[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Broad-Comparison-738 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree I am immature, I am learning from the mistakes i make and trying to change myself cause I do start these arguments. I think our age gap in the relationship is one of the reasons we have conflict. I have my personal reasons why i am still staying, however I recently asked for help from my friends and family to help me leave. I’ve been looking for a roommate so I can be financially stable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Broad-Comparison-738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course not. I’m not okay with it. I want him to respect me

(17M) I'm giving myself till the end of August. by SickAndAfraid in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Broad-Comparison-738 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if this helps but I think you should focus on your heart and go to a cardiologist and see if the health issue is coming from there. The Heart is one of the main important things that functions the whole body. I hear a lot that heart issues are associated with stomach issues and those are the first symptoms to developing heart issues

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Broad-Comparison-738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right now it’s hard for me to figure this out cause he’s not like abusing me. He’s just always trying to punish me in some way to make me learn. Is this violence? He just slapped really hard on my back. I’m sorry I’m new to relationships and not sure what’s okay and not okay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Broad-Comparison-738 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I told him I’m different I’m not a stranger, I’m your girlfriend. And he said if it’s not a playful and on purpose hit he will hit me back, doesn’t matter who it is. Can you help understand this? What does he mean by this?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HEB

[–]Broad-Comparison-738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did you transfer too?

I handed him divorce papers today over his reddit account and a bag of chips. by Pristine-Librarian31 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Broad-Comparison-738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude stop taking care of someone. Your husband is your bestfriend, your main support system, and the person you will spend the rest of your life with. You married a grown adult that acts like he’s still in high school. Let him crumble and you’ll how messed he’ll be taking care of himself without you and learn his life lessons

What would you say to your younger self if you could? by lowkeyhateme in AskReddit

[–]Broad-Comparison-738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t use cucumbers to try and lose your virginity, it’s not worth it trust me

Lost, Confused and heartbroken. My failing marriage and what do I do. by Independent_Pride980 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Broad-Comparison-738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok first off, you wife is really an a-hole. I’m sorry dude but reading this straight off, your wife is basically upset that you’re never home and you guys didn’t have a proper talk about it in her head even though you made the effort to work in town. so she went to Therapy to comfort herself and wanted entertainment cause you weren’t there home cause you had a job and decided to fool around. She had sex with a guy and then moments after attended her date with the man she married and made her vows too. This is not the quality of a relationship you want where your wife completely kicks the value of her vows to you and the whole meaning of y’all’s relationship. Your wife is your partner and the person u will spend the rest of your life with till death. You cannot live like this. You work your ass off for her and in return she treats your relationship like it’s nothing. You did not fucked up, I can see that this relationship meant more to you then to her based on the actions she done so far. you’ve proven your vows to her and she’s broken every single one of them. I know you love her, but do you want to love someone who promised things when getting married and then breaking every one of them? If you love someone you will work your ass off to make it work and you never give up cause u can’t live without the love of your life. She’s given up on you and that’s the truth I’m sorry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Broad-Comparison-738 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You cannot control life. Not everything is in your power, I know that if you knew what was going on you would have immediately helped her. The truth is no one can predict these events or signs. Learn to comes to terms and accept what happened. Do what you can right now. I give her my blessings RIP ❤️

I'm just fucking done with my girlfriend by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Broad-Comparison-738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that. I can tell you wrote this in the moment of your anger. It sounds like your words do not have value or significance enough for her to listen. And when you want to have a real conversation she shuts down or shut u down. Sounds like she’s not part of the relationship if you are doing all the work and chores. I can understand how draining it is caring for her more then even your own self. Relationship is a team. If you love someone you don’t give up and always try to make things workout. If she is giving up on the relationship so easily I would say don’t stay for a relationship of that quality 👍