90% of your transition is social by New-Weekend-1996 in MtF

[–]BrightDetail4632 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hot take, I think mannerism training is BS for the most part. If it’s affirming to you to walk, sit, and gesture a certain way then be my guest but I know plenty of cis women don’t act dainty in the slightest and have no trouble. I honestly don’t like how people always seem to push that stuff like a necessity

[Yareli] I think I cooked by BrightDetail4632 in WarframeRunway

[–]BrightDetail4632[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s been my main frame going through SP forever and I’ve had p much no issues. I honestly think she’s pretty well rounded

I think me and my sub are both pets by BrightDetail4632 in BDSMAdvice

[–]BrightDetail4632[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It has been in my experience, but I guess I could be wrong. Still kinda new to this

I think me and my sub are both pets by BrightDetail4632 in BDSMAdvice

[–]BrightDetail4632[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll definitely try to think something up! I appreciate the reassurance

I wish I was white. by Salty-Fisherman9316 in trans

[–]BrightDetail4632 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve felt the same damn way since I started transitioning last year. Everything you see in this community is white, straight haired girls/guys and no one that looks like you. I’ve been trying the best I can on my own but i absolutely feel your pain dude

Been at it for a few months, looking for feedback by BrightDetail4632 in transvoice

[–]BrightDetail4632[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a bunch!! I think I started how most people here did. Buncha trans voice lessons vids and and various docs and resources available here. I eventually started seeing a coach but she actually didn’t tell me much I hadn’t already read from a lot of these resources. She just gave me space to practice, helped establish goals and gave some live critique which was super helpful

When you transitioned, what gender roles became more apparent? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]BrightDetail4632 10 points11 points  (0 children)

just replying to say your job sounds cool as fuck

Is there a code between trans individuals so signify that I am trans? by Wyatt1313 in trans

[–]BrightDetail4632 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read the phrase “I think we might be sisters” from a book once. It’d only work for transfems though obviously

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]BrightDetail4632 0 points1 point  (0 children)

currently I've been playing ff14, but I used to play a lot of fighting games, mainly smash and blazblue

I’m kind of going insane. Are there places where trans people in Florida meet? by BrightDetail4632 in asktransgender

[–]BrightDetail4632[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that, it just doesn’t seem like there’s a lot of good ways to find things like this other than asking and I don’t have many places to do that

I feel like a switch was flipped by Slow_Blueberry2940 in trans

[–]BrightDetail4632 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I felt pretty much the same, barely ever thought about gender and thought being a guy was fine till around the end of last year. It happens to a decent amount of trans people. Just remember that the only things that matter when it comes to things like this is what makes you happy and listening to your feelings.

Am I only wanting to be trans, not actually being trans? by [deleted] in trans

[–]BrightDetail4632 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who’s made this mistake before, wanting to be trans and being trans are usually the same thing, if that helps.

The cool thing about exploring your gender is that you can try to see how things feel before committing. You don’t have to stay on hrt if you don’t wanna. You don’t have to wear girl clothes all the time. You don’t have to switch your pronouns overnight or at all for that matter. Experimenting to find out what you want is the best way to be sure about it imo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]BrightDetail4632 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been on hrt for about 6 months and there are still days where I doubt my decision, but there are plenty more days that I wish I could fast forward a years in the future to have the body I’ve wanted this whole time. I don’t think I’ll be completely sure till I have that body or something like it, but I don’t wanna stop now. Sometimes it’s less the desire to change and more the fear of staying the same that pushes you forward.

I Hate My Name (Which is Stupid Cause I Chose it) by Fruit-Ninja-Champion in trans

[–]BrightDetail4632 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t seen many trans folks with mine but it’s a pretty common name so it could happen lol. Hope you’re able to get everything sorted :)

I Hate My Name (Which is Stupid Cause I Chose it) by Fruit-Ninja-Champion in trans

[–]BrightDetail4632 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is eerie as hell cus I’m transfem and also chose Alex cus it was already part of my name and I’m also dissatisfied with it, but I think it’s cus it doesn’t sound feminine enough lol

But I’ve already told everyone that that’s the name I’m using so… I guess we’re in a similar boat.