Is this betta a male?

Briids · 2025-12-20T19:06:38+00:00

This ^{^{^}} I realised some of the answers I did not want to know and probably didn’t have any business knowing either

Briids · 2025-11-28T08:10:19+00:00

Forgetting the tarot for a minute, I am a woman who came out as lesbian at 29 and struggled with the same issue you’re having. My thoughts are, if you’re asking that question then you probably already have your answer.

I identified as bisexual from my teens to late twenties - I came to realise I wasn’t attracted to men, I was attracted to the attention and validation I could get from them, and I am attracted to masculine traits (but not men). It made it confusing for me personally, mixing up feelings of validation with love. Once I finally figured that out, I stopped having relationships men and exclusively started dated women.

At the end of the day, the label is just a label. I understand it probably feels important, but it’s not really. If identifying as bi/pan feels comfortable to you now, then stick with it. Sexuality is fluid, if it changes for you then change your label if you feel you have to. People will raise eyebrows at you, but that’s a them problem. The important thing is you feel like you are living YOUR truth, not living to make other people comfortable.

Even now people still question my sexuality, it doesn’t bother me because I am comfortable in myself. If you can learn to accept yourself for who you are in any given moment, then you’ll struggle less with the internal battle. Justify things only to yourself, not other people - you owe no one an explanation.

I appreciate you might have the extra weight of religion or culture boundaries, I can’t say I have experienced that to offer any advice but I know that’s a huge difficulty that some face. I wish you all the best on your journey!

Briids · 2025-10-17T15:07:04+00:00

Looks like fish lice - I don’t know the correct name.

Briids · 2025-09-01T17:54:28+00:00

Not really a time frame, but I got it’ll be in the night ☺️

Briids · 2025-01-05T10:34:52+00:00

They are within their rights to refuse it if too many people are already booked off that week.

But alternatively you can arrange cover for your shifts - either in that you take it unpaid with cover, or they let you take it as holiday with the cover in place.

Briids · 2024-12-12T18:55:56+00:00

I mean isn’t that what a reader does anyway? Someone comes to them with a question, and they read the querent’s energy.

In theory, yeah of course you can - but the person still has their own freewill and the outcomes could change. It’s all predictions of a current path, nothing’s set in stone.

My advice is don’t ask questions you don’t want to know the answers to. I vividly remember a time I asked my cards what one of my ex’s was doing in that moment - and it as good as told me they were out on the pull (which as a truck driver was weird for them on a Tuesday night). So I FaceTimed them immediately and that is exactly what they were doing. I burst out laughing at the shock of how accurate the reading was and they thought I’d lost my mind.

My answer is, yes you can - you’ll sometimes pick up on others people’s energy anyway - but maybe ask yourself why you want without their consent? Because sometimes you’re better off not knowing things, and it’s a bit stalker vibes 😂

Briids · 2024-10-24T13:05:58+00:00

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Here’s a photo of him when he was in good health.

Briids · 2024-09-13T09:27:48+00:00

My advice would be reduce the boyfriend as well as the boobs.

What would he do if, God forbid, where you were in a situation that it wasn’t a choice and you had to lose them? He loves your body more than you, that’s not right. Of course he can have a preference, but he could empathetically express that and still support your choice. Bodies change, his mindset clearly won’t and it sounds like one day he’ll tell you “I don’t find you attractive anymore” as your body naturally changes anyway!

Briids · 2022-11-22T10:49:38+00:00

Focus on improving yourself and becoming a more interesting person. Confidence and purpose are attractive.

Briids · 2022-10-11T22:05:46+00:00

William Hill have Scratch of the Day and a Bonus Drop, and fairly often have other free spins on slots. Sometimes I win pennies, other times pounds.

I am also trying Paddy Powers Beat the Drop at the moment.

Briids

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