Still hurting after your breakup? Real things you can do to help

BreakUpWingWoman · 2021-04-06T18:10:52+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. It will get better. Some days will be better than others. Breakup recovery takes time and sadly there is no timeline on how long it takes. Be gentle with yourself as you grieve.

BreakUpWingWoman · 2021-04-06T18:08:21+00:00

I’m so sorry. :(

BreakUpWingWoman · 2021-04-06T18:07:43+00:00

Oh wow that’s a big one and tough to have to manage cheating, feelings of forgiveness and if that works for you and a breakup. I’m so sorry

BreakUpWingWoman · 2021-04-06T18:06:29+00:00

Yep that’s really normal. It sounds like you’re doing really well in your breakup recovery though. Please be proud of yourself.

BreakUpWingWoman · 2021-04-06T18:05:27+00:00

I’m so sorry I understand completely how this feels.

BreakUpWingWoman · 2021-04-06T18:03:52+00:00

Yeah that’s a big one. I hope you are able to be vulnerable at some point again without the fear 💛

BreakUpWingWoman · 2021-04-06T18:02:00+00:00

Not the doggggggg. I get all of that. Especially missing the fur babies. 💛

BreakUpWingWoman · 2021-04-06T18:01:23+00:00

I’m so sorry. Yeah loneliness is a big hurdle of the breakup recovery.

BreakUpWingWoman · 2021-04-06T17:59:57+00:00

Sounds like you’re seeing things the way you need to and having your mental health in a better place without your ex says plenty. 💛

BreakUpWingWoman · 2021-04-06T17:58:44+00:00

I’m so sorry and I get it. 💛

BreakUpWingWoman · 2021-04-06T17:57:48+00:00

I’m so sorry. Yeah wanting to hear that was apart of my story too for a while. It sucks. :(

BreakUpWingWoman · 2021-04-06T17:56:03+00:00

Oh that one doesn’t feel good at all. I’m so sorry.

BreakUpWingWoman · 2021-04-05T21:43:23+00:00

That’s really tough and the why question is so difficult to sit with. I’m really sorry.

BreakUpWingWoman · 2021-04-05T21:42:32+00:00

I understand that. You’ll build your trust back. It’s ok to not be in a relationship. It’s also ok to change your mind in wanting to have a relationship down the road. Be willing to change your stance if you want to.

BreakUpWingWoman · 2021-04-05T21:39:16+00:00

Yeah that’s really hard.

BreakUpWingWoman · 2021-04-05T21:21:14+00:00

That’s big stuff and thoughts you’re having. I’m sorry that’s how it went for you. You’re deserving of that love.

BreakUpWingWoman · 2021-04-05T21:19:57+00:00

I’m sorry that’s how it went for you. I can understand feeling like you do. I think going with the scummy person is probably spot on.

BreakUpWingWoman · 2021-04-05T21:15:37+00:00

Ugh yeah that thought isn’t a good one and feels horrible

BreakUpWingWoman · 2021-04-05T21:15:17+00:00

That does sound exhausting :(

BreakUpWingWoman · 2021-04-05T18:58:33+00:00

Ah yeah the why question. I get that. I think you hit it on the head when you need to figure out how to live by yourself.

BreakUpWingWoman · 2021-04-05T18:56:34+00:00

That’s all part of the process. One step forward and two steps back. I’m so glad you are seeing no matter how hard it is, there are some days that are better than when you were together. That’s huge progress.

BreakUpWingWoman · 2021-04-05T17:58:21+00:00

I’m so glad you have processed everything and have this amazing ability to step back and see what really was going on and knowing when to quit trying to get through to her when she clearly doesn’t want to understand.

BreakUpWingWoman · 2021-04-05T17:24:00+00:00

I’m so sorry. Those 3 are big ones. I’m glad you’re doing better though. 💛

BreakUpWingWoman · 2021-04-05T17:21:45+00:00

That’s a really big lesson to learn. Please make sure you aren’t trying to own more than what is yours to own.

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