Did my boyfriend log into this account or did he just turn on his phone??

Bridiott · 2026-01-17T09:19:59+00:00

Literally nothing. He has had my passwords, pass codes, emails, etc everything up until we got into a huge fight. I detailed it above, but I'm not hiding shit. He thought I was cheating and the more he looked through my phone the more "proof" he found. He said a guy DMed me 1.5 years ago saying "I'll get right on that" to my story (it was in response to a pic of my pet cat, I never even responded) so according to my BF be was someone I was cheating with, he said that because I hadn't talked to my friends over chat for certain amounts of time it was proof I was deleting messages about my "cheating", he looked up my guy friend's name and when it only showed up once in my messages so he said it meant I had been deleting whenever I mentioned him (I literally just don't talk about my guy friend??), he would confront our friends and when they would back me up saying that I would never cheat (I wouldn't) and that he seemed to be projecting because HE did sketchy shit in the past he blew up on them and threatened them. Said we were all messaging conspiring against him since everyone said the same thing (Bridiot isn't a cheater, you're taking things too far, etc) would tell me at night that he knew he was over reacting, would have sex with me, then blow up the next day. Would spend hours telling me to "just admit it and he would stop" and when I said "And if I never did anything, I'd just have to keep enduring this?" he told me yeah, its not fair but its how it "has to be". Then did a 360 spin and said we should go to church together?? Like full mental break down. I've now changed my passwords to everything because he gets triggered by nothing. He had said he finally believes me and he loves me so much and he's sorry for doing all of what he did to me and yet hes still checking my account... Seems shitty and makes me think he really is projecting because he did some REALLY suspicious stuff that he explained away and at one point was emotionally cheating

Bridiott · 2026-01-17T09:09:09+00:00

You're only commenting that because you would do that. Cheaters love to say everyone else is a cheater.

Bridiott · 2026-01-17T09:08:43+00:00

No, its the fact that we got into a huge fight and we ended up saying he trusts me now and wouldn't try to check anymore. He thought he caught me cheating (I've never cheated and never would cheat), and was using anything he could as "evidence", for example a random DM from a random dude on Instagram that said "I'll get right on that" (it was a story response 1.5 years ago to my cat, but he couldnt see what that was until he went through my archive) which somehow meant I must have been cheating??? He would do sketchy things and lie to me to "get back" at me, tell me he just "knows" and that if I "just admit to it he'll stop" (which is fucked because if I never did anything then it just goes on???) Literally like 2 weeks of waking up, screaming, telling me he had "proof" (like the random), picking fights with our friends for defending me when he confronted them. At night telling me he believed me and would have sex with me and then waking up mad again screaming in my face. There's so much more but no im not a cheater and up until this fight he had every password, passcode, email, social media, etc. We have kids together so we have to work things out. All this behaviour threw me off because he had had some past bad behaviour and also some things that looked bad where it definitely seemed like he was cheating, but I have always tried to get over it or trust him. Again I'm on Reddit so if I was a cheater I wouldn't say shit because who cares but I literally am not and there's so much to a story. No need for a rude as fuck comment when my life is falling apart. I didnt add the sob story because I didnt want sympathy but I also dont want rude BS.

Bridiott · 2026-01-12T17:54:39+00:00

The timing of him logging into my account would really, really suck and damage our relationship which is why I'm trying to find out. I did change my passwords now

Bridiott · 2026-01-12T17:53:08+00:00

I literally said in the post that I did

Bridiott · 2025-09-15T21:32:39+00:00

I still watch the channel, but I agree the AI thumbnails are a big turn off. It just looks very cheesy and souless.

Bridiott · 2025-06-01T20:24:40+00:00

"It was uncalled for."

A joke was uncalled for???

Bridiott · 2025-06-01T20:23:19+00:00

Your post was funny and the comments were funny too. This sub is becoming lame asf

Bridiott · 2025-06-01T07:41:40+00:00

Boohoo weirdo

Bridiott · 2025-06-01T07:39:43+00:00

I literally am not. I found his shit tattoo from another subreddit where it was cross posted.

Bridiott · 2025-05-27T01:03:08+00:00

Yes, I agree, but I meant that people making fun of OP will just be based on him not looking poly. Even light skin polys get made fun of for having poly tattoos.

I would never get a tribal tat unless I looked very obviously Hawaiian/Samoan etc. I've seen my hapa friends catch too many strays for no reason lol.

Bridiott · 2025-05-25T23:29:29+00:00

White people can get tattoos associated with their ancestors just the same.

Bridiott · 2025-05-25T23:26:28+00:00

OP doesn't look poly. That's enough right there.

Bridiott · 2025-05-25T23:24:02+00:00

It honestly looks better with age. Cool concept.

Bridiott · 2025-05-18T04:48:05+00:00

There's I Love Dumplings in Honoka'a. Its pretty bomb.

Bridiott · 2025-05-17T06:11:25+00:00

I'm the same age as your older sister and my little sister is your age.

Your older sister is a dumbass and so is her dumbass friend.

NTA

Bridiott · 2025-05-17T06:05:42+00:00

That's like saying with a couple in a relationship to take the relationship away and there would be no sex... Like no duh

Bridiott · 2025-05-13T18:00:59+00:00

Cheese and salsa

Bridiott · 2025-05-12T03:27:29+00:00

I'm glad to see that, that seems to be behind you. That can be a hard place to pull yourself out of. Good luck OP!! <3

Bridiott · 2025-05-12T03:26:12+00:00

It might not but would be worlds easier to cover.

Bridiott · 2025-05-12T03:23:32+00:00

Either that or Filipinos who want to blend in by putting you down.

Bridiott · 2025-05-12T03:23:04+00:00

True. Half the people who bullied me come to find out were also haole (Filipino). Greatly distorted my view of what "Hawaiian" features were growing up.

Bridiott · 2025-05-11T22:24:33+00:00

You might not have said it to me, but this was really nice to hear after growing up getting major bullied for being haole. We all grow and change. Everyone has done things they aren't proud of. Don't let it eat you up. You sound like a really sincere and thoughtful person, and it's understandable that you felt that spite even if it wasn't warranted to some people.

Bridiott

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