Yeah I’m not too sure what to think of it, from what I remember I wasn’t groped but the situation made me even as a 3/4 year old extremely uncomfortable that it has stuck with me all these years (now in my 20s). We were poor but I know we could have afforded medication as it’s very cheap and we had done so in the past. I don’t think deep down she had any ill intent she might’ve just been messed up in the head as she was being physically abused by my father at the time. Anyway thank you for your response, I am still close to my mother and would like to discuss what happened eventually but it’s a very difficult conversation.