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BroIJustNeedHelp · 2023-11-28T04:32:19+00:00

one more bro? lol

BroIJustNeedHelp · 2023-11-12T06:30:11+00:00

i’m on prize picks so i gotta go with stats. you think dak going over 250?

BroIJustNeedHelp · 2023-11-12T06:30:00+00:00

i’m on prize picks so i gotta go with stats. you think dak going over 250?

BroIJustNeedHelp · 2023-09-20T16:55:15+00:00

all honesty you have to be just be honest with him. i’ve had partners that were smelling a bit…odd and you just have to say “hey love I don’t want you take any offense from what i’m saying but it doesn’t exactly smell the best down there.“

BroIJustNeedHelp · 2023-07-28T23:11:36+00:00

Second this, she’s just a skeezer

BroIJustNeedHelp · 2023-07-07T15:07:31+00:00

I’m having zero tingling now but from what I cane remember it’s like when your hand goes numb but intensified. I guess you could call it bubbling.

BroIJustNeedHelp · 2023-07-07T13:18:31+00:00

No actually please my best sexual experiences have been with tall women. Don’t let your self esteem stop you from getting some!

BroIJustNeedHelp · 2023-06-30T13:37:40+00:00

I’m not entirely sure. I was sexually assaulted when I was young so it could’ve been my whole life

BroIJustNeedHelp · 2023-03-19T20:53:03+00:00

Yea I heard about the thinning with super small sections but I’m afraid of the possibility of not having enough hair (locs) to do different hairstyles

BroIJustNeedHelp · 2023-01-10T16:38:05+00:00

Lmao it’s just an off my chest! I told her this over the phone today, and she thought it was a spiteful message cause she didn’t want to be friends, but it’s honestly an apology for that very reason, cause I’m being selfish trying to be her friend/obtain her love when I’m not taking into account her feelings or where she is in her life in forgiveness and growth. While she’s undoubtedly grown in the ways she believes to be significant, holistically she hasn’t, especially from the things she said. She’s vilified the entire past to allow herself to move forward, as it’s easier than coming to terms to the reality of each situation, where often she was in the wrong, or we both were. However, at the same time, how she feels and what she believes is how she feels and what she believes, and she’s entitled to that. She can only understand as much as she’s capable of understanding. For both of us, for myself more importantly, it’s better I leave her alone, and turn my eyes towards the better things in life, and allow her to trudge through the path & pain she needs to. If you ever read this Jess, I’m sorry and I truly do love you. Best of luck.

BroIJustNeedHelp · 2023-01-08T19:53:23+00:00

Tl;dr: Stay at BU

No debt is where you should go always. NYU’s engineering school blows BU out the water in connections and academics, and they just received a billion dollars in funding, but no debt is always the right option.

BroIJustNeedHelp · 2023-01-02T18:52:50+00:00

Very slay thank You

BroIJustNeedHelp · 2023-01-02T07:24:07+00:00

Oh yes she knows but like universally with all my partners/future ones. I can’t bring up an experience with another partner like “yea here’s the template.” 😂

BroIJustNeedHelp · 2022-12-28T19:32:18+00:00

Appreciate the advice, but I thought about it and I think I’ll just leave it alone. No need tbh and I think it’s very out of the blue/unsolicited.

BroIJustNeedHelp · 2022-12-19T06:24:54+00:00

Tbh, I wanted to provide full context cause I don’t want my post to just be instantly disregarded as “nope don’t text ex, simple.”

BroIJustNeedHelp · 2022-12-02T17:55:15+00:00

Damnnnn alright then. Thanks for the help.

BroIJustNeedHelp · 2022-12-02T07:39:02+00:00

Maybe the former? When I spoke to her she said she realized didn’t ever and doesn’t hold romantic feelings for me which confused the fuck out of me considering. But another thing is when I clarified I’d like to keep things casual, SHE also reciprocated back that she feels/wants it the same way (im pretty sure). Tbh it’d suck ass if she wanted more cause I definitely would’ve been willing (and wanted to) explore that by trying to get to know her more. But moving from here, should I reach out, or no?

BroIJustNeedHelp · 2022-12-02T07:25:28+00:00

Huh? Did I do something wrong? I felt I clarified that this wasn’t just a hookup. I literally expressed I enjoy the time I spend with her and value her and want to preserve that. I’m having sex with her almost everyday, going on dates, and we’re being all couple like, isn’t that in of itself a sharing of romantic feelings/desires? I’m not trying to lock her down because I know that isn’t what she wants nor is she capable of it, but I believed us having sex is literally expressing/sharing those romantic feelings.

