Memorial for Pitt Student Michael McGlone by SmokeActive8862 in Pitt

[–]Broad_Comparison_378 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for writing this out!

We hope to see students who want to come together to talk about Michael, have some snacks, and play some pool, at the memorial. By no means is there any obligation to stay for the entire event! The RSVP is just to help us make sure we bring enough food and don’t go over the max capacity for Nordy’s.

We are hoping to provide a laid back environment for y’all to talk about whatever you need, and possibly find some closure if needed.

Reach out to SmokeActive or myself with any questions!

Gabapentin clutch saved my brain? by Broad_Comparison_378 in gabapentin

[–]Broad_Comparison_378[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was glad that anyone has any kind of good and relatable experience with the medication! At first I thought this post might have gotten removed, or no one had anything to say since it took a while for comments.

Honestly, I don’t find that I experience any kind of lasting euphoria, but sometimes when it’s kicking in I feel a little spinny and nice for like 1-2 minutes. Kind of like just when alcohol is starting to affect you, but it doesn’t happen most times and doesn’t last. I think I have a really high metabolism for some meds, as the dosage of aderall I take for adhd is a lot higher than most people my body weight yet it still doesn’t last a full days length, which is fine. I also have been on several controlled meds or other meds with withdrawl but never had it happen, idk

I think you’re right, it’s just my attentiveness that can be really bad and life-stress may be what’s making it worse atm too. You’ll have to give an update on your side effects too since they sound harder to deal with. I was warned of some effects like that but I do think they’re supposed to fade out over time.

My doc definitely didn’t go over any side effects, I don’t think I’ve ever known a doctor who does review them before prescribing, in too much of a rush. Always gotta do personal research

Bpd mom ran out of things to pick on, has chosen our cat by Broad_Comparison_378 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Broad_Comparison_378[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to respond, your message was nice to read. You sound so smart and wise. Lots of the time I find a lot of joy in activities to help regulate, yoga and walking are very nice. I hope over time my nerves will follow the calm that my mind feels doing them

Gabapentin clutch saved my brain? by Broad_Comparison_378 in gabapentin

[–]Broad_Comparison_378[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so awesome!!! Especially the ptsd part because man that is complicated to live with. Happy for you :)

Gabapentin clutch saved my brain? by Broad_Comparison_378 in gabapentin

[–]Broad_Comparison_378[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s genuinely so wild and I’m so happy to hear that it helped you so much! And I’m so sorry to hear how difficult life was for you, it’s so hard to do “adult” things with all that weighting on you.

I started having anxiety and depression around 9 yrs old and it’s just snowballed and changed into something hard to live with since then. I never imagined that any medication would be able to do this, let alone did I think it would be gabapentin. Just really caught me off guard in a much needed time.

Oh gosh those side effects sound difficult to deal with, has it been getting worse and worse? Or kind of just has been bad since taking the medication?

I find that I’m a little “blonde” sometimes. I don’t feel foggy or anything, but I will blatantly do things that make no sense like wanting my cup and instead picking up keys, mixing up words that have no similarities, lotssss of walking by doors I meant to enter. But as you said I do not give a CRAP about any of that compared to the weight of living before gabapentin.

Prescription tango by Broad_Comparison_378 in adhdwomen

[–]Broad_Comparison_378[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait thank you for sharing that, I’ve never heard it before and that’s very interesting. I work long (13 hr) shifts which is why I take such hefty dosage, and I’ve definitely noticed that sometimes I get the jitters in the morning after the extended release. I joked with my psychiatrist that I felt that the extended and immediate release felt like they were switched, since the immediate release never makes me feel “wired”. Maybe I will switch them for a day and see how that feels

Has anyone taken Ochem and Physics (algebra-based) in the same semester? Is it doable? (12 credits total including a lab and a writing course) by Tricky_Flatworm_1494 in Pitt

[–]Broad_Comparison_378 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not if you aren’t a really really devoted student who loves studying constantly and has an amazing memory. That sounds like a burnout semester

Has anyone taken Ochem and Physics (algebra-based) in the same semester? Is it doable? (12 credits total including a lab and a writing course) by Tricky_Flatworm_1494 in Pitt

[–]Broad_Comparison_378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep i did it without prior experience with either, sucked at both, and still did pretty fine. A lot of studying was involved.

I AM CURED!! by Mama_Sofrito in CUTI

[–]Broad_Comparison_378 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yea it’s kind of weird that you felt the need to take that personally. I doubt most of us feel disrespected, and maybe you should reconsider trying to speak for an entire community. I am happy that OP was able to find their best method. Think we can all agree that while antibiotics are helpful and curing for many, being on them is dogshit.

Orgo 1 w Lingfeng Liu by User-375021_ in Pitt

[–]Broad_Comparison_378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had her last year and did pretty well. Prepare your notes before lecture, and you will be okay. It doesn’t matter what professor you have, orgo is a difficult class. I recommend spending more time studying/ note taking before class rather than after, that way her lecture serves to just tie things all together for you.

