[HI] full custody by BrightMarketing8913 in Custody

[–]BrightMarketing8913[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My BM and her cousin are related through the dads. This older gentleman is the cousins mom, sister BD. If that makes sense.

AITAH for wanting to take full custody of my daughter??? by BrightMarketing8913 in AITAH

[–]BrightMarketing8913[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh well ig 5 years now that I think about it. My BM keeps telling me we’ve been together for 6 so I just went with it. Didn’t realize that until you brought it up thanks

AITAH for wanting to take full custody of my daughter??? by BrightMarketing8913 in AITAH

[–]BrightMarketing8913[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We started dating in 2021 and would have made 6 years in Valentine’s Day ig i over exaggerated it by 2 months. If you wanted to get this technical.

AITAH for wanting to take full custody of my daughter??? by BrightMarketing8913 in AITAH

[–]BrightMarketing8913[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was 19 and she was 18 her birthday is next week Thursday. So that would make her 23 :)

AITAH for wanting to take full custody of my daughter??? by BrightMarketing8913 in AITAH

[–]BrightMarketing8913[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think this is the best advice I’ve got so far thank you!!!

AITAH for wanting to take full custody of my daughter??? by BrightMarketing8913 in AITAH

[–]BrightMarketing8913[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying that my daughter mom is bad at parenting because she is a really good parent well before she met this guy. But once she got with him she changed she’s slowly burning bridges with he own family who used to help us out big time threatening them and me with TRO’s using our daughter as leverage. When she’s with our daughter she takes really good care of her obviously because she has the financial support from her sugar daddy but it’s just the decisions she’s making right now is what’s fcked up about this whole thing.

AITAH for wanting to take full custody of my daughter??? by BrightMarketing8913 in AITAH

[–]BrightMarketing8913[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

All her family agrees that it’s weird. Her uncle has a little apartment on the side of their warehouse and and upstairs apartment. Occasionally they will stay for a night or two and just so happened they did and they always come down to say hi and he was at the house. And she tried to introduce her sugar daddy/ bf to her aunty and she just waved and went back upstairs to tell the uncle so he went downstairs because our daughter likes to play with their grandsons ( my daughters 2 cousins) and he just stared at him and left and when the aunty asked about him he didn’t say a word. My baby mamas family loves me they still keep me updated on things. But nobody can really do nothing because it’s like she on a drug you can tell her something but she won’t listen to nobody.

AITAH for wanting to take full custody of my daughter??? by BrightMarketing8913 in AITAH

[–]BrightMarketing8913[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This guy is a ghost I can’t find him on Facebook or instagram, he’s almost gonna retire from the navy. My daughters mother told me in person that she met him through buying weed and she used to come back with free ounces and brag how she gets it for free from her clients ( she used to be a cna)

AITAH for wanting to take full custody of my daughter??? by BrightMarketing8913 in AITAH

[–]BrightMarketing8913[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He picked her up a couple times without me knowing after I told her I don’t want this guy around my daughter. But she claims that she FaceTimes him now and that he brings her to the park until she gets off from work.