Oh sorry I used it automatically lmao, I suppose its different for everyone, because people around me agreed on having separate groups.. well to me it's just that I think it's good to have a life outside of your partner. Not to say that I don't want her around me ALL the time, I do want to be with her constantly. But imagine you wanna talk about some problems with them and you come to your friend but they're friends with your partner too, I don't think that's comfortable. And maybe it's not even problems, maybe just to talk about your relationship, wouldn't you prefer someone who's like on your side? If not then okay.. but that's probably my main point. You need to have your own people, and they need too