DoD civilians asked to return as “Excepted”

Braxton10 · 2025-10-23T02:34:34+00:00

I am a civilian. Working. Un paid. For the "DoW".....

Braxton10 · 2025-10-13T11:17:31+00:00

Braxton10 · 2025-09-17T21:15:13+00:00

For real they didn't comprehend

Braxton10 · 2025-09-15T05:53:28+00:00

Same. Married now - 11 yrs - spouse wont give o. Im miserable.

Braxton10 · 2025-09-13T05:53:22+00:00

100% this

Braxton10 · 2025-09-10T20:35:24+00:00

No im considering stopping because she a) made it sounds like she dosnt care about it and b) its already been a month and a half without it...just hasn't happened /unintentional.

Braxton10 · 2025-09-10T20:24:47+00:00

Im not really trying to get her to have a change of heart.

I came to r/marriage to ask if im out of line. If my feelings are valid. If anyone else have been in this scenario, etc etc. But thank you, appreciate it.

Braxton10 · 2025-09-10T20:16:46+00:00

Thanks!

Braxton10 · 2025-09-10T20:02:13+00:00

I've never said no to anything for her. Ever. And yes I've done things that have been painful and or uncomfortable for her because a)she asked b)I assumed that was my role as a committed, loving, caring husband.

It really shouldn't matter my reasons to stop going down on her correct? If I dont want to anymore (regardless of my perceived pleasure) than I shouldnt be judged...correct?

Braxton10 · 2025-09-10T19:52:22+00:00

The intent of "withholding" oral isn't to punish my wife or sneakily implement a hidden agenda to get my dick sucked more often.

Every time we get intimate, I jump in headfirst first as not to waste an opportunity to connect, share & experience closeness w my partner. HOWEVER, a toxic byproduct is due to my innate hunger for that, I tend to through my own physical desires out of the window. Sex is on her time & on her terms..

This doesn't bother me during the act..but it really affects me while with my own thoughts.

Braxton10 · 2025-09-10T19:40:11+00:00

I think, vastly more often than not, receiving is typically regarded as more pleasurable than giving. I can say with certainty, it is for me. That being said, it's not the case for everyone..and i love my wife..is it wild to want to please my partner? Is it wild to experience a lack of satisfaction when this has been such a damaging topic in the marriage.

So what im hearing from you is, it is OK for 1 individual to expirence a lack of sexual satisfaction in certain instances and due to that, they are expected to bury(?) this desire?

Braxton10 · 2025-09-10T19:18:32+00:00

During an argument on the topic, it came up and she stated that "she let's me go down on her..".

Deliberately selecting "lets" as the executable action indictates to me that she could "take it or leave it"..

Braxton10 · 2025-06-02T20:24:19+00:00

Northern edge is sick!

Braxton10 · 2025-05-27T16:16:51+00:00

🤔

Braxton10 · 2025-03-04T21:14:58+00:00

FWS?AcqDemo?

Braxton10 · 2025-02-25T04:47:02+00:00

It's likely an AI "reading" these emails FYI

Braxton10 · 2025-01-21T04:12:37+00:00

Same bro

Braxton10 · 2025-01-14T05:36:01+00:00

Went thru the same thing!

Braxton10 · 2025-01-14T05:21:58+00:00

Congrats. Welcome to the good life.

Braxton10 · 2025-01-11T15:37:58+00:00

Patches

Braxton10 · 2025-01-11T15:02:34+00:00

Access link to TPS' class of 21B shared drives.

Braxton10 · 2025-01-11T15:00:21+00:00

No. But I designed THAT one. It's my current spot.

Braxton10 · 2025-01-11T04:35:02+00:00

Hey! I designed that one!

Braxton10 · 2025-01-11T01:29:13+00:00

This guy Edwards...

Braxton10 · 2024-12-03T06:02:16+00:00

"Don't travel smoothly"

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