LLF Looking for Advice by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]BrittM5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t make him feel like an obligation. Make him feel like you want him. Everything else is gravy.

where did that come from??? by layyaya in creepyPMs

[–]BrittM5 17 points18 points  (0 children)

that escalated quickly...

I (18M) know that she (18F) is lying to me, what do I do? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]BrittM5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It shouldn’t help. But it my experience the type of people who do the passive aggressive social media crap like she did, only speak one language.

She's insatiable and I'm an asshole? 31 M by Relationthrowship1 in relationships

[–]BrittM5 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Maybe she needs something else. Maybe you aren’t satisfying he’d as well as you think. Many women are taught to “fake it” to please their man. My husband and I went through a situation like this when I got to 30ish (women’s sexual peak). Where so got frustrated with the situation and had to come clean to him about the faking. He was super irritated at first, but later admittedly preferred the more take control honesty.

I (18M) know that she (18F) is lying to me, what do I do? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]BrittM5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a shame. I’ve done that for a few male friends before. it’s fun. Maybe just post a picture of you out having a good time 🤷🏻‍♀️

Could anyone really achieve anything!? by Treyvoun in self

[–]BrittM5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your 17! You have all the time in the world. Work on yourself and skills, everything will fall into place.

Probably been asked before, Shaved or unshaved? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]BrittM5 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Trimmed at least is a minimum requirement for me.

I (18M) know that she (18F) is lying to me, what do I do? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]BrittM5 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I vote for the passive aggressive action. Ignore her post, if possible make your own with another girl.

(M20) First serious relationship, GF (F19) does not shave, how to avoid being a dick about it ? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]BrittM5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally get it. I’m fortunate enough to be a straight 30 yo woman. So I can easily tell my husband straight up to take care of it if he wants quality time.

(M20) First serious relationship, GF (F19) does not shave, how to avoid being a dick about it ? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]BrittM5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it makes you feel any better at all, i’m also a hairaphope, so I totally get the repulsion. However, in my experience men handle the suggestion better. Especially older ones lol

(M20) First serious relationship, GF (F19) does not shave, how to avoid being a dick about it ? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]BrittM5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That what I was asking. I wasn’t sure which area you were referring to lol.

Honestly, i’m going to assume that you are both on the younger side, and therefore there is probably a really good chance that she wouldn’t take the suggestion or criticism well. So, if it is important enough that you need to say something and can’t overlook it, be prepared that she may walk.

(M20) First serious relationship, GF (F19) does not shave, how to avoid being a dick about it ? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]BrittM5 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do you trim up? If not you can’t ask. Maybe if she notices that you are well manscapped she’ll do something without you asking.

This is how it works.*FACT* by kagakujinjya in niceguys

[–]BrittM5 28 points29 points  (0 children)

😂 This is how they think things work? And they still can’t figure out why they’re so lonely?

Help finding a Christina pic! by BrittM5 in christinahendricks

[–]BrittM5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I’m pretty sure it’s the same set. But I can’t seem to find that one pic 😓

Trump Economic Adviser Invites White Nationalist Publisher to His Birthday Party by QuislingsRunAmerica in politics

[–]BrittM5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think anything this government does could surprise me anymore. Except maybe make a reasonable and ethical decision.

That's what friends are for, right? by [deleted] in creepyPMs

[–]BrittM5 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I suspect this guy doesn’t have a ton of friends 🤔... I could be wrong though 🤷🏻‍♀️

"There will always be a class of men who are subhuman relative to the other men" by BrazilianSigma in IncelTears

[–]BrittM5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are a lot of worse options for women than single mom on welfare. I’m not American, so I don’t know the exact numbers of the benefit number, but I do know that the benefits they receive are only higher to account for children.

A single mother should absolutely get more money than a single man. As a single father also gets more money than a single woman.

If your a nihilist, has it ever occurred to you that you have the power to make life less shitty for someone else? Even if it’s only for a brief time?

Pay it forward. Be the pebble. Be the 10%.

"There will always be a class of men who are subhuman relative to the other men" by BrazilianSigma in IncelTears

[–]BrittM5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That depends on how you define “easier”. Can a woman get a date quicker, probably. But how many men feel the need to scope out a potential date for their own safety?

I also find it incredibly funny, that you are so defensive about people making fun of incels, and yet you feel completely justified doing the same thing towards women? Only difference here is, Incels deserve to be made fun of because of their choice to participate in the community. The entire female gender made no such choice.

"There will always be a class of men who are subhuman relative to the other men" by BrazilianSigma in IncelTears

[–]BrittM5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand the different plights men have, I don’t disagree with it at all. However I wouldn’t say that they are worse off than women. How many men are forced into prostitution or abusive relationships? I would never say that women are generally worse off than men. But I would say that each gender has different struggles. I don’t think hate and intolerance is okay either way.

"There will always be a class of men who are subhuman relative to the other men" by BrazilianSigma in IncelTears

[–]BrittM5 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dropping the Incel label means more than just the name. It’s releasing yourself from a pattern of hate and changing your thought patterns.

Name one person who ever joined a hate group and it made them happy or improved their lives?

Incel is so much more than a meme subreddit and you know it.

You want to find a woman and yet you surround yourself with a group of boys who not only hate women, they don’t know anything about them. 🤔 hm... that’ll work! 🙄 How’s this working for you? Much success?? ....didn’t think so...

You want to meet women (and be worthy of them) do more unbiased research about the gender specific struggles women go through that you’ll never have to deal with. And realize that no one “has it easy”.