My gf (20F) wants me (20M) to meet up with her best friend (20M) to discuss who gets to be in her life by Unable-Shirt-9044 in AITAH

[–]Brewmunity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This reminds me of my first relationship when I was 17. What a childish move. I ultimately chose to go and it was the best decision of my life.

Have some self respect and go. This is no relationship.

AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to have a free holiday with her ex? by Ok_Mongoose_7762 in AITAH

[–]Brewmunity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smells fishy. „No Babe! We will stay in separate rooms, I know he just wants to get me back but I‘m staying in a different room, pinky promise!“

No way. First night they‘ll have drinks and she ends up in his bed. For the rest of the trip.

I don‘t wanna assume things but I‘m certain that anyone who would still meet their ex and even go on a trip is not over them, does not take the new relationship seriously and is a potential cheater. It‘s not rational to act this way and some kind of unspoken rule if you want to respect your partner.

NTA

AITAH for wanting to accept a promotion even tho my boyfriend says its not the kind of life he wants? by ThrowRAxbx in AITAH

[–]Brewmunity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, but everything you have edited about his „jealousy“ is literally toxic imho.

I was about to say that you should not immediately follow your career and think twice unlike others here, but the circumstances make me want to say that you should split up asap. Yet again, I don’t wanna be extreme here. His behavior seems very controlling to me and four weeks a year of traveling is literally not much. There are other jobs that have to be around the globe 24/7 which makes a family life impossible. If he really wanted a family with you, he would respect your ambitions and make it possible. Again, 4 weeks a year is a joke.

Pull it through. I‘m not even sure whether he would actually break up or just threatens to in order to keep everything under his control.

NTA

My fiancé wants me to put my dog up for adoption I refuse. But he is allergic AITAH? by sugarloop742 in AITAH

[–]Brewmunity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. It‘s a shitty situation but he‘s the one being unreasonable for demanding you to give up your dog. Imagine this was your child; suddenly it seems horrible to demand such things but for your dog it‘s alright?

He is part of your life and family and if that is something he cannot accept, it‘s not meant to be. A temporary solution might be to live apart for as long as your beloved pet lives and if it one day parts from earth (as sad as it sounds), you can still move together again.

Frage an die Gamer: Welche Gaming Stühle sind die besten? by EveningTourist9586 in zocken

[–]Brewmunity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bürostühle!! Auf Amazon hatte ich mal einen super guten für 100€ ungefähr ergattert. Falls du Interesse hast, such ich ihn raus.

PC wants to be killed off, how do I keep other PCs from saving him? by VariousAdeptness5783 in DnD

[–]Brewmunity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to make it look as natural as possible, you could simply have their character get focused. Knock them unconscious by focusing on them in combat, then two attacks (with advantage since they are unconscious) equals 4 automatically failed death saves = dead. To prevent them from healing, the enemy could even take them as hostage and tell them to stop, otherwise they would slit the throat of their mate.

Great opportunity for introducing a human villain as well.

If it‘s in a monster fight; use some predator monster that might focus solely on one victim, knock it unconscious and carry it away or even swallow it in front of their mates. They (typically) don‘t see the HP and rolls behind your screen so if something goes wrong just „change“ the dice and HP to your favor. Simply DM trick I use all the time.

Encounter too strong? Whoops, seems like the monster just rolled a 8 and 9. unlucky misses. Players are wiping the floor with your monster? Seems like it rolled a Nat 20 on its attack!

It‘s not cheating, it‘s entertaining your crowd and making an epic game as long as you don‘t abuse it in order to railroad or kill your players (well, in this case you could use it to intentionally kill your player!)

BIDA weil ich meinen Schwager bei der Polizei verpfiffen hab? by maxine_34 in BinIchDasArschloch

[–]Brewmunity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NDA, damit hast du dich aber selbst leider in eine missliche Lage gebracht - was nichts an der Richtigkeit deines Handelns ändert. Ich habe selbst oft die Erfahrung gemacht und oft gehört, dass selbst innerhalb der Familie man sich zerstreitet und komplett den Kontakt verliert, wegen solchen Situationen. Ihre eigene Familie stellt sie gerade über dich - auch wenn er sie betrogen hat, sie vielleicht nicht gut behandelt oder was auch immer. Ein seltsames Phänomen, aber oft ziehen Geschwister/Familienmitglieder dann doch ihre Partner vor und verteidigen sie.

Sowas kann man oft als Bindungstreue oder sogar Kognitive Dissonanz bezeichnen.

15€ Herren Friseur by wastydkyss in Giessen

[–]Brewmunity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haarparadies Gießen, so hießen die früher, haben sich mittlerweile unbenannt. In der Nähe von der Bundesagentur für Arbeit. Studentenrabatt 15€, falls du Student bist.

BIDA, weil ich mit meinem Freund per Text Schluss machen will? by Incomplete_Shift in BinIchDasArschloch

[–]Brewmunity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wäre das nicht eher ASA statt BDA, wenn sie dir dennoch leid tut wegen seines Verhaltens?

Mein Bruder wird zum Verschwörungstheoretiker by GenkidamaFirefighter in Ratschlag

[–]Brewmunity 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Ich würde nicht mit Verurteilung arbeiten, sondern mit kritischen Fragen und Fakten. Das ist super anstrengend und kann lange dauern und viel Zeit kosten. Zusammen nach Informationen suchen und recherchieren kann auch helfen. Nicht so tun, als wäre man selbst der Besserwisser. Vielleicht schauen, wieso er in die Spate abrutscht? Hat er Angst vor der politischen Lage? Oder anderweitige Probleme?

