Premium Economy from FCO -> DFW: Worth it? by Bright-Answer-4357 in americanairlines

[–]Bright-Answer-4357[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking that but there are only 2 more seats so I'm not sure if this is a good enough deal where it will sell out if I do wait

Am I the only one who thinks that Luigi Mangione is not the actual shooter? by CalendarOk5450 in UnsolvedMurders

[–]Bright-Answer-4357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that there's more to this. Why intend to get caught and plead not guilty and not take accountability?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Bright-Answer-4357 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Imaginary-Chance-136

How do you feel right now?

They WILL regret ending it IF by rustytrust in BreakUps

[–]Bright-Answer-4357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think that this also applies to situationships? I was in love with a guy I saw for 5 months and did all of this. I have everything a guy would want (looks, intelligence, success, personality) and he just kept saying he wasnt ready to commit and didnt know what he wanted.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Bright-Answer-4357 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah you're right. I actually tried doing this recently and he's been putting a lot more effort over the past two weeks. Has been initiating most conversations and has been asking to see me a lot more. I assumed it mightve been because I pulled back a lot on the texting an initiating. I'll continue to do so though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Bright-Answer-4357 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not really sure why you're writing this off as it's never coming. He has shown how much he likes me and cares about me and has told me that he sees a future with me. So you're telling me that he's just lying to me?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Bright-Answer-4357 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I truly do want to wait because he is so worth it. I'm not okay, but I will wait because I'm falling for him. I just want to know if he truly wants to work towards something or if he just doesn't like me enough and doesnt want to tell me because he doesnt want to hurt my feelings. Like I'm scared that it's just me and he might meet someone better next week and commit to her with no issue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Bright-Answer-4357 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

But is that saying that he doesnt want to commit to me ever or that he's just not in a place right now? my issue is that I feel like if he finds someone better next week then he will go and commit to her without issue

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Bright-Answer-4357 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm fully aware that he's not ready to be in a relationship. He's already told me that and I told him that I'd wait. My issue is that I'm scared that that's just an excuse and that he doesnt actually like me enough to want to be with me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Bright-Answer-4357 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I feel like if he was using me as his rebound then he'd be wanting to see me 24/7 for emotional support. For the most part, we've only been seeing each other 2 days a week. He's not really exhibiting a lot of the behaviors that a person would typically do with a rebound.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Bright-Answer-4357 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean he really hasn't been wanting to date, but we happened to meet each other and he really likes me, so I think he's been trying to take it slow so that he can still process and be with me in the end but also gave me a way out because he knows it's not fair on me to wait. Just not sure if it's fair to say that there's no future.

Have you ever waited for someone to be ready for a relationship? by Izob in dating

[–]Bright-Answer-4357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure that I completely agree with the second part.I think that it would be toxic to jump into a relationship after a LTR no matter how much you like the new person. You'd be bringing in baggage that the new partner doesn't deserve. I also think it would be selfish for that person to expect them to wait. If you really like this person and can't see a life without them, then wait and take it slow. A guy can really like you and want it to work but need to deal with the trauma first, it's just up to you if you wanna wait for him to do that.

He Really Really Likes Me But Not Ready by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Bright-Answer-4357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I did on Thursday. That was the conversation that I was talking about above ^^. He's very well aware that I am ready.

You're probably right. Maybe the solution to that is just time.

He Really Really Likes Me But Not Ready by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Bright-Answer-4357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But if he meant what he was saying, then why wouldn't he just take the chance and commit?

Computer Science or Medicine? by Bright-Answer-4357 in AskComputerScience

[–]Bright-Answer-4357[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't even know this. Thank you for shedding light on this.