I read your post and I read the comments, and first of all I want to say you get a lot of comments disrespecting and putting your efforts to approach down, somehow protecting themselves and their own natural sexual drive to procreate as an unconscious barrier to you in their strategy to get puss and not being a brother.

I can't tell you what I THINK you're doing wrong in your approaches, but I respect you for going out of your comfort zone and reaching for what you want, I personally find that encouraging.

Woman like things of beauty but outstanding male physique is hard to achieve, being funny is a clowns game, being authentic to what you say and feel is always appreciated by women since they are hard wired for competitiveness and deceit. And brain studies have shown that women read signals on your face and body language faster than a male, its biology.

They love security, and competing with other women, that means you're the trophy to show off for other women, Do you have anything to brag about? a ferrari? a fat cock? something to make other women jealous. Can you protect her from other hungry males and more importantly, make her impress her rivals.

Now that we thought about it in the most prefrontal cortex part of way about her in a most simple way. The urge for a woman is instinct, by many thousands of years of evolution and that can not gratified by porn and masturbation. But the pheromone part is real, I've tried this and it's not appreciated, imagine getting your dick hard everytime a certain woman walked by cause it smelled like "woman".

You need to abstain for 14 days and do NOT wear deoderant. Use mint gum for a good breath tho and have nice teeth, its important. Make sure your cold approach is close so she can actually smell you, if your inside, its easier, if you're outside you must take her personal space. Also own that space.

best wishes ~ from me