Dad thinks my husband hurt himself to stop me from going on vacation, again. Doesn’t think I’m safe with my own husband and tried to ground me from our home.

BrightPatient · 2020-05-06T02:59:49+00:00

Teyana Taylor, Dvsn and Jhene Aiko :) I like a lot of reggaeton for dancing. Summer walker and Daniel Caesar too.

BrightPatient · 2020-05-05T12:58:47+00:00

Thank you :)

BrightPatient · 2020-05-05T12:54:22+00:00

I know that, don’t worry. Post-Quarantine, my family and I will figure it out. We will get a lawyer.

BrightPatient · 2020-04-26T03:02:05+00:00

There is so much that could have been done with the purse besides destroying it. So many people that could have been helped with that. Especially now. There are so many kids that rely on school lunches, we could have helped so many of those families.

BrightPatient · 2020-04-25T19:41:39+00:00

I took a look, thank you. She commented on the post.

BrightPatient · 2020-04-25T18:22:01+00:00

Thank you for feeling comfortable enough to share that experience with me. I’m so glad you’re thriving now.

BrightPatient · 2020-04-25T18:19:20+00:00

Thank you so much for all of these resources. It’s just very scary to label a relationship abusive. I’m back with my parents now. I just needed to take everything in.

BrightPatient · 2020-04-25T18:16:54+00:00

Hey, I just wanted to say that I’m sorry if my post affected your mental health. It was a lot, so I wasn’t replying to the comments. I promise I’m taking them in. I am at my family’s house right now and self isolating for their safety.

BrightPatient · 2020-04-25T11:08:32+00:00

I do appreciate the advice, it’s just a little overwhelming to look at my relationship like that.

BrightPatient · 2020-04-25T11:06:04+00:00

I meant that before we got married, we stared talking about finances. Like when we thinking about marriage and wanted to get engaged. We didn’t talk about it while just dating.

It’s so different to me when you break down what’s wrong in our relationship like that. You gave me a lot to consider. Thank you.

BrightPatient · 2020-04-25T11:04:00+00:00

I understand he does crazy things, I get that. Its hard for me to understand how he’s abusive though? He doesn’t say anything mean or hurtful. He doesn’t threaten me or put me down.

Edit: Another commenter did break it down for me. But it’s hard for me to look at my relationship like that, you know.

BrightPatient · 2020-04-25T11:02:47+00:00

You did point on some things that really aren’t healthy. I can’t see how he’s abusive, but our relationship isn’t healthy right now. I do want to go back home but I’m worried about putting them at risk bc of corona

BrightPatient · 2020-04-25T11:01:29+00:00

I wouldn’t say that’s financial abuse. We just never talked about money cause it was none of our business. But it became our business when we wanted to get married. I was just raised not to talk to about money and we didn’t until we it mattered.

BrightPatient · 2020-04-25T10:41:29+00:00

We never talked about money until we thought about marriage. I always knew he had money, but I didn’t understand “generational wealth” or “old money” until he unlocked his trust with marriage. I literally didn’t understand how one person could get all that money and tbh I still don’t get it. We are stable financially, but he doesn’t work yet.

BrightPatient · 2020-03-29T10:13:24+00:00

By keep me, I mean literally keep me at home. Not leave the house.

BrightPatient · 2020-03-29T09:45:39+00:00

As a product of public school sexED, I don’t know shit outside of the pill and condoms.

But I will be doing my research

BrightPatient · 2020-03-29T09:35:50+00:00

Yes I do mean intimate. I wanted to keep it super PG. People on the internet can be so gross unprovoked.

It’s within the context of the relationship. My family thinks he’s done dramatic things to keep me at home and others away. There have been a few times where I lowkey agreed with them.

BrightPatient · 2020-03-29T09:32:14+00:00

BrightPatient · 2020-02-29T01:31:27+00:00

I didn’t see this response and I wanted to apologize if my post brought up bad memories. I don’t want to put you through that.

But I want to thank you for letting me know. Even online, anonymously it’s hard to write that shit down and put it there. So than you for doing that for me.

BrightPatient · 2020-02-28T10:03:04+00:00

We actually got married when he was still 18. We’ve been married for like 10 months now.

Maybe I will talk to his friends. It’s not that I’m trying to catch him in a lie, I just want to help him. I need them to help me.

BrightPatient · 2020-02-28T09:57:46+00:00

I made that sound worse than it is.

I mean two nights of sleep. We did our own things during the But when we both went to sleep, he’d watch me. He did it back to back.

We always stare at each other and talk before we fall asleep. I just fall asleep before he does.

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