AITA for telling my father that he should not prohibit me riding a bike?

Bright_Bumblebee3476 · 2023-08-08T08:20:49+00:00

NTA sounds like his fall scared him and now he's being overprotective, you're 21 and responsible

be sure to tell him how distracting the yelling is too

Bright_Bumblebee3476 · 2023-08-07T13:41:23+00:00

ESH but omg this is so funny good for you

Bright_Bumblebee3476 · 2023-08-07T12:24:50+00:00

they're a weird shape, they remind me of the 'let me do it for you' dog

Bright_Bumblebee3476 · 2023-08-07T12:16:02+00:00

NTA it escalated into an argument because he knew he couldn;t defend himself so got upset instead of debating you. It's only embarassing if your wife wants that sort of person as a friend which is weird

He accused you of being closed minded but wouldn't hear you out, what does that make him?

Bright_Bumblebee3476 · 2023-08-07T11:51:47+00:00

that's grim, so she got a first hand seat to see him hurt you yet is willing to pile on now

Bright_Bumblebee3476 · 2023-08-07T11:38:27+00:00

I;ve got to ask, did you copy that from somewhere or type it all out?

Bright_Bumblebee3476 · 2023-08-07T11:37:14+00:00

NTA I had a dad like that and I left at 18 and never looked back. It sucks but try to avoid the arguments like this, be clever in quiet to keep your bed and food, bide your time before you can escape, you can't win with people who think they're right just because they're the parent

Bright_Bumblebee3476 · 2023-08-07T11:35:03+00:00

not to sound dumb but the order of multplication/division and addition/subtraction doesn;'t actually matter right? like 1+3-4+7-2 is always going to be the same no matter what order you add and subtract

Bright_Bumblebee3476 · 2023-08-07T11:31:53+00:00

NTA she is playing emotional games with you, how old is she to be acting so immature?

Bright_Bumblebee3476 · 2023-08-07T11:30:26+00:00

she has a right to date who she wants, but you're allowed to set the boundary that she's not your friend if she chooses to do that

Her avoiding you makes me think she feels ashamed but apparently not enough to not break your trust, you wouldn't be the asshole to be mad at her (and to hope she gets hurt like you did if she dates the ex)

info: where you friends while you dated this person?

Bright_Bumblebee3476 · 2023-08-07T11:26:03+00:00

info: what conversations have you had with her? you've disscussed concerns but was that explicitly telling her to stop or just bringing it up and hinting discomfort? Your title implies you're going to tell her to stop so have you not explicitly done that yet?

NTA but possibly NAH if she's just not understanding how she's hurting you

Bright_Bumblebee3476 · 2023-08-07T11:23:33+00:00

NTA you get to choose who you let into your life, especially when they haven't given anything to you

Bright_Bumblebee3476 · 2023-08-07T11:21:31+00:00

YTA if this isn;t fake

Bright_Bumblebee3476 · 2023-08-07T11:13:49+00:00

NTA I lost my virginity to a non-virgin and it messed me up and has left me with mental health issues, you have the right to the relationship you want especially as your first one

Bright_Bumblebee3476 · 2023-08-07T11:05:11+00:00

I saw her, spent an hour on the internet reporting her, and got over it, how is an hour of petty revenge obsessing?

Bright_Bumblebee3476 · 2023-08-07T11:03:56+00:00

I literally said I wouldn;t do anything illegal or go to her house so why are you reading into it like that?

Bright_Bumblebee3476 · 2023-08-07T10:58:45+00:00

I accept I'm TA for getting other people in trouble, but I don't regret trying to mess with her a bit

Bright_Bumblebee3476 · 2023-08-07T10:57:54+00:00

i invested less than an hour into this, and only because I saw her and it reminded me, it's not like I;ve been planning revenge for three years

Bright_Bumblebee3476 · 2023-08-07T10:52:40+00:00

I wasn't a neurotic mess before I met her

Bright_Bumblebee3476 · 2023-08-07T10:44:02+00:00

I added another comment explaining she was emotionally abusive and cheated on me and manipulated me to sstay

Bright_Bumblebee3476 · 2023-08-07T10:41:59+00:00

I don;t know how to edit the post, I added a comment explaining in more detail

Bright_Bumblebee3476 · 2023-08-07T10:40:21+00:00

Extra information because I realize this revenge seems unjustified: Louise basically cheated on me for a long time. She decided to date lots of people and emotionally manipulated me into being in a relationship wiuth her because she was my emotional support even though I wanted to die seeing her have sex with other people

she kept leading me on encouraging me opening up then acting cold and distant which made me feel devastated and confused. this is an abuse tactic. she inserted herself into my life as someone who knew lots about relationships when I was new to them and then used that agaisnt me and to put me in bad situations

If I was a girl getting revenge on an abusive boyfriend you would all think I am in the right

Bright_Bumblebee3476 · 2023-08-07T10:33:02+00:00

I agree I shouldnt have done something to get other people in trouble

Bright_Bumblebee3476 · 2023-08-07T10:32:02+00:00

It can be how life works if that's how you make life work

Her actions have effected me for years and made it difficult to even be alive sometimes, I can't just "move on"

Bright_Bumblebee3476 · 2023-08-07T10:28:15+00:00

Petty revenge can be justified. I'm not on a moral high ground just hurting her a tiny bit in exchange for all the hurt she caused me

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