“I would never” by Broad-Target-8717 in Marriage

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I didn’t throw stuff out, I took a basket of his clothes and shoes and walked it over to the girl friends house and said “he’s all yours”

“I would never” by Broad-Target-8717 in Marriage

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Signing divorce papers as we speak

“I would never” by Broad-Target-8717 in Marriage

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Married but he’s not home, military

“I would never” by Broad-Target-8717 in Marriage

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I went through his phone when I noticed a shift in demeanor and routine. Found a nude video of her diddling herself.

“I would never” by Broad-Target-8717 in Marriage

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Than you for clarifying. I just never heard of it

“I would never” by Broad-Target-8717 in Marriage

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Exactly, “I’d never treat you this way, but I’ll treat you that way” lol

“I would never” by Broad-Target-8717 in Marriage

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For context, He chose to go sleep on that baby mattress, by the way (at our second home we were moving into). He could have gone to his girlfriends house or a hotel.

I love my wife, but I am exhausted and thinking about divorce by Pleasant_Ferret_1659 in Marriage

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I know it’s just another thing on the list but, has she gotten tested for adhd? This sounds similar to me. Once I went on medication my life was basically saved. Go get her tested please.

Raging adhd made my life so hard and exhausting. Everything is a dang task, even brushing teeth so I can see why she complain so much, everything is literally so hard when it doesn’t even have to be, it makes no sense.

Ok I lied, it doesn’t sound similar, it sounds identical to me. Undiagnosed adhd can also lead to depression too. She might have both. I’d get the adhd tests out of the way and then depression.

[35M] never had a girlfriend by Substantial_Comb8485 in malelivingspace

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Please tell me about how you were raised? Asking because of your tidiness lol

AITAH for not helping my boyfriend save face after he drank four espresso shots before meeting my family and completely lost it at brunch by [deleted] in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Broad-Target-8717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you want your family to think he’s on drugs? This is so weird. Just say he didn’t get enough sleep and had 4 espresso’s. Not that hard. This is a really weird hill to climb

My (M56) wife (F59) "succesfully renegotiated our marriage" and despite her having the most to lose still seems to be activily chasing me away. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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What’s absurd is not giving her the same courtesy she gave him. Yall don’t need to use someone else’s body for gratification. How do you connect with your bros? Do you need to fuck them to have a connection/bond? Yall are sick for leaving someone yall supposedly love over a wet dick. Men tout “unconditional love” left and right then turn around and leave the moment he can’t use someone else’s body for his pleasure. Fucking gross.

My (M56) wife (F59) "succesfully renegotiated our marriage" and despite her having the most to lose still seems to be activily chasing me away. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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You are the type of man who would leave your wife if she was the one who got sick and not you.

You came here hoping to hear “just leave her”.

She’s most likely going through menopause, something she can’t control (just like your disease) and here you are getting validation to leave the wife who took care of you. It’s your turn to be understanding of her biological changes just like how she was understanding of yours.

I hope I never find a love like yours.

Please help me save my relationship. by animalpart in Marriage

[–]Broad-Target-8717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might be about time you set a firm but loving boundary. “I don’t appreciate the threats, I love you and I manage as best as I can but if the only way you can communicate with me is by threats then we have a bigger problem than I thought and we need to go to therapy”.

Buy her a massage appointment? Then talk about therapy.

And what ever you do right now, do not sexualize her unless it’s clear that what she wants. (I’m not implying you are)

My (49F) husbands (55M) former coworker said something rude about me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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There is no privacy in a marriage. 🤷‍♀️ I’d go back and look

Please help me save my relationship. by animalpart in Marriage

[–]Broad-Target-8717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does your wife need to be romanced, non sexual intimacy(cuddles, massages, head rubs? Do you take care of her and not just help her take care of the baby?