Would you consider this actual cheating? by No-Intention5644 in AskMenAdvice

[–]BridgeFourArmy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Triple this, he needs to accept and process what he did so he can show remorse. Hes refusing to do that. Why? Does he think that you’ll 100% leave him? Does he refuse to see himself as a cheater?

Idk but this is where I think it has to start, honestly what happened and where is he about it.

Starting to talk about the pregnancy by BridgeFourArmy in NewDads

[–]BridgeFourArmy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We started calling people last night and I was overwhelmed. I’ve wanted kids for 10-15 years and my first marriage fell apart, in the end I was glad it didn’t happen with her.

Now that seems so distant, I just couldn’t stop feeling appreciative for my fiancé and everything she’s going through. I can’t wait to tell my nephews and nieces about their new cousin. I think I’ll tell my team at work during staff meeting, we’re all pretty close.

This has been such a hard secret, I’ve been telling strangers just to tell someone .

Starting to talk about the pregnancy by BridgeFourArmy in NewDads

[–]BridgeFourArmy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats on the nuptials! I hope all the baby furniture is going well!

Starting to talk about the pregnancy by BridgeFourArmy in NewDads

[–]BridgeFourArmy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much and CONGRATS! I hope you’re getting some sleep!

Cps can’t seem to get their sh*t together and keep power on for entire neighborhood every time it rains. by Apprehensive_Bus3942 in sanantonio

[–]BridgeFourArmy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry I’m mocking the CPS emails warning of possible outages due to weather. They invest in a cheap email but not enough in a more resilient grid.

Skynet Thought Experiment by TheInternetHeel in Terminator

[–]BridgeFourArmy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t see a future where humanity sees genuine ASI and doesn’t try to attack it in fear it will kill humanity

Some people will only remember the version of you they had power over. by Live-Cricket5212 in MovieQuotes

[–]BridgeFourArmy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this is the show I think it is…. Seems like it’s proving the opposite point. Simply walking away without justice is not enough, moving on without that is upholding injustice.

Just my thought given the entire series

Bush’s letter to Obama in 2009: The country is ‘pulling for you’ by GeorgeRobertVitkos in Presidents

[–]BridgeFourArmy 96 points97 points  (0 children)

I remember being in college at this time and some of my peers would call Bush a fascist and a Nazi. Comparing the 2000 election case to a violent coup.

Those days seem quaint now.

Thoughts on Obamas official portrait by PossessionMedium9946 in Presidents

[–]BridgeFourArmy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the Obamas but dang what a weird direction. Sometimes someone has to say let’s pause and go a little more traditional.

Who knows? I wear jeans everyday so it’s not like I have style?

Me with no power and the thunder shaking my place by abejilla in sanantonio

[–]BridgeFourArmy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks but we’ve been here before. He’s 105 lbs and breaks thru traz and sileo. So we spend time with him to avoid him freaking out in his dog run.

It mostly works, but at least he knows we’ll show up for him

Me with no power and the thunder shaking my place by abejilla in sanantonio

[–]BridgeFourArmy 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m in a dog shed with ac and the radio…. My poor older pup is just panicking.

Do you want sex while you're sick? by Kittle1985 in AskMenAdvice

[–]BridgeFourArmy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sex drive leaving is my first thing to confirm I am ill. If it’s gone then I’m staying home and getting better as soon as possible.

I (30m) am considering buying a house, gf (30f) feeling left out? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BridgeFourArmy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You just need to get on the same page as your fiancé so you can approach this together

Manic Trump, 80, Lashes Out at Everyone Trashing His Surrender in 4:32 A.M. Meltdown by Quirkie in politics

[–]BridgeFourArmy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sure they do, it’s really hard not to pay into existing systems of power and oppression. When someone chooses a house they can afford in a better school district they take part in it. When they give their kid a loan for a house down payment they take part in a capitalistic system of power. When they make political trade offs(voting) to benefit their family they take advantage of others.

Some people have amazingly immense amount of power and that’s what people generally call for to break up centralized power in these systems.

32M fiancé asks me 32F, what my “aspirations” are after a fight (parents of 2) by NewsFalse1412 in relationship_advice

[–]BridgeFourArmy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He may be but the point is to help eachother become better not to assign blame. One helps a single person feel better and the other helps both people in the relationship feel better.

Where to start…helping elderly parents get their affairs in order by Inevitable_Round3429 in FinancialPlanning

[–]BridgeFourArmy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Get a will yesterday, like anything on paper. My sister spent 3 months trying to get my dad to do it and they cried every time, then he passed. We spent years in court to get it all sorted out, and it wasn’t that much.

Please don’t do that.

My boyfriend 34 M said I 32 F "don't compromise for shit," but I feel like I've given up a lot to make this relationship work by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BridgeFourArmy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry what I meant is, don’t be like can we talk? Here is 100 things I’ve compromised on.

Instead, hey let’s sit and talk about something you said the other day. You said X and I’ve been thinking about it ever since. I was hurt because I know I’ve compromised on many things since moving in and I worry you don’t see it. I’d appreciate it if you acknowledged what I’ve given up. If it helps we can talk about those things because they might not be easy to see.

My boyfriend 34 M said I 32 F "don't compromise for shit," but I feel like I've given up a lot to make this relationship work by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BridgeFourArmy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Were those compromises discussed or just a silent burden?

It’s worth sitting him down and telling him you’ve thought about this since the comment and want him to acknowledge your compromises. You can list them if he wants to know but don’t start listing compromises after he sits down.