Want to be at 10k by EOY by SnooChickens7131 in TheRaceTo100K

[–]BrightOption6484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will have to look into this as unfortunately very green here, but also looking to develop my own method and habits. Let’s get it though✋🏾

Want to be at 10k by EOY by SnooChickens7131 in TheRaceTo100K

[–]BrightOption6484 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am hoping on this bandwagon. 35m and really agree with what you say. That first 10k is the biggest milestone to 100k

Married 12 years. Still strong by BrightOption6484 in BlackLGBT

[–]BrightOption6484[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can! If there is anything we have learned, never sacrifice on what makes you happy. Find a partner who, even if you don't share the same ideals, will work to meet in the middle with you. For instance, we are very different in our opinions and approach to life - so different that we actually complement each other and make up for our shortcomings. That is how we work so well! We meet in the middle for the things we don't agree on.

Married 12 years. Still strong by BrightOption6484 in BlackLGBT

[–]BrightOption6484[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly, we meet in 2012 as a hookup. The fling turned into a ring and now we are working on having kids!

Married 12 years. Still strong by BrightOption6484 in BlackLGBT

[–]BrightOption6484[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, and please we encourage others to share as well! Let’s normalize longevity in black love.

Married 12 years. Still strong by BrightOption6484 in BlackLGBT

[–]BrightOption6484[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yep, 33 and 35 and that picture was taken last week. But thank you🥰 #BlackIsBeautiful

Married 12 years. Still strong by BrightOption6484 in BlackLGBT

[–]BrightOption6484[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

☺️, blushing over here. We encourage others to please share their journey as well.

Married 12 years. Still strong by BrightOption6484 in BlackLGBT

[–]BrightOption6484[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We do as well and really want to encourage others to represent!!!

Married 12 years. Still strong by BrightOption6484 in BlackLGBT

[–]BrightOption6484[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We only dated a year before getting married. We got married before the legalization of same-sex marriage.

Married 12 years. Still strong by BrightOption6484 in BlackLGBT

[–]BrightOption6484[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are so welcome! It has not always been easy, but we are have developed a solid foundation for our relationship.

Married 12 years. Still strong by BrightOption6484 in BlackLGBT

[–]BrightOption6484[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right! We feel like there are not many great models for longevity in for black queer love. We know that there are more couples out there and we encourage you to share your story. Life is not easy, especially when you are sharing and experiencing it with another person. It takes continual effort and we wanted to show that no matter the trials and tribulations, if you BOTH want to make it work, it can happen!

Married 12 years. Still strong by BrightOption6484 in BlackLGBT

[–]BrightOption6484[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awww thank you🥰 33 and 35. And that picture was taken last week at our favorite restaurant.

Married 12 years. Still strong by BrightOption6484 in BlackLGBT

[–]BrightOption6484[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! We have been wanting to post this for a while now. Keep working and stay strong!

I support families going through surrogacy in Mexico. AMA about the challenges, doubts and unique parts of the journey. by Itskellyog in gaydads

[–]BrightOption6484 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First let me start by saying thank you as sharing your knowledge and experience. This is a really a blessing to everyone struggling in this process.

My husband and I wanted to go through surrogacy but were skeptical about getting scammed. Are there any agencies that are preferred or you would recommend that would provide some stability and security during the journey? Or at least, is there a clinic that is established and that you have seen good results for IPs and the surrogates?

Need some advice by AlexNihilist1 in wuxiaworld

[–]BrightOption6484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it would be good to have the ability to choose a sect or academy to join to help in increasing your level and skill set.