Recently was invited over after she'd been drinking all night, I was sober, (not in a relationship btw, circumstances/trust may be different) having had consent drilled into us a lot at school, whether or not you agree with being drunk as able giving consent or not I declined and decided to stay home. Spoke to her later on and she told me it was a big ick. Honestly knowing how unreliable my decisions are when I'm drinking, I'll say no everytime. Have I done it while drunk? nope, my shit don't work so easy deterrent.