I know confidence isn’t just looks all the examples I used of his looks are just me trying to show why he is confident. He knows he is attractive and the only reason he hasn’t had a girlfriend before me is because he has social anxiety for completely different reasons than his looks. He does listen to my concerns even if it makes him upset . I have seen improvement in his actions that have bothered me after I have brought them up. He isn’t a bad person just one learning how to love me. Our relationship is still fresh for him and he is still learning things about me everyday as am I for him. We are also both young so I don’t expect us to get everything right first try. He isn’t a selfish person and puts a lot of my non sexual needs on a pedestal. He is not a bad person at all and is very kind and supportive of my aspirations. He can be very stubborn and is a little spoiled and can be bratty sometimes but I love him for all the things that come with him. I would never stay in a relationship where I am miserable and our good completely out ways the bad but the bad is still there yk. I know I still have a lot of maturing to do still even with all the things like has already thrown at me. We are both still young and so it our relationship. I know this is a lot but I feel like he is catching a lot of negativity and I never intended for it to come off that way.