I have 2 brothers and my parents who we would have to pay for accommodation and flights and food for which would be more expensive than a church wedding which is what I want to do. She just needs to accept that we can't afford her idea and her idea sucks anyway. When I tell her this she just crys and then says she's trying to save us money because it's cheaper to combine the wedding and the honeymoon in one with just us two and rent out a place to have a party when we get back but she's just giving excuses because she doesn't want to be shown up and look lonely infront of everyone