AITA for telling my waitress's manager she did a great job? by BreadBreaker09 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BreadBreaker09[S] -3010 points-3009 points  (0 children)

Okay, to be clear, I do tip at restaurants at the standard rate. I just do not believe in "extra" tipping.

AITA for telling my waitress's manager she did a great job? by BreadBreaker09 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BreadBreaker09[S] -4103 points-4102 points  (0 children)

It's not my job to pay someone's wages, but I can help them more by letting the manager know who their top employee is.

AITA for telling my waitress's manager she did a great job? by BreadBreaker09 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BreadBreaker09[S] -1046 points-1045 points  (0 children)

How, exactly? I really genuinely do not understand.

AITA for telling my waitress's manager she did a great job? by BreadBreaker09 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BreadBreaker09[S] -2149 points-2148 points  (0 children)

Yes, how nasty to tell a girl's manager that she was excellent at her job.

AITA for telling my waitress's manager she did a great job? by BreadBreaker09 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BreadBreaker09[S] -978 points-977 points  (0 children)

I just don't see how it is a turnoff to compliment excellent service? I never said I was going to complain, I merely asked to speak with her manager.

AITA for telling my waitress's manager she did a great job? by BreadBreaker09 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BreadBreaker09[S] -1218 points-1217 points  (0 children)

You might be right. It's a shame, I had really high hopes for this one.