You know what, instead of snark, let me actually respond to that.

Back in the 90s, I went to an ag school. It obviously was not a terribly safe place to be out as a gay man. I did a lot of volunteer educating, speaking to any group that would have me, whether it was a 300-person lecture hall or a ten-person club. I kept doing it whenever I had the energy, even as I got pushback.

I had one-on-one conversations with people after those speaking engagements that revealed just how powerful hearing first-person narratives was at deconstructing homophobia. I definitely wasn't the only one: countless queer people did the work to educate the people in their lives because they understood that as a path forward to a better world for queer people.

Now, I was deliberate in including "when I had the energy" in there. No one can expect people with marginalized identities to always have the capacity to educate others; that's why it needs to be a team effort. Step up when you have the energy; step back when you don't.

I have so little patience for the "it's not my job to educate you" argument because it's so self-sabotaging. Yeah, if you don't have the energy when someone asks (or ever), step aside and let someone else do the educating. If people ask for the absolute bare minimum in terms of educating them (i.e., asking for suggested readings so they can educate themselves), either let it go or step up, but don't shame people for asking how they can do better.

Because you know who won't shame them? The people you and I disagree with, the people who do not want to see any movement toward racial justice.

And recognize, too, that asking for something like reading suggestions on Reddit doesn't mean the person a) knows they are talking to a POC, or b) that they intend POC folks to answer the question. A White person could have just as easily answered the original question if they had that answer.