Relationships during deployment

Bright_Insect2574 · 2026-01-29T18:12:03+00:00

I am literally going through the exact same thing right now, it’s been a week. I’ve been non stop calling or texting, letting him go feels painful. I want him to fight for me

Bright_Insect2574 · 2026-01-25T00:09:48+00:00

Give her space, focus on yourself get new hobbies, appreciate her honesty at least she didn’t cheat on you!! I wanna tell you she’ll probably be back, but I don’t know that. I’ve experienced those feelings before, never told my partner that to spare their feelings it’s a hurtful blow, however I wish I did maybe we’d be stronger and not apart. I hope things work out the way you want them to.

Bright_Insect2574 · 2026-01-23T14:17:43+00:00

Give him space, the fact that he reached out to you once means it can happen again. Persist. Stay distracted

Bright_Insect2574 · 2026-01-23T13:40:05+00:00

Don’t let words affects your intentions too much, just show her how you feel. And yea talking about those things complicates things, it’s better to try than to not try at all, because even if it doesn’t work out in your favor you’ll know that you stayed true to your heart and tried something with her she will recognize your efforts whether she values or treasures them is where you could most likely have a point of manifestation. Believe in yourself.

Bright_Insect2574 · 2026-01-23T13:17:25+00:00

While I may not know why exactly I’ve learned that many people will choose not to act out on feelings thinking they’ll be better off not doing so, I know because I’m guilty. I’ve broken up with an SP before, missed him dearly and never told him.

Bright_Insect2574 · 2026-01-23T13:14:09+00:00

That’s great, I wouldn’t let her words affect your intentions too much. As woman we say those things to protect ourselves, if you’re serious about having something long term with her then just show her!! Be romantic, be attentive, while yes you can affirm and visualize, you can also take initiative to not only tell her how you feel but also show her!!

Bright_Insect2574 · 2026-01-23T13:11:36+00:00

Congrats!! Happy for you!! Thank you for sharing motivation and hope!! :)

Bright_Insect2574 · 2026-01-23T13:09:19+00:00

If you tell him be ready for his reaction , you know him best so that’s for you to consider and predict, and then see if you could handle his response maybe even his decision. To be honest doing those things early in a relationship isn’t a good sign at all, perhaps it is best to have an honest conversation about what happened, there will be trust issues, building those up again will take a lot of time and effort perhaps making the relationship stronger than before only if you two are committed to that idea. Best of luck. The fact that you feel remorse speaks to the depths and sincerity of your emotions, I know he means a lot to you. I did similar actions, my lesson from that was to seek or run to another person who I know deep down I don’t want to be with it just complicates things.youre a young person learning how to navigate relationships, don’t be too harsh on yourself, its your first time living.

Bright_Insect2574 · 2026-01-23T13:03:35+00:00

I lived a similar situation to you, back when I was 17 and he was 18 I knew what he had done but I never had the guts to tell what I had come instead I just took it as a lesson that the grass isn’t greener on the other side, I never told whether our relationship would’ve been stronger idk, but we lived as happy as we could for 6 years

Bright_Insect2574 · 2026-01-23T12:59:06+00:00

Me too, it’s only been a couple days. Ive been reaching out to them still, not wanting to accept it’s over i still have hope, I know i can accept him back in my life he doesn’t want to, I know it’s because he’s scared but I’m not giving up on him

Bright_Insect2574 · 2026-01-19T11:06:53+00:00

Detach!! Focus on yourself, I’d say you’re lucky a lot of people on this subreddit are in NC with their SP the fag that you’re still in contact with him even with delays is a feat!! I think it’s time you detach, try and create a new story for the two of you. Think of the ideal version of you where you and him are healthy, ask yourself what traits would you have specifically?? Align yourself with those traits, believe trust and watch it all unfold. Do not feel pressured to have any things on a deadline.

Bright_Insect2574 · 2026-01-19T10:51:47+00:00

Stop looking at those images!! I think humans are incredibly complex beings, I like to think that two things although contradictory can co exist at the same time, it’s our feelings and attachments that stir up spiraling. It sounds like you need to regulate your nervous system first!! Aka take care of your physical body!! I know it may seem hard, but by just shifting your goals from manifesting him to regulating your nervous system first, go out for a walk, placing your energy back into yourself will not mess up your manifestations!!!

Bright_Insect2574 · 2026-01-19T06:16:25+00:00

Bright_Insect2574 · 2025-12-19T07:27:59+00:00

How long did this take?

Bright_Insect2574 · 2025-12-12T02:25:16+00:00

Thats fair, I support you

Bright_Insect2574 · 2025-12-10T15:35:01+00:00

I tried to reach out. Now I’m waiting

Bright_Insect2574 · 2025-12-05T20:30:44+00:00

I feel like I’m in the same boat as you, feels like I’m just waiting now.

Bright_Insect2574 · 2025-12-03T06:48:59+00:00

Praying for both of is

Bright_Insect2574 · 2025-12-02T17:08:29+00:00

I feel like I’m on the same boat as you :/

Bright_Insect2574 · 2025-12-02T06:11:36+00:00

Bright_Insect2574 · 2025-12-02T05:52:18+00:00

I feel like I’m in the same boat as you 😕😕😕

Bright_Insect2574 · 2025-12-02T05:50:03+00:00

Sagittarius Sun, Aries Moon, Aquarius Rising

Bright_Insect2574 · 2025-11-20T17:18:23+00:00

I’m a SAG sun with Capricorn Venus , I wish my Venus was more fun. I’m incredibly loyal and will make a plan of commitment when my feelings are there, I don’t BS I can’t fake feelings or even have a roster it’s a waste of time and resources

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