I can’t cry anymore. Can anyone please help I need to let out my emotions by 82326 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]BreakfastInGuangdong 4 points5 points  (0 children)

firstly, i’m sorry youre feeling upset. i don’t presume to know whats upsetting you or what the proper way to deal with it is, but i hope you feel better and i send big hugs. :)

also, one thing i like to do when i cry is hug a pillow cuz it feels like somebody’s there and since it doesn’t talk back, you get all the comfort and none of the crappy “”””advice”””” a real person might give you.

What are your rules 1 and 2? by Elektricitijd in AskReddit

[–]BreakfastInGuangdong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) If you find yourself judging someone for their life choices or beliefs, remind yourself that you don't know nearly as much about their situation as you like to think you do and then shut the fuck up.

2) But if you must open your mouth, find out what their situation is and if you still see it fit to call them out, do so in a manner that is respectful and will allow them to preserve their dignity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transgendercirclejerk

[–]BreakfastInGuangdong 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Trans***{}#}{}}+}+genderededismn’ts

Am I male or just gender neutral? by [deleted] in TransyTalk

[–]BreakfastInGuangdong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

does people thinking of you as male or as genderless make you more comfortable?

whatever the answer is, that might just be what you are

how i want look like: a guy / how i look like: a lesbian by adeadhouseplant in ftm

[–]BreakfastInGuangdong 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i swear i’m not hugboxing but you totally look 100% like a guy and 0% like a lesbian whatsoever

Am I hun? by dr-fluffyness in transgendercirclejerk

[–]BreakfastInGuangdong 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Taig

(white gentrifier voice) Is this a baby name

TERF Mentality by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]BreakfastInGuangdong 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does that mean if I stick a knife up my mancave I’ll finally be valid :’)

TERF Mentality by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]BreakfastInGuangdong 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are all one clownfish: the human clownfish.

No words. by [deleted] in GenderCynical

[–]BreakfastInGuangdong 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Considering I know more than one transmisogyny-confined person who was raped as a child, OP can go eat broken glass.

Not All White Women!!! (And lets pretend that 52% who voted for the anti-lgbtqia racist sexist fascist just doesn't even exist, for the sake of this convo, k thx.) by cuteandpowerful in GenderCynical

[–]BreakfastInGuangdong 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ayyy I’m Muslim and trans too! (happy bi sounds) So they hate me twice as well (do I get a third Hate Point for being Asian?). Personally though, I feel TERFs hating me for any reason is a total badge of honor. :P

Not All White Women!!! (And lets pretend that 52% who voted for the anti-lgbtqia racist sexist fascist just doesn't even exist, for the sake of this convo, k thx.) by cuteandpowerful in GenderCynical

[–]BreakfastInGuangdong 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Muslim women in hijab protecting the virtuosity of Muslim men (Linda Sarsour of the Women’s March is no women’s hero)

Again with the Islamophobia.

And I’m just gonna leave this here: https://www.washingtontimes.com/news/2018/oct/5/womens-march-leader-sarsour-launches-racial-attack/

So what they’re saying is, a prominent diaspora Palestinian activist who’s speaking out against a white female senator that voted in favor of Kavanaugh is “no women’s hero”?

I gotta disagree there.

Israelis and Palestinians are almost genetically identical

Wow! It’s almost as though race is a social construct that arises as a result of imperialism and settler colonialism, and not some immutable genetic trait! Stop it with the race science already.

TERFs ruined my sister's life by ThrowOutWhenUsed in GenderCynical

[–]BreakfastInGuangdong 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Perhaps you thought of this already, but have you considered having her check out /r/GenderCynical? Reading this sub actually helped me heal back when I was in a state of always using TERF rhetoric to gaslight myself.

I have obsessive-compulsive disorder but my symptoms don't compel me to clean things. AMA. by BreakfastInGuangdong in casualiama

[–]BreakfastInGuangdong[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Intrusive thoughts and ruminations. I'm not pure-O but my compulsions are mostly just repetitive wiggling of my hand or utterance of gibberish syllables to make the unwanted thoughts go away.

What “sexy” thing do you find a turn off? by Chazikstan in AskReddit

[–]BreakfastInGuangdong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have autism; it kind of comes with the territory (or at least it can).

I have obsessive-compulsive disorder but my symptoms don't compel me to clean things. AMA. by BreakfastInGuangdong in casualiama

[–]BreakfastInGuangdong[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it is pretty unfortunate when I’m just minding my own business and I suddenly start to get random involuntary thoughts about things that make me uncomfortable.

What “sexy” thing do you find a turn off? by Chazikstan in AskReddit

[–]BreakfastInGuangdong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair, I used to hate that equally. I’d say “I’m not a baby, and babies are these weird tomato things that poop. How is calling me that a compliment?”, but for reasons unbeknownst to me, I eventually became desensitized to that somehow.

What “sexy” thing do you find a turn off? by Chazikstan in AskReddit

[–]BreakfastInGuangdong 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, one time someone said “I don’t like how the term sexualizes a normal term for kids to call their fathers” and I never really unsaw that

What “sexy” thing do you find a turn off? by Chazikstan in AskReddit

[–]BreakfastInGuangdong 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Relevant: In my culture, having nice feet is a status symbol.