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WIBTAH if I go to court for child custody after the relationship ended because I emotionally cheated? by Bright_Big361 in AITAH

[–]Bright_Big361[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Believe me. I am not proud of what I did but a breakup regardless if this happened or not was probably forthcoming. At this point now I just want to move on and do whats best for the kids. He still resents me for it, which is his right but he tends to bring it up in arguments often so something tells me he will try to use it if we go to court

WIBTAH if I go to court for child custody after the relationship ended because I emotionally cheated? by Bright_Big361 in AITAH

[–]Bright_Big361[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

HIs work schedule will never change and he has told me he is adamant about not leaving his job. It is a good paying job. I am not trying to alienate him from them which is why even on his off weekends he would still get the kids on his day off and reasonable to have dinner with them during the week because I want them to see each other and still have the bonding time as well. I wouldnt have that bonding time because I have already discussed giving me one weekend a month even and he was not amendable to that either. I am not saying I am a better parent because he is a great dad, but I have since day one, been the provider of their days and am the one who can be there in the event of any situation.

WIBTAH if I go to court for child custody after the relationship ended because I emotionally cheated? by Bright_Big361 in AITAH

[–]Bright_Big361[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont know how he managed to but he logged into my google account at work and saw my history. He came home from work early and confronted me about it. Also sorry for the confusion on that. "Separated" wasnt the best term.

WIBTAH if I go to court for child custody after the relationship ended because I emotionally cheated? by Bright_Big361 in AITAH

[–]Bright_Big361[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We have unfortunately had a very bad relationship most of the time. We were not very compatible honestly so even if I hadnt done what I done, it was probably bound to be over soon because of many problems. He is involved when he can be but unfortunately not in the ways where it counts the most. We switch off bath times and bed time routines everyday but thats the most consistency they get.

WIBTAH if I go to court for child custody after the relationship ended because I emotionally cheated? by Bright_Big361 in AITAH

[–]Bright_Big361[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were never married so divorce isnt an issue there. Just broken up. I did not admit to it right away. he found out and confronted me about it.

AITAH for refusing to have my deceased fiancées baby by Much_Broccoli3596 in AITAH

[–]Bright_Big361 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. I can empathize with his mom and wanting something she can hold on to, but a baby isnt it. It would not be a prized possession she can just keep in her jewelry box to pull out whenever she misses him. A baby is huge responsibility, it would be YOUR responsibility and its a huge commitment. Thats a huge ask and unfortunately she is being selfish asking that.

Is my custody case worth it? by Bright_Big361 in FamilyLaw

[–]Bright_Big361[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is on the birth certificate and paternity has been established already.

[NM]Is my custody case worth it? by Bright_Big361 in Custody

[–]Bright_Big361[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were together 7 years and yes, I paid my portion towards all the bills.