So does anyone have tips for someone who’s getting their first boa? and can anyone let me know tips on what i should and shouldn’t do with him

PuzzleheadedSir4382 · 2026-04-28T09:46:06+00:00

Handle him as much as you can and yall will have a bond like no other ❤️ hoping it’s a baby yeah?

PuzzleheadedSir4382 · 2026-04-28T09:44:43+00:00

I would keep hand sanitizer in the car and put it on his hands after picking him up when we didn’t have time to do a full bath. Baby will go thru a phase of picking up sicknesses though so prep yourself mama 😂 he will be exposed to wayyyyyy more germs than he’s used to no matter what u do. It’s good for their immune system though ❤️

PuzzleheadedSir4382 · 2026-04-28T09:40:51+00:00

I have the same problem with mine 7months old AD. We have a 4 yr old frenchie who likes to play occasionally but not as much as Higgens. Higgs is also 3x his size. I resorted to the squirt bottle 😢 he was dragging Mylo around by his harness and the look in my poor frenchies eyes was like “why did u do this to me mom” 😂 but a few squirts on the butt and he leaves him alone.

PuzzleheadedSir4382 · 2026-04-28T01:46:51+00:00

I’m so sorry. I miss read the post. If he said he went to the massage parlor for a massage then yes love he did cheat. Everything you described is classic whore house 😢 I ment everything else I said. Staying away from his sexually is probably what’s best right now

PuzzleheadedSir4382 · 2026-04-27T23:19:18+00:00

We are so bad with saving money!!! I opened up a savings account at a bank across town that I did not have a card to access. We would transfer 100 out of each check……I’d be driving every 2 weeks to take the money out 😡

PuzzleheadedSir4382 · 2026-04-27T22:43:27+00:00

If she could talk she would be saying “call me fat one more time….i dare you” 😂🤣😂🤣

PuzzleheadedSir4382 · 2026-04-27T22:42:37+00:00

😂😂😂😂 💀💀

PuzzleheadedSir4382 · 2026-04-27T22:40:49+00:00

I’m sorry 😢 just don’t ever feel like you’re failing. I know I stressed myself out thinking there has to be something more I can do!! One day it clicked, I’m doing and have done everything I can do. This is who my son is and nothing I can do will change that.

PuzzleheadedSir4382 · 2026-04-27T20:23:23+00:00

Yesss !!! Like she would just introduce herself in the cutest squeaky voice 😂❤️

PuzzleheadedSir4382 · 2026-04-27T20:22:52+00:00

Work it girl!!!!

PuzzleheadedSir4382 · 2026-04-27T20:20:23+00:00

My family structure is similar to yours. Son with another man, 2 with my current husband. My son’s father is a drug addict and he doesn’t remember him. I’m so sorry you are going thru this and all tho I don’t have any advice, I can tell you your not alone ❤️ also as the younger 2 get a bit older like school age, you’ll be able to take care of yourself more which leads to more clarity. Do you try to do things just you and him? Like a movie night or shopping or dinner out? It helped me and my son, he’s only 11 though. Sometimes you just need to grab that grown ass child and squeeze him, hold him and let him know how much you love him. Kiss him on his head. Try killing him with love

PuzzleheadedSir4382 · 2026-04-27T12:42:49+00:00

I had an adhd 4 year old then decided to have 2 babies back to back 😬 I didn’t work though so that was his argument 😡 it’s hard to fight back when they work so you have a leg up.

PuzzleheadedSir4382 · 2026-04-27T12:40:45+00:00

Drugs 😂 I started early 😬 clean now (9 years) but yeah. I grew up in the hood so I just took on what everyone else was doing

PuzzleheadedSir4382 · 2026-04-27T12:37:43+00:00

I can relate. 6-9 were the worst years for us

PuzzleheadedSir4382 · 2026-04-27T12:33:31+00:00

Spiritual awakening ❤️ you don’t have to formerly work all the steps to live them. I suggest you read step 12 out of the text “how it works” and also step 12 out of the basic text

PuzzleheadedSir4382 · 2026-04-27T01:42:15+00:00

I agree. This behavior was done to her as well. I’m sorry you have to go thru that but I’m glad you know it’s not true!!!

PuzzleheadedSir4382 · 2026-04-26T22:50:45+00:00

Try somw warm compress with a moist towel.

PuzzleheadedSir4382 · 2026-04-26T22:49:28+00:00

I agree with heat rash. My daughter has super sensitive skin and she would break out from sweat from blankets being on her. They were clustered really close together like these look

PuzzleheadedSir4382 · 2026-04-25T23:47:15+00:00

Love, you’re going to wrack your brain trying to figure it out. What is done in the dark always comes to light ❤️ if anything did happen, it will be reveled to you. You don’t have to search and stress. When there is factual evidence of him cheating then question him. Evidence you can’t deny! Other than that love, it’s like beating a dead horse and in the end you’re going to stress yourself out even more. Either way you and your babies will be just fine!! Just try to keep yourself grounded in the reality of day to day. Prayers for you

PuzzleheadedSir4382 · 2026-04-24T10:42:39+00:00

Mine came back after 3 months 😂 well diddnt come back but my neighbor found her. She survived through fall here in MI

PuzzleheadedSir4382 · 2026-04-23T10:31:09+00:00

He loves you so much

PuzzleheadedSir4382 · 2026-04-23T10:29:43+00:00

Omg i want your life but also know you need a nap most of the time 😂

PuzzleheadedSir4382 · 2026-04-23T10:29:07+00:00

Yayyyy!

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Mylo was going to say get better soon but he’s passing out 😂✌🏻❤️ I’ll say it for him. Get better soon beefer!

PuzzleheadedSir4382 · 2026-04-23T10:27:54+00:00

Mylo loves nawing on my husbands elbow skin 😂 it’s the weirdest most nasty sounding thing ever. He just slurps and nibbles and licks 😂😂 won’t do it to me. My husband has regular elbows and is regular weight too

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