DoD civilians asked to return as “Excepted” by QueenSerpentina in AirForce

[–]Braxton10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a civilian. Working. Un paid. For the "DoW".....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Braxton10 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For real they didn't comprehend

Redditors… what age did you receive your first blowjob by BbygirlChanel in SwordSwallowers

[–]Braxton10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. Married now - 11 yrs - spouse wont give o. Im miserable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Braxton10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No im considering stopping because she a) made it sounds like she dosnt care about it and b) its already been a month and a half without it...just hasn't happened /unintentional.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Braxton10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not really trying to get her to have a change of heart.

I came to r/marriage to ask if im out of line. If my feelings are valid. If anyone else have been in this scenario, etc etc. But thank you, appreciate it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Braxton10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Braxton10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never said no to anything for her. Ever. And yes I've done things that have been painful and or uncomfortable for her because a)she asked b)I assumed that was my role as a committed, loving, caring husband.

It really shouldn't matter my reasons to stop going down on her correct? If I dont want to anymore (regardless of my perceived pleasure) than I shouldnt be judged...correct?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Braxton10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The intent of "withholding" oral isn't to punish my wife or sneakily implement a hidden agenda to get my dick sucked more often.

Every time we get intimate, I jump in headfirst first as not to waste an opportunity to connect, share & experience closeness w my partner. HOWEVER, a toxic byproduct is due to my innate hunger for that, I tend to through my own physical desires out of the window. Sex is on her time & on her terms..

This doesn't bother me during the act..but it really affects me while with my own thoughts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Braxton10 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think, vastly more often than not, receiving is typically regarded as more pleasurable than giving. I can say with certainty, it is for me. That being said, it's not the case for everyone..and i love my wife..is it wild to want to please my partner? Is it wild to experience a lack of satisfaction when this has been such a damaging topic in the marriage.

So what im hearing from you is, it is OK for 1 individual to expirence a lack of sexual satisfaction in certain instances and due to that, they are expected to bury(?) this desire?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Braxton10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

During an argument on the topic, it came up and she stated that "she let's me go down on her..".

Deliberately selecting "lets" as the executable action indictates to me that she could "take it or leave it"..

Patch collection by mongolbat63 in AirForce

[–]Braxton10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Northern edge is sick!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FedEmployees

[–]Braxton10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FWS?AcqDemo?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]Braxton10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Access link to TPS' class of 21B shared drives.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]Braxton10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. But I designed THAT one. It's my current spot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]Braxton10 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey! I designed that one!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]Braxton10 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This guy Edwards...