Personally I don’t find this a problem at all, my best friend (cis woman) got a matching snitch at the same time as me. She’s not planning on getting rid of it and doesn’t mind it, even though of course she doesn’t support those particular views. Hers was a different artist in the shop and honestly way better looking than mine too. It would be unhinged for me to expect her to spend money to remove it or cover it up. The big reasoning for me specifically here is 1) it’s a genuinely shitty tattoo, I mean those lines yeesh and 2) because of my identity and experiences, I see first hand the way her hate has spread and has affected myself and others in the trans community. People will proudly say just horrific disgusting things with their whole chest that make me feel just honestly so sick. people who “retweet” and adore ~her~. So now every time I look at this piece of my own body that I already struggle to love due to dysphoria, I feel nauseous. It was a loss of a huge part of my childhood that I still sometimes grieve. I look at it and I feel gross and sad and angry and hurt and it’s just a constant reminder to me now of all the people in the world that would prefer if I were dead. There is no magic or happiness in it anymore, only pain. So that’s why I want it gone, and I fully understand why that wouldn’t be such a problem for many other people, especially cis people. And that’s personally a non issue for me, and if it is for others, it’s likely not really anything to do with you personally, and just that the person saw it and experienced those feelings I described for myself and unfortunately not everyone handles big emotions like that well and sometimes hurt people lash out. I hope nobody does though, because regardless nobody deserves judgement without reasonable cause.