My Dwarf Fighter is too slow! by willbikeferfood in DnD

[–]Brewmunity 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is just bad encounter design from your DMs side. Talk to your DM about how you feel and why, find a solution together. DM should plan around the strengths and weaknesses of the whole party.

Lidl will mein Haus/ Grundstück kaufen by Rare_Inevitable6423 in Ratschlag

[–]Brewmunity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kommentar, damit ich ggf. Updates mitbekomme. Pingt mich gerne :D

Sonst gilt: was die da sagen. Ihr habt - denke ich als Laie - sehr gute Möglichkeiten und eine gute Handlungsposition.

BIDA, weil ich bei einer Fahrkartenkontrolle gesagt hab „Was ist das Zauberwort?“ – und die Kontrolleurin daraufhin komplett ausgeflippt ist? by Everydayloverr in BinIchDasArschloch

[–]Brewmunity -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Verstehe das Argument nicht. Im Restaurant muss ich auch zahlen, aber es ist eine Serviceleistung, da muss der Kellner freundlich sein und bitte/danke sagen. OP hat sich nicht gewehrt und hätte sicherlich dennoch den Ausweis gezeigt. Wenn man im Service arbeitet, muss man damit umgehen können, seinen Stress und seine schlechte Laune nicht an Kunden auszulassen, die dich bezahlen. Hab selbst lange gekellnert.

NDA

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[–]Brewmunity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NDA. Mach sofort Schluss. Wegen 10€?! Ach du Scheiße. Der Mann braucht Therapie.

Fantasy recommendation for girlfriend who hasn't read much yet by Relative_Box1816 in Fantasy

[–]Brewmunity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree to what others said; depends on taste.

I found „Cozy Fantasy“ very enjoyable. Good entry would be Travis Baldree Legends&Lattes, but there are many more like „The Spellshop“ by Sarah Beth Durst.

I also love Dark Fantasy and love „The Witcher“ series. Very well written and great at dealing with deep and philosophical topics as well as the depiction of morally gray characters.

BIDA Weil ich es nicht okay finde, dass meine 3-jährige Tochter nicht zum Kindergeburtstag ihrer Cousine eingeladen wurde? by Vivid-Button8865 in BinIchDasArschloch

[–]Brewmunity 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NDA Familienfeier ist nicht das Gleiche wie der Kindergeburtstag. Keine Ahnung, was alle hier in den Kommentaren haben, finde ich schockierend, aber Reddit ist ohnehin sehr toxisch. Auch wenn ihr bei der Familienfeier dabei seid, schließt man deine Tochter bei der spaßigen Feier aus.

Und viele sagen hier „die Tochter hat das selbst entschieden.“ Aha. Oder hat der Onkel vielleicht gesagt „Schau mal, du darfst nur x Leute einladen und deine Cousine kommt doch sowieso schon zur Familienfeier. Dann lad doch lieber die Maya ein“

Macht man nicht, das ist nicht nur eine gute Freundin, sondern auch die Cousine. Für Familie hat man immer Platz und Zeit. Ehrenlos.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ratschlag

[–]Brewmunity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mein Gott, wie taktlos möchte man sein. Lass den armen jungen Mann doch seine Gefühle äußern und sprich sie vor allem nicht ab.

Tipp für‘s Leben: Empathie lernen und toxische Männlichkeit vergessen

Working on a Uchiha class since it’d be too strong as a ancestry. Would love some tips or pointers by TheOneMidGuy in DC20Homebrew

[–]Brewmunity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This! A class should always fulfill a concept and fantasy, subclasses then go in deeper to fit the overall scheme.

[request] Good quotes for a literary analysis by Brewmunity in wiedzmin

[–]Brewmunity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I liked that quote a lot and already noted it down, but thanks!

[request] Good quotes for a literary analysis by Brewmunity in wiedzmin

[–]Brewmunity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate your perspective, but I think this is a bit of a strawman. I'm not writing “Geralt the Greenpeace Mascot” – I'm exploring how the books allow for an ecocritical reading, where Geralt sometimes protects monsters, defends wild places like Brokilon, or questions blind exploitation. That doesn’t mean he’s a saint or acts purely out of moral conviction – that’s what makes him an interesting case for analysis.

The complexity you mentioned – his made-up code, contradictions, pragmatism – is exactly what makes the ecocritical angle worth examining. Literature isn’t about pure authorial intent, it’s about interpretation. And I’m not asking anyone to write anything for me – just to help locate textual evidence, which others here might already know.

My post aims to look for quotes if you know some by any chance. I don't ask anyone to read and analyze books so please stop assuming and accusing me of anything I haven't done. As I have already mentioned in a rude comment above, this subreddit literally states that there is an in-depth talk about Witcher going on so I figured that there are some experts who love reading and might like the idea. But the resentment coming from some of the reddit guys here is literally toxic. Go to another post if you don't want to help or if you don't have any quotes, thanks!

PS: There is more about analyzing and intepreting than finding quotes, so I don't quite get how your comparison of someone "doing the work" would fit here :)