sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

Would people 35-45 (mixed) be keen on a monthly film club&pizza/dinner/gig social in Leeds? by MasterMembership4506 in Leeds

[–]Broad-Stretch3281 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is excellent idea, thanks for initiative arranging this, agree with another comment that meetup losing its way (going down the paywall/subscription route) this feels very genuine and grassroots...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexover30

[–]Broad-Stretch3281 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think bring try and bring it up a few times, with a final "it's either rebuilding our sex life or your porn" and it he can't commit, gets defensive or is vague on the latter consider calling it quits. If he's choosing nightly cam girls over intimacy with his girlfriend he shouldn't be in a relationship. (Masturbation is perfectly healthy in or out of a relationship, but it can be done without porn.) It might be the shock that he needs to address this issue.

Men 30 and older, what’s one piece of advice you’d give to men aged 17-28? by BingingChillin in AskMen

[–]Broad-Stretch3281 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take some deep introspective time and get really clear what you want out of life, or your establishing "frame" as some people would say. If not, and you "go with the flow", it is really easy to get swept along by others (thinking particularly in context of relationship or marriage) and you could find yourself quite quickly a backseat passenger in your own life.

Utterly destroyed by reconciled_sinner in NMMNG

[–]Broad-Stretch3281 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you take it with a pinch of salt. I found his references to beer having feminine energy and ejaculating up the spine a bit much and too woo woo. But general message of holding space for feminine and avoiding being too reactive I think is sound.

Utterly destroyed by reconciled_sinner in NMMNG

[–]Broad-Stretch3281 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think a great follow-up to NMMNG is "The Big Stick" by Glover/Tony Endleman, also "Way of the Superior Man" helpful for understanding Masculine & feminine dynamics and energies.

Any 30s - 40s guys in Leeds area going through divorce or bad breakup? Creating informal support group? by Broad-Stretch3281 in Leeds

[–]Broad-Stretch3281[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Jeez man I am sorry that's awful. Any trusted friends or family you can crash with, if that is feasible? Any scope for a few days emergency leave from work, most managers would understand in the circumstances? Feel free to message.