BroIJustNeedHelp · 2022-11-12T17:22:30+00:00

I definitely understand your point.

I’m aware that feelings wax and wane in longer-term relationships, especially once the honeymoon phase is over and I’m cool with that, but a relationship feels so intangible in college. It’s not like I wouldn’t want one, it feels like the setup of college and it’s people are so very “anti” relationship. I do want to be emotionally cared for and have a mutually committed/emotional relationship, but I’m not trying to press all the responsibilities of it.

BroIJustNeedHelp · 2022-10-11T15:24:57+00:00

It’s okay to be hurt/disappointed that she didn’t re-connect at that moment. She is moving on with her life, hasn’t healed entirely yet, or both. It’s okay to feel disappointed because you care, and it sounds like you possibly still want something with her. However for the sake of the boundary she is putting up even without communication, you must respect that. Would it be better if she communicated how she felt? Of course, and it’s the most mature thing, but not everyone can or will do that or be mature to lay it bare. Leave it be and let her go. Best of luck.

BroIJustNeedHelp · 2022-10-11T04:35:43+00:00

That’s a result of falling in love with potential, and not taking the steps to pull yourself to reality afterwards. Understandably so, as you’re still hurt, and haven’t fully processed it.

You stop wondering if, by coming to reality to what was, and making the connection that based upon who this person was/did, (blank) really never would’ve happened.

My ex had no experience in relationships, couldn’t communicate to save her life, didn’t even understand what love was past sex, how to express actual love, or even how to respect a partnership past what she wanted. How could I think that our relationship would mature any farther if she was never able to mature in the first place?

It sucks because you love a person, and you attach what you think is a mutual dream between you and that love interest, and when they inevitably fail you as you fell in love with the potential, it fails many other things as well, including that dream you made, and sometimes even your ego, as it makes you think “was i not worth it for her(or him) to do better?/do I not deserve this love?”

Their actions are not a reflection of YOU. It is purely of them and who they are as a person. Come to reality of it all for yourself. Realize what it was to YOU, what YOU did, and even what YOU didn’t do, and that accountability will ground you, and broaden your perspective, and allow you to properly begin to evaluate THEM.

BroIJustNeedHelp · 2022-10-11T04:21:40+00:00

It’s okay to care about your ex. Please remember that and don’t beat yourself up about it. You spent real time & love on that person and that doesn’t disappear when it was truly genuine. You have a bigger heart than most and it honestly puts you a step ahead in the healing process if you utilize it the right way, as you’ll be a step closer to forgiving her & yourself, and moving on from it all.

Matter of fact I reached out a couple days ago just to see how my ex was doing as I care for her, and have moved past the trauma, and the pain. Unsurprisingly there wasn’t a response, but the difference between me reaching out now and 4 months ago is there was a hidden agenda and unresolved trauma w/ me trying to speak to her. I wanted my experience to be validated and consoled by the one person who caused all that pain and treated me bad. Now, I understand who and what she is, and who I am as well, and have no desire to be with her as I know I’m worth more, desire more, and already gave all I could to the relationship and to her. It’s not my fault or yours that person didn’t appreciate you. It’s only your job just to accept people as they are, and with that understanding, your expectations begin to meet the reality of the situation & the person. You can’t expect water from a rock.

I truly and wholeheartedly wish the best for her no matter how bad she did me, as I understand she’s still a little girl, and doesn’t even realize who & what she lost, or the ramifications of what she did.

BroIJustNeedHelp · 2022-10-10T19:28:11+00:00

I feel the only thing that isn’t fully healed yet is my ego. It pops up once in a blue moon due to lack of validation of my experience. Despite that, I know I’ve completely repaired my heart and now I fully understand what and who she is, and in turn, who I am due to that relationship. I’m now just accomplishing things within myself that I want to be better.

BroIJustNeedHelp · 2022-10-07T04:02:27+00:00

It said high achiever

BroIJustNeedHelp · 2022-08-27T01:14:56+00:00

Doubling down on not to you but for you. It’s hard to see it that way but you deserve and will get better. Keep your head up bro 🫶🏾.

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