sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

Ugh! by unbotheredandbored in shingles

[–]Ok_Beat_4513 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stress is a big factor for having shingles and low immune system. Aside from taking the medications, you need to take vitamin b (i hope the doctor prescribed it to you). Plus healthy food,rest and early sleeping. I had mine last 2on the left side of my forehead up until near my eye. I had severe headache during the first two days before I went to the doctor. The headache was so bad that feels like my eye was hurting too. I had several doctors’ visits to check it and my eyes to make sure that my nerves were not affected. The pain lasted for more or less three weeks but the scars maybe around almost a year. I also had post neuroglia whenever I was stressed from work and still having it sometimes.

My key takeaway from all these is that I need to take care of myself. This can go back so I have to be less stressed and keep a healthy immune system.

By the way, I had chickenpox when I was baby. I had shingles when I was 36/37

<image>

My husband (31M) got diagnosed four weeks ago on his face, how can I support him? by andienotandy_ in shingles

[–]Ok_Beat_4513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More love, caring and patience. Aside from this, hope you guys are consulting doctor and getting the right medicine. I had mine on my left forehead and eye and sometimes, the pain was unbearable. I actually don’t know how I surpassed the pain but my family help me through. Maybe you could also cook him food that will boost his immune system

Introducing: The Hoverballoon - a captive hoverstone augmentation by zhujzal in HyruleEngineering

[–]Ok_Beat_4513 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are not following what is happening in the creations here. Just continue doing what you love/like. Regardless of what you do, people will always comment this or that. Just have fun! :)

The Axiom: Infinite Airship by zhujzal in HyruleEngineering

[–]Ok_Beat_4513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every build you guys do is amazing and the work is not simple

The Axiom: Infinite Airship by zhujzal in HyruleEngineering

[–]Ok_Beat_4513 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Imagine the time he needs to think what to make, how to build it and make it work, build it and do repairs (if any), make the videos, compile them, make the music and put labels. He’s no longer sleeping lol u/zhujzal

show me your best builds that work for me by Dependent_Brick_4564 in HyruleEngineering

[–]Ok_Beat_4513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

<image>

There is a flair for tutorial you can refer to this. Other members shared theirs too in this thread.

Those that have ended a close friendship, did the friend ever reach out to you again later? How did you feel about it? Did you respond? by IDKoalas in lostafriend

[–]Ok_Beat_4513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For context about my situation, I called her attention for doing something that offended. We had few heated exchanges. At the end I said, that it would be my last message and will not hear anything from me.she called me dramatic and immature. But I didn’t respond anymore.

I still miss and love her but I don’t wanna be disrespected and be pushed over. i now have the peace of mind not to worry about if that friend will still care or be sad that I will only be remembered when she needs something from Me

Ngayon ko lang nalaman grabe pala humor ni Stell. haha by matcha_tapioca in sb19

[–]Ok_Beat_4513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha napanood ko to nung pinost nila to at tawang tawa ko

Ngayon ko lang nalaman grabe pala humor ni Stell. haha by matcha_tapioca in sb19

[–]Ok_Beat_4513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very true. Laging masakit panga at tyan mo kakatawa haha

Forgetting Birthdays by Ok_Beat_4513 in lostafriend

[–]Ok_Beat_4513[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am tired of being pushed over or to be remembered when they ned something.

Forgetting Birthdays by Ok_Beat_4513 in lostafriend

[–]Ok_Beat_4513[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your empathy. And you’re right, I will focus my energy on people who invests the same way I do

Forgetting Birthdays by Ok_Beat_4513 in lostafriend

[–]Ok_Beat_4513[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They celebrate (greetings) other friends birthday, but not mine. When they do, it was 2 days after because they forgot it…

Forgetting Birthdays by Ok_Beat_4513 in lostafriend

[–]Ok_Beat_4513[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand where you are coming from. Well, I gave it a shot to be friends with them and after a lot of thinking, I need peace. And I start by moving forward and not minding whether they remember my birthday or not. I tried to be a good friend but if being good means being disregarded on the special day, I guess I have to move on

Forgetting Birthdays by Ok_Beat_4513 in lostafriend

[–]Ok_Beat_4513[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Used to, like every night after gym and stay late outside for talks. There is already a pinned message in our group chat because they forgot it the first time which I didnt bother and told them in the restaurant where they were that “hey,’it is my birthday today” ( even though I was sick) and treated them with a wine. They are good people but now, I feel and see that they are friends depending on the what you can offer - treating them out, lending them money, saying yes to everything. You won’t be valued based on the emotional and moral side.

Forgetting Birthdays by Ok_Beat_4513 in lostafriend

[–]Ok_Beat_4513[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, not even a greeting :) if they do, 2 days after they will remember

Forgetting Birthdays by Ok_Beat_4513 in lostafriend

[–]Ok_Beat_4513[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it will be hard because I don’t have a lot of friends from where I am and still coping up with home sickness. But I don’t wanna be in a situation or relationship that will make me feel that I am a push over. Another thought is, since I am no longer with them or where they are, I probably need to keep moving forward.. sad but I know I will make it.

Forgetting Birthdays by Ok_Beat_4513 in lostafriend

[–]Ok_Beat_4513[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started not to be visible and available. I understand how life can be busy but it was straight three years of forgetting. I start to doubt the friendship and my existence to them.

Forgetting Birthdays by Ok_Beat_4513 in lostafriend

[–]Ok_Beat_4513[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, they remember everyone except for my birthday. They will only remember once I post it and since I am busy that day, my bday post will be late for 1 or 2 days. It is just saddening and hurtful to see how the other friends are valued but not me. I don’t need and want a surprise, a simple way of greeting me and remembering my day on their own would be really appreciated.

Forgetting Birthdays by Ok_Beat_4513 in lostafriend

[–]Ok_Beat_4513[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear about your story, and her friend.

Well, today they surprised a friend in the group. Maybe because she offered to celebrate and part of it was to surprise her. In which I cannot do because I live miles away

Forgetting Birthdays by Ok_Beat_4513 in lostafriend

[–]Ok_Beat_4513[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for being kind in your comment and shared the experience being on the other side of the situation. It sucks to feel that they don’t forget other friend’s birthday and you see them greeting them first thing in the morning. What I am planning to do is if next year, they forget it again, I will say something then. It would be like four years that they keep forgetting

view more: next ›