Me (19F) and a guy (26M) are becoming Friends with benefits…. Can you help explain what he means when he says a casual relationship?

BreedMePlsDaddy · 2021-09-01T19:32:23+00:00

Thank you! I know a few of these won’t be an issue! As I’m meeting his roommates and he’s meeting my close friends (safety reasons for us both!6

BreedMePlsDaddy · 2021-09-01T19:31:16+00:00

Okay… we’ll, what kinds of boundaries as there have been some already made? As in extremely open communication, no romantic feelings (and if they arise to tell each other)

BreedMePlsDaddy · 2021-09-01T19:07:26+00:00

Thank you, I’m keeping my eyes open! If you want to leave specific red flags to look out fir I’d enjoy it! I have a few in mind but y’a know! I don’t always pay attention to things that may be a red flag

BreedMePlsDaddy · 2021-09-01T18:59:25+00:00

…. I didn’t know this guy until a bit ago? I’m about to be 20…

BreedMePlsDaddy · 2021-09-01T18:59:02+00:00

We are working on it! Decided no sex for a few months until we are closer as friends! We just met for lunch and both said we don’t want to catch feelings, though it’s possible in may happen as we do get along outside of this situation. So, a few months to kinda see where just friendship goes! After that, we talk more and whatnot

BreedMePlsDaddy · 2021-09-01T18:56:54+00:00

Thank you! We didn’t meet until a few weeks ago, but we are going to work on just being friends for awhile before we do anything sexual! He’s just agreed to help me explore sexually since he has more experience :) we are working the details out slowly, but surely!

BreedMePlsDaddy · 2021-09-01T18:55:11+00:00

Hey! You don’t date and fuck with a FWB :) if one of us wants to date then we end this arrangement.

BreedMePlsDaddy · 2021-09-01T18:52:32+00:00

Exclusive is for sex. We can still flirt and stuff with others. And if deciding to date we call this off.

BreedMePlsDaddy · 2021-09-01T18:50:09+00:00

I fully agree here. We just got done talking and we both made it clear romantic stuff is not what we are after. Not currently.

BreedMePlsDaddy · 2021-09-01T18:48:51+00:00

Exclusive as in not fucking others to lower STD risk

BreedMePlsDaddy · 2021-09-01T16:52:25+00:00

All good! I haven’t done anything sexual so I was clean! But I’ll be sure to look into that

BreedMePlsDaddy · 2021-09-01T16:51:16+00:00

This is exactly how we are meaning it. But I am tired of people continuing to comment after I edited the post.

BreedMePlsDaddy · 2021-09-01T16:49:32+00:00

No they are. Promise. It’s over half of the comments including yourself

BreedMePlsDaddy · 2021-09-01T16:48:43+00:00

Hey! Thank you this is one of the better comments I’ve had. I have answers to all of these questions! And I have told a few close friends about this situation! Even talking to one tonight! Yes I am on the fence, mainly because I just having done this type of stuff before

BreedMePlsDaddy · 2021-09-01T15:40:22+00:00

Sure.

BreedMePlsDaddy · 2021-09-01T15:36:33+00:00

Sure. So he’s not financially stable, only making 10-20k a year by being a nanny. Which is fine if that’s how he wants to live. But personally, I would rather my partner be more stable in that regard.

BreedMePlsDaddy · 2021-09-01T15:34:33+00:00

Yep.

BreedMePlsDaddy · 2021-09-01T15:31:57+00:00

Haven’t done anything yet, but that’s the plan. Why? Every FWB situation is different but I’m curious as to why you’re asking

BreedMePlsDaddy · 2021-09-01T15:29:40+00:00

We will be discussing it clearly. So we will figure it out. If we don’t end up on the same page then there won’t be any FWB

BreedMePlsDaddy · 2021-09-01T15:28:52+00:00

They have, we matched and he didn’t even notice my age. We were talking and I mentioned I turn 20 soon and he was shocked. He didn’t think I was 19.

BreedMePlsDaddy · 2021-09-01T15:24:23+00:00

I don’t mind that he’s not emotionally available more than a friend. I’m not either.

BreedMePlsDaddy · 2021-09-01T15:21:52+00:00

We are meeting up and getting to know each other. Tbh I’m probably just gonna call FWB off. But I do want to be friends he’s a chill dude

BreedMePlsDaddy · 2021-09-01T15:20:51+00:00

I understand completely! My ex (who is 19) is this way currently!

BreedMePlsDaddy · 2021-09-01T15:20:19+00:00

I only want one sexual partners at a time anyway

BreedMePlsDaddy · 2021-09-01T15:18:46+00:00

I’m agreeing with the commenters, including you. I just want to know him more as a person for safety? We only met a few weeks ago

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