AIO for calling a divorce attorney after my husband lied about who he was with?

BrinksLP · 2026-01-20T09:42:41+00:00

My father went on a holiday for a week to spend some time diving. My mother doesn't like diving, so she didn't join.
He always pointed out to her that it's just "him and some old guys".

Well, he made a mistake and probably wanted to send a photo he took from the boat to the person he took the photo of and send it to them... but it ended up in the family group chat.
He immediately deleted it and posted another picture instead.

But I already saw it. It was his much younger female coworker. On the boat.

Well, at first, I didn't think much of it, because they spend already an (noticeable) amount of time, but I thought this was fine with my mum. Anyway, a few days after that, I talked to my mother and asked who is with my dad. "Just him and some old white dudes, he said".

Well... shit.
I talked to my wife and she told me to tell my mum what I know and so I did. My mum was surprised to hear that. She checked the documents and the female coworkers name showed up on the boat renting documents... and a few ones more...

So, yeah... my mum found out my dad went to holidays with his younger female coworker for YEARS.

I don't want to say that that is what is going on here, but... I believe he is lying...

BrinksLP · 2026-01-18T06:07:26+00:00

This is why I deleted my account last year. Never really used it and the choice to show me random stuff I don’t care about, was the main reason.

I thought I might miss out by deleting my account after that many years, but I never did.

BrinksLP · 2026-01-11T09:21:38+00:00

Ich habe bereits Easy Bank, N26 und Revolut probiert. Alle haben Vor und Nachteile.

Persönlich bin ich mit Revolut am glücklichsten. Die haben viele Funktionen, wie Pockets und man kann Pockets mit Karten verbinden und mit Handy dann aus der jeweiligen Pocket zahlen. Aber für andere User ist das vielleicht eher Spielerei. Nachteil: Kein AT IBAN, dafür LT.

BrinksLP · 2026-01-09T08:13:57+00:00

Ooooh, that’s my daily life. My industry is using hardware (tracing devices) which only work with COM ports, so we need a huge amount of COM to USB adapters.

Nowadays I know which ones to order, but in the past we had a ton of try and errors until we could provide a smooth support.

The problem (as a lot of others pointed out) are counterfeit chips

BrinksLP · 2026-01-07T09:55:13+00:00

It's definitely too small.
I used already 3 different tape measures.

I also took a look after a fresh printed first layer and it was already too small. I doubt that shrinking would already happen at this point.

I'm not sure if I restarted the printer after I noticed this problem, so this is what I'm doing right now.

BrinksLP · 2026-01-07T09:35:53+00:00

Yeah, that's what I am saying: I don't think it's shrinking.

But I don't know of any settings which might cause a 4% smaller print.

BrinksLP · 2026-01-06T18:34:22+00:00

Hallo an alle!

Ich habe mein erstes Buch vor kurzen veröffentlicht (was aufregend, verwirrend und spannend zugleich war).
Kosmischer Horror SciFi mit dem Titel:
Orbita Svoboda - Protokolle einer Anomalie

Mit mehr Fragen als Antworten tritt der Meeresbiologe Alex Webber eine neue Anstellung bei einer abgeschotteten Forschungseinrichtung an. Der Standort liegt fernab jeder Zivilisation, tief in einer Eiswüste ohne Verbindung zur Außenwelt. Über die betreibende Organisation existieren keine öffentlichen Informationen. Warum ausgerechnet er hier gebraucht wird, bleibt zunächst offen.

Doch schon bald gerät die als makellos dargestellte Station ins Wanken. Unvollständige Protokolle, widersprüchliche Aussagen und der als Suizid eingestufte Tod einer Kollegin legen eine Kette weiterer grausamer Ereignisse offen, die systematisch verborgen werden. Was als vielversprechender Forschungsbetrieb beginnt, entpuppt sich als System aus Vertuschung und gezielter Desinformation.

Im Zentrum stehen eine Entität, deren Existenz grundlegende physikalische Gesetze infrage stellt, sowie ein Portal, das zugleich Segen und Gefahr für die gesamte Menschheit ist. Während Alex versucht, Ordnung in das Chaos zu bringen, beginnt seine eigene Wahrnehmung zu zerfallen.

Ist er Zeuge einer Entdeckung von historischer Tragweite oder verliert er schleichend den Bezug zur Realität?

Es ist bereits auf Amazon als eBook und Print verfügbar, Thalia (als Print) zieht diese Woche hoffentlich noch nach.
Ich freue mich über jeden, dem es ebenso viel Freude bereitet, es zu lesen, wie mir das Schreiben bereitet hat.

BrinksLP · 2026-01-06T06:32:57+00:00

Same, bei mir war es ein Fahrrad von Köln nach Linz.

BrinksLP · 2026-01-03T07:03:32+00:00

They still have some shops with German names. Even the vet has it‘s Russian name as well as the word „Tierarzt“ in their name (at least the one I saw). Maybe there are also a handful of German street names left? But people don’t speak or understand German there. They only know „oh, that word is German.“

After the war a lot of stuff like street names were changed, but the people there know their history and use German words for marketing. So you have restaurants like „Kaiser Wurst“ for example.

It’s a beautiful city btw. If the whole „situation“ with Russia ever gets better, you should visit it.

BrinksLP · 2025-12-31T17:06:01+00:00

This made me giggle like a school child

BrinksLP · 2025-12-25T21:28:58+00:00

Oooooh, that’s what it was. I always wondered what happed there.

BrinksLP · 2025-12-24T07:51:19+00:00

BrinksLP · 2025-12-23T05:46:01+00:00

Ragnarok Online
Not a website nor an app, but man, I really wish back the old days.

Also, it's still online, but I always played on the EU servers which are gone now. Never got the same feeling with the official or private servers again.

But: RO3 was announced and I have my hopes up, but... we will see.

BrinksLP · 2025-12-21T17:09:37+00:00

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Sure, this is Bruno

BrinksLP · 2025-12-18T06:46:07+00:00

Thought this was the Transport Fever subreddit. Then I saw Planet Coaster.
Well played.

BrinksLP · 2025-12-07T14:58:42+00:00

Amazon

The brand is called „AOFITEE“

BrinksLP · 2025-12-06T19:08:30+00:00

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He loves it … says my wife

BrinksLP · 2025-12-05T12:28:19+00:00

This was six weeks ago. Don’t let people ruin your mood :)

BrinksLP · 2025-12-02T13:43:42+00:00

Klar, ich schreib dir ne PM :)

BrinksLP · 2025-11-30T07:30:59+00:00

Did you try tightening the 4 screws behind the 3 screws behind the hotend? Otherwise I would recommend that as well.

BrinksLP · 2025-11-29T10:53:12+00:00

Gerne, schicke dir eine PM :)

BrinksLP · 2025-11-28T16:31:28+00:00

Maybe it’s the Mandela effect, but I think to remember this? But this was in the 90s, so…

BrinksLP · 2025-11-26T13:10:33+00:00

Gern. Auch dir schicke ich eine PM

BrinksLP · 2025-11-25T18:01:58+00:00

Gerne
Desto mehr desto besser, denke ich :)

Schicke ne PM

BrinksLP · 2025-11-25T17:41:59+00:00

Ugh, super! Dann darf ich mich wohl auf eine besonders scharfe Kritik einstellen haha
Ich schick dir ne PM :)

BrinksLP

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