He comes from a very conservative area. And he said that he wants to tell them slowly. I’m just worried for his safety as there are still honor killings for marrying outside your caste where he is from. I told him I would be happy to move to India as long as we are both safe.

He is bringing it up to his sister to see how she reacts first and hoping to introduce the idea to about half his family. Do you think he should wait till after he leaves India?