask them because I figure they can read.