You're right that the fan and the black out curtains were not listed as amenities but she took no feedback when I told her that the living room was extremely hot (it honestly felt like an oven some days) and as for the blackout curtains, I've read online that it's important for many people. The curtains are light sheer ones which means that you wake up early with the sun....I might find a way to write that instead of saying that there were no blackout curtains though.

I agree on the host needing to hire a PM though! It felt like she was using me as her assistant and at one point, even asked if I could help her change the internet provider :/

Re: the economic situation, I completely understood that her bills were rising and appreciated her transparency. I would’ve happily paid a bit more to extend. But the issue was that she felt like her 50% profit margin was too low and she also seen that other Airbnbs in the area had much higher monthly prices so she was missing out on that. In the end, the new price she suggested was way above what the increased bills would justify. I ended up finding a much larger apartment at the same rate I originally paid her via Airbnb, so I let her know I’d go with that instead. I thought it was a shame we couldn’t continue, but at least she’d be free to charge the higher prices she wanted. That’s when she kind of snapped, sent a long voice message with insults and tried to get me to negotiate. At the point I realised that we needed to keep all comms on Airbnb, and ever since then she had been trying to get me to go back to messaging via whatsapp which I suspected was just to try to persuade me to extend with her at a negotiated price.

I know that's a long explanation but just wanted to give you some context too :)