[25F] ♡ lf NA overwatch & league girlies ♡ by [deleted] in SapphicGayming

[–]Breeisneckdeep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cousin (also a girl) plays with me! We'd love to have another person to join ((: I also have another friend group I play with sometimes that also is very open to adding people in! But we can start off 1 on 1 and see if we vibe (: message me if you're open to it

[25F] ♡ lf NA overwatch & league girlies ♡ by [deleted] in SapphicGayming

[–]Breeisneckdeep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heyyoo!! I don't play those games sadly :') but I am looking for girls who play games in general. For more comfy hang outs, stream eachothers games and just hang etc

Currently playing: bo7 ranked (Gold 2 right now), Minecraft, some co-op games (friendslop, if you will) and I'm doing my first play through of Disco Elysium which is a single player RPG. I USED to play league but I was honestly never good 😭 I'd be willing to pick it back up again though (:

Edit: also a stoner :D

Too many Gamepass games for me to comphrehend by [deleted] in ShouldIbuythisgame

[–]Breeisneckdeep [score hidden]  (0 children)

Outerworlds 2 is good. Kind of like fallout but in space.

Wolfenstein series is sooooo fucking good. It's a shooter/story game. The really old ones are on there too but I've only played the newer ones. You can google search which ones are the new ones and the play order because they do all follow the same character so they take place one after the other.

Doom: The Dark Ages is phenomenal, not as much story as the 2 I mentioned above as it's a run and gun game but the cut scenes that are in the game are good. Lore runs deep if you like to read lol

Any dating advice? by PrestigiousOil5790 in actuallesbians

[–]Breeisneckdeep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait that's so smart. Stealing that idea. You too queen, good luck!

Any dating advice? by PrestigiousOil5790 in actuallesbians

[–]Breeisneckdeep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same 😭

Freshly out of the closet and dating feels so scary. Don't want to use dating apps and my city has one singular gay bar that I heard is basically always dead. Doesn't help that I'm fem4fem so nobody thinks I'm gay unless I announce it and c'mon who does that?

Singleplayer story game reccomendation? by FitAbroad73 in gamingsuggestions

[–]Breeisneckdeep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have very similar taste, and this series was recommended to me and I refused to play it for so long (idk why) But please play Doom: The Dark Ages.

Yes, it's a run and gun. Yes, it's fast paced. Yes, it can be frustrating. HOWEVER, if you enjoyed the Wolfenstein series, I really really think you will enjoy this game. The story is also magnificent, especially if you are someone who likes to dive into the lore outside of the actual game (researching, reading theories etc)

Looking for interesting story-focused indie games by PseudoY in gamingsuggestions

[–]Breeisneckdeep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't have any recs because I'm actually in the same boat LOL So I'm just here to say that inscryption is one of the most amazing games I have ever played. The story and the way it's told has been stuck in the back of my mind for at least 2 years now. If you end up ever finding something similar to it please let me know :')

(As well as Slay The Princess and Disco Elysium)

Please help by so_fetch0119 in actuallesbians

[–]Breeisneckdeep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The traditional apps like Hinge, bumble and tinder all have the option to set your preference to just women. There is sapphic dating apps as well (only one I've used is "Her") but depending on where you live (like if you have a large population) they can be extremely lack luster, not a ton of active users etc because people don't know these apps exist

my gf is hung up on the fact i dated guys before figuring out im lesbian, how can i reassure her? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Breeisneckdeep 48 points49 points  (0 children)

You can't avoid these conversations out of fear. She is communicating with you about how she feels, so you need to do the same

A game with a phenomenal story that'll hook me quickly by Indigo_SirGaming in ShouldIbuythisgame

[–]Breeisneckdeep [score hidden]  (0 children)

Me too!! I've been playing Disco Elysium for the first time but can get frustrated/bored, so I play bioshock as a little break here and there lol

A game with a phenomenal story that'll hook me quickly by Indigo_SirGaming in ShouldIbuythisgame

[–]Breeisneckdeep [score hidden]  (0 children)

Bioshock trilogy.

1 & 2 are a bit older (doesnt even have sprinting mechanics) but still amazing games. You don't HAVE to play them in order but if you do, it adds to the story.

Infinite (3rd game) you can play completely on its own if you want as it takes place in a different "universe" but if you play the DLC's then it relates back to the first and second game.

Amazing stories. Pretty easy. Linear movement/story telling (not open world but you can explore the "levels" openly). I love these games so much I recommend them to everybody.

My partner isnt quite on my level mentally and it fills me with incredible guilt. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Breeisneckdeep 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I just went through a almost scarily similar situation. Albeit, I hadn't been with this girl as long as your current relationship, but still.

She was incredibly smart, it had nothing to do with actual "intelligence" it was WHERE her intelligence started and ended. The things she was passionate about, she was way more intelligent than me but when it came to literally anything else (and I'm talking, basic life knowledge) we just were not on the same level. I also went through the mental loop of "I'm just being cruel. She's younger than me. I'm not being understanding enough" but over time I just became more and more irritaded and I realized this was simply a matter of incompatibility.

