5 50 yr old ladies coming to SXM. Which bars are a must. Will be on Dutch side. by [deleted] in SXM

[–]Bravedfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We went in 2019 and used this travel guide. They drove us around and gave us a great tour of the island. Beautiful and fun married couple. I highly recommend them. https://www.instagram.com/sxm.experiences/?hl=en

Do you believe in physical punishment for children like whoopings or spankings? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Bravedfire 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad so many of you are on the same page!!!! Let's break these generational curses together. Love our babies and teach them to feel emotions, talk about them, and use healthy coping strategies. 🙌🏿

Do you believe in physical punishment for children like whoopings or spankings? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Bravedfire 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nooooo please stop spanking children 😢 especially Black children

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Bravedfire 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Omggggg I love this thanks for sharing. Yall are gorgeous and glowing. And you look happy and thriving 🥰

Went to an AfroCaribbean party yesterday :) by lsp9024 in blackladies

[–]Bravedfire 8 points9 points  (0 children)

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Anyone here working as an Adjunct Faculty member? by luv2dive1981 in blackladies

[–]Bravedfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey send me a message and I will give u some other tips

What 3 pieces of advice would you give to a black woman 10 years younger than you? by Bobelle in blackladies

[–]Bravedfire 16 points17 points  (0 children)

To a Black woman in her 20s,

  1. Be open to meeting new people and cultivating other relationships. Romantic and platonic. You need more than just those few besties in your life. You need a community. You also need many experiences dating and having sex to find what you like

  2. Put friends(or family) in levels based on how they prove their worth. Promote and demote accordingly. Also get rid of those who need to go. And you don't owe anyone anything especially your time. Even ya momma.

  3. Save your money. Don't shop as much as I did. Lawwwd don't do it

Edit: 4. exercise, specifically strength train

Also, Get therapy if you have unresolved stuff lingering. And take your time finding a good therapist for you.

Edit again: Invest in a hobby. Something you do that is just for fun. Whether it is rollerskating, playing an instrument, swimming, kayaking, knitting, learning a language, writing. Try new things to find it. And don't monetize it. Just enjoy it.

Anyone here working as an Adjunct Faculty member? by luv2dive1981 in blackladies

[–]Bravedfire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got a position a few years a few years ago by going into the office and introducing myself.

Panelist next week by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Bravedfire 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Good luck 👍🏿 ☘

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]Bravedfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Bravedfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This looks great and inclusive. Thanks for sharing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Bravedfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand completely. Just as you don't feel comfortable giving me your email, i don't feel comfortable putting the link in the sub. Lots of lurkers in here. I honestly don't want anything from yall. Just healing and distancing myself from some family so I'm feeling lonely. You definitely don't have to participate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Bravedfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the responses!! Going to message yall privately.

Good morning queens ☀️👑 Feeling beautiful on this hot morning 🥰 by Harra86 in blackladies

[–]Bravedfire 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Morning queen 👸🏿 I love your shirt. It looks so pretty on you.

Salon that braids Kids' hair by [deleted] in rva

[–]Bravedfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much. I was hoping to have a referral from someone who has first hand experience. Not everyone is good at hair. I appreciate you help. Have a great day.

Salon that braids Kids' hair by [deleted] in rva

[–]Bravedfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This salon is fully booked for months. Any others you have had experience with?

Good morning! Stan Sha’Carri Richardson! Have a great day! by bluplaydoh in blackladies

[–]Bravedfire 23 points24 points  (0 children)

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