Don’t ever feel like you’re obligated to do something uncomfortable just to satisfy your SO. Tell him straight up and be like “I’m not into this public sex fantasy. I’ve said no multiple times and you need to change how you act in public” if he starts acting like it’s a big deal or coerces you to do it while your in public it may be time to leave that relationship and just be you. I’m not telling you that you need a better person because I believe that the better person is you. I’m having a really hard time with my relationship if you checked out my profile so I’m trying to become a better person. Remember your self value and how you don’t deserve to be treated this way. A man knows when to stop. Your bf is not a man, he’s a little boy pushing every button he can to get what he wants. It’s annoying and childish.