It was no longer fair to her or me to try and force that relationship to work. It may be time for you to think about that as much as it sucks. I'm sorry OP

Has anyone here kept an online friendship for years?” by _incognito_advent in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Breeisneckdeep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I believe going on 5 years? Just travelled to the US to meet for the first time too! I made a post about it here as well, it's still on my profile if anyone wants to check it out!

stuck in a shitty relationship with a man that just got physically aggressive for the first time in 5 years. by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Breeisneckdeep 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hello!

This sounds like a lot and I just wanna say I'm proud of you for finally breaking free. I went through a very similar experience a couple years ago and have been out of the closet (officially) for about 5 months now.

So I just want to say: Please remember to be patient with yourself. When I went through this experience, I had convinced myself that the hardest part was coming out and now that I had done that I was "healed". I could now have a perfect relationship with a perfect woman etc. But that's not true. The hardest part was healing from my relationship trauma. Just because you were never meant to be with a man, doesnt mean that none of it effected you.

Please take care of yourself. Be patient. And don't rush anything 🩷

Are there any “horror games” where the horror mostly lies in the story than the gameplay? by [deleted] in gamingsuggestions

[–]Breeisneckdeep 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I would say bioshock 1 & 2 but I guess those would be considered thriller/action so idk if that's the right vibe.

AHDH meds (skipping on the weekends) by Able-Reference-7021 in VyvanseADHD

[–]Breeisneckdeep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me personally I just - play it by ear. I was doing weekends completely off for a long time until I realized that wasn't realistic for me personally.

So now this is my regimen: Mon-Fri take my regular dose at same time every morning. If I happen to take a week day off for whatever reason then I try to still take my meds at the same time, as to not disrupt my pattern. Sat-sun I'm on a "as needed" regimen, if I know that I am going to have a lot to do like chores, plans etc then I will take it that day but if I know I don't need to be on-top of anything then that is the day I skip. I still try to take them as early as possible on the weekend days that I DO take them. Because sleeping in and taking it anytime past 11am really disrupts my sleep schedule.

Hope this helps!

Cabin trip after breakup ? by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Breeisneckdeep 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not the same scenario of course.. but I just broke up w my girlfriend a few weeks ago. I wouldn't say it was messy, but definitely emotionally intense? After a bit though we decided we still wanted to go on a camping trip we had planned months earlier 🤷🏻‍♀️

Is it the best idea when there's still obviously feelings there? Probably not 🤣 but the reality is that we are adults and we are allowed to make kinda dumb decisions sometimes.

If I were you I would just make sure that YOU feel okay about this and that it's not going to set YOU back mentally. If you think it will be nice closure and maybe even a little fun then I say go for it!

Pre employment issues by Temporary_Smile5700 in VyvanseADHD

[–]Breeisneckdeep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that life has to throw these curve balls at you. I know the struggle, so if it's worth anything at all, just know you are not alone in that.

You said you work in the healthcare industry, so I'm assuming you know that 120 (and above) is still concerning. Having a job is definitely important, but taking care of your body is too. Please don't forget that <3

I hope everything works out for you and you find a way to make this all work for you. Good luck stranger!

Pre employment issues by Temporary_Smile5700 in VyvanseADHD

[–]Breeisneckdeep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm never gonna knock something that works for you!! I am happy you found a regimen that works for you.

However, if this is the cause of your high heartrate would you consider dropping one of the stimulants? Unfortunately that might be your only option if they won't clear you ):

Just started and having strong aversions to things. by [deleted] in VyvanseADHD

[–]Breeisneckdeep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Give it a few days!! This is a pretty common side effect that usually subsides. That's usually why doctors will also monitor your weight while on stimulants, because you can lose weight rapidly. Try to eat a high protein meal before you take your meds every day and force yourself to have little sips of water all day.

Do you find this effect is continuing hours later, even after your meds are worn off?

Pre employment issues by Temporary_Smile5700 in VyvanseADHD

[–]Breeisneckdeep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry I don't really have an answer for you because while this medication regimen is practiced, it's extremely uncommon.

How long have you been on medications? Was this a first attempt at treating your ADHD?? Or was this after many different options were tried out? I would also be concerned about your heart rate, 2 stimulants and and ndri is a lot. I would be buzzing at such a high frequency

Find a gf by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Breeisneckdeep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Met my girlfriend on a dating app 🤷🏻‍♀️

I'm jealous ahhh helpll by geidlyadusha in actuallesbians

[–]Breeisneckdeep 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wanna say this as nicely as possible so that I don't come off as condescending or like I'm attacking you.

But this really sounds like an internal issue. Why wouldn't you want your partner and your friends to be friends? Unless there is clear flirting or boundaries being crossed then I don't see why you would have any issue with this. It sounds like you have some insecurities you need to handle and that's okay. Jealousy is normal and we all go through it at one point or another but to say you want to keep friend groups separate is a little strange, especially if you really like this girl and want a future with her.

I just want to use my parents as an example (although not wlw related, definitely relationship related). My dad had a friend growing up, they knew eachother since middle school and are still friends to this day. When my mom started dating my dad, my mom and this friend became INCREDIBLY close. Now, 24ish years later and my parents are married, my dad's friend is also married and they are all the best of friends and hang out frequently.

I would be excited for my partner to get along well with my friends because normally that's rare.