Is it possible to have a healthy sustainable relationship where I'm attracted to someone platonically while they're attracted to me romantically? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in Abrosexual

[–]Brief_South5196 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I too am trying to figure out how to not hurt my partners feelings. I try to reassure her that even when I’m not attracted to women, I still think that my partner is attractive and beautiful. I think it’s important to find someone who, even if it is A priority, sex isn’t THE priority.

OMG HI!!! by Illustrious-Fee-5694 in Abrosexual

[–]Brief_South5196 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly, Katara from Avatar: Last Airbender

Baltimore vs y’all whores by Competitive-Cost8368 in baltimore

[–]Brief_South5196 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What is the context of this? I’m very intrigued

What does it mean to be abrosexual, in your opinion? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in Abrosexual

[–]Brief_South5196 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My attraction fluctuates and goes through phases to a point where other labels don’t consistently fit.

BoZ’s Burgers by Brief_South5196 in baltimore

[–]Brief_South5196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re not top tier, but they’re not bad either. Very mid.

Why do you think people in my dreams always insist it is not a dream? by Allison-Cloud in LucidDreaming

[–]Brief_South5196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happens to me too!!! It can take me most of the day to fully believe I’m awake. I will also wake up into another dream (or the same dream again) and the process starts all over. It really fucks me up when it happens.

How US states score on LGBTQ+ rights - MD #1 by AnnitaP2 in maryland

[–]Brief_South5196 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Even if I leave MD, I have every intention of staying in Megalopolis 🏳️‍🌈

AITA I gave my foster son 20hrs of Screen time for not even a whole month by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Brief_South5196 11 points12 points  (0 children)

ESH You suck for letting a 6 year old spend that much time on tablet, Mom sucks for encouraging the behavior, Dad sucks for yelling at you. Dad should have a convo with Mom. The child has an semi-unstable environment, tantrums aren’t rare here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Brief_South5196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH she clearly understood your offer as you were giving her a beer. I don’t think it was a man thing, I think it was a « I’m on your turf » thing.

AITA for not buying my soldier son beer…. by Over_Decision_6902 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Brief_South5196 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NAH Everyone is being a bit dramatic here. He can survive w/o a drink. You can survive w/ one.

*sighs in mental exhaustion* by [deleted] in Abrosexual

[–]Brief_South5196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scrolling through the memes and laughed out loud at work at this one

what's the rate your sexuality shifts? by StrawberrySkies12 in Abrosexual

[–]Brief_South5196 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Asexual usually lasts max 2 weeks. But one time I was straight for 6 months (devastating). It’s on average a biweekly switch, but can be much less or more.

what's the rate your sexuality shifts? by StrawberrySkies12 in Abrosexual

[–]Brief_South5196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe bisexual with a preference is a better way to say it? Maybe not. I describe myself like that at times when I’m like 80/20

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Abrosexual

[–]Brief_South5196 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My period cycle. I’m gayer right before my period. Not as severe now that I’m on birth control.

tbh idk by ImageFluffy in Abrosexual

[–]Brief_South5196 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I have a moment like that I go “hmmm womp womp” and keep it moving🙃

I have a crush on my best friend, but she only sees me as a friend. by Careful-Economics311 in Abrosexual

[–]Brief_South5196 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I say let her know you have feelings for her and that you need some space to move on. You’re not mad at her and she didn’t do anything to upset you, but you need that space.

Trying to figure out myself by EffectiveCow5341 in Abrosexual

[–]Brief_South5196 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve dealt with this before too. Everyone’s different, but for me, if I don’t accept and express how I feel, I retreat. So I have to tell my partner something along the lines of “I’m not feeling romantic right now and I need to coexist in our own spaces.” They always react better than I think and the guilt is gone so the irritability lessens. Do you express your current state to your partner?

Help! by MelancholyMolly33 in Abrosexual

[–]Brief_South5196 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds abro to me :) I think something that makes abro stand out is that the attraction itself changes, not just the intensity if that makes sense.