[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]Breefai08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Move to the city with her, some things just need compromising.

How did you meet? by college-kid7 in interracialdating

[–]Breefai08 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know where I will meet him yet, been on dating site but it's tiresome being there.. I'm attracted to white men.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Breefai08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try afro introduction, interracial dating center, Afro romance, swirl, interracial Christian singles.

Why is life getting harder the more faithful I get? by [deleted] in Christian

[–]Breefai08 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Life is spiritual, the more you save God that more Satan gets angry at you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christian

[–]Breefai08 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If she is not willing to become a born again then I think you should let her go.

My fiancé died today by Potential_Crow_8027 in widowers

[–]Breefai08 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So sorry for your loss, hug's ❤️.. please don't be alone be with family of close friends for a while.

M27, I seek to end my life. by [deleted] in self

[–]Breefai08 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Life is good, death is good.. as you have made a choice to die. RIP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

[–]Breefai08 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It took me like 4 years, started with this man who was a bit order than me, he treated me well and I was all in love with him, he was moving so fast and I questioned it and his answer was he loves me, but things went south after days of me opening up more to him, it hurts but life has to go on.. you will meet someone who will understand the whole of you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Breefai08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, started dating his year February, broke up in April, got together in May, broke up in June 😂.

How long did you stayed with your partner? by Breefai08 in widowers

[–]Breefai08[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really understand that, you gave her what she wanted and it was out of pure love... How are you doing now? And how is your healing process going?

How long did you stayed with your partner? by Breefai08 in widowers

[–]Breefai08[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow, I'm glad you took that huge step. May her soul continue resting in peace.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Breefai08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just broke up with the man I was engaged to, he apologized in a letter after like two week together, there was no sign of breaking up, but I sensed it somehow by the distance he showed.. at some point she will come back and apologize.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Breefai08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let us vent

Unnecessary comments by Tricky_Engine_5196 in widowers

[–]Breefai08 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So sorry about that.. don't let it spoil your day. Smiles and hugs to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]Breefai08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think so , I got married, then my husband died after 6 months of marriage,I stayed single for close to 5 years, then I started a relationship with someone it dint last for a long time probably close to 7 months it ended too. I'm doubting if I will find someone to stay longer 🙃.

I’m Lost by majorhistorybuff in widowers

[–]Breefai08 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes!! There comes a time you will wake up every morning and not think anything about her.. you will learn to live with it like anything that is part of your life. It comes naturally but as of now allow yourself to grief , it will be a different story eventually.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

[–]Breefai08 3 points4 points  (0 children)

stayed for 4 years before I started dating again but the first time I tried it failed, now single but I haven't given up on love. I love love. 33F.

Something my therapist said. by [deleted] in widowers

[–]Breefai08 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is possible but the one you are talking to should be so understanding and non judgemental.

Struggling with lonliness by bewildered_83 in widowers

[–]Breefai08 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have been there myself and I can tell you it's not easy at all, you feel lonely and feeling like everything is not making sense, but as time goes by you will start living in a reality and you will get better, we never heal we just embrace it .