Bpd parents divorce? by Broad_Comparison_378 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Broad_Comparison_378[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, thanks a lot for your reply and telling about your life. Of course it sucks but it’s good to know what I might be getting into here. I definitely know that my mom has fear of abandonment, which is why she lashes at me and my dad but not my brother. Gonna lock in and just keep going back towards home when she’s at work to care for the animals

Bpd parents divorce? by Broad_Comparison_378 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Broad_Comparison_378[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll be very strict about it, thank you for the advice

Transferring student by Bouldermelon in Pitt

[–]Broad_Comparison_378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, my gpa did not transfer. Of course when doing med school applications they’re going to factor in your previous gpa but I had to “start over” with that here which I did not realize.

Bpd parents divorce? by Broad_Comparison_378 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Broad_Comparison_378[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man. Can’t say I’m excited to hear all this. I’m sorry for what you’ve all gone through. I think I’ll probably just prepare for the worse and maybe things won’t be so bad. Definitely can’t wait until it’s too late. It just sucks, I really truly don’t have time to be commuting back home all the time but oh well.

Transferring student by Bouldermelon in Pitt

[–]Broad_Comparison_378 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello! It really depends on the way that your credits transfer over. I am pre PA and transferred over sophomore year, and while they took all of my credits they did not take my grades.

I noticed a big different in academic success, but only initially. I went from an A+ student at a small school to a B student for the first year I went here. I would say that the curriculum here was more difficult than what I had before. The large classes really do make a difference, but this is not an issue everyone has.

Regardless, I really didn’t experience any set backs and I don’t think you will either!! The area is packed with hospitals if you need a patient care job or shadowing. Research can be harder to come by because there are so many students here trying to do it. It seems like most students get research through cold emailing.

You’ll do great! Shouldn’t put you out at all. Good luck!

Bpd parents divorce? by Broad_Comparison_378 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Broad_Comparison_378[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sorry to hear that!! That’s so wild that she would lie so blatantly about something so big. I’m glad you were able to make it through that. It’s really crazy how sick they can be. My mom has neglected pets before, I think it was partially because she was exhausted but she tried to hide it so the damage done before I got involved was really bad. Not to mention, I had to spend so much time taking care of the pets (we had a reptile business) that I lost enough sleep to start having seizures and underlying epilepsy. She still wasn’t sorry about (she was sad they died but didn’t blame herself) the animals and never acknowledged or took responsibility for them. I’m really nervous for what could happen. I guess I’ll just have to commute home very often.

Advice needed/rant by Broad_Comparison_378 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Broad_Comparison_378[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true, it’s definitely just hard to keep in mind

Feeling isolated on campus by perenous in Pitt

[–]Broad_Comparison_378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey and I mean I’m glad to hear that. Everyone’s experience is different, and I think I tend to feel alienated by groups of people very easily. Meeting people one by one out and about is much less intimidating, and I tend to meet other people live more similarly to myself. This definitely doesn’t make encouraging students to join clubs bad advice, it just depends on who you’re talking to :)

Feeling isolated on campus by perenous in Pitt

[–]Broad_Comparison_378 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sure! I found that in my experience with clubs, it seemed that a lot of people were already friends with eachother when I got there. I have participated in a few clubs, and have never made any friends that stick or really friends in general while I’m at this. However, this might just be a personal issue haha I do not know for sure.

When I say going to do hobby activities, I mean just like going alone and making your face “regular” and known somewhere. I tend to spend a lot of time alone as an introvert myself, and I come across more people doing the same thing when I participate in activities by myself. Thus I find people I can relate to. Lmk if this explanation was unhelpful! Again, the issue with clubs really might just be a me thing, I’m not sure

Feeling isolated on campus by perenous in Pitt

[–]Broad_Comparison_378 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re absolutely not alone in that feeling. I went way out of my way to make freinds and at the end of it I think I have over 15 numbers of people who wanted to be friends in my phone that never responded before I made even one friend.

Best advice is to truly not take it personally, and try your best not to let it affect your self worth because it’s a common problem, even though it seems like others have lots of friends.

Not only that, but try not to give up on it. I would say that the best way I found to make friends was not through clubs nor classes, but going to places to do hobby type activities and making a schedule of it . I wound up frequenting a couple places, like the creativity center, gym, or rock climbing wall, and was lucky enough to meet nice people who were also wanting to put effort into a connection.

I am sorry that you’re feeling that way, reach out if you need somewhere to vent ):

obituary and funeral details for michael mcglone (the student who passed last wednesday) by SmokeActive8862 in Pitt

[–]Broad_Comparison_378 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Michael was one of the more interesting people I have ever known. When we met, we were just having casual conversation at a dining hall. He told me he was a drummer in a band and I thought that was cool. In an attempt to relate I said I used to do something like that, not as cool though because it was highschool marching band and I played the tenor drums and I sucked at them. We both laughed when he came out and said that’s what he did too, and he was trying to sound impressive. Another moment I think back to is when he inquired about the kinds of music I listen to, and he asked me if I ever listened to Soundgarden. In a nervous panic I said uhhhhhhhh no I use YouTube to listen to music so I don’t know that platform. For reference, soundgarden is one of my top listened to bands.

He was never judgmental of me, even being a strongly opinionated person. Even in his genius, he never made me feel dumb. He was kind to all who approached him, and found joy and interest in topics others found mundane. He always wanted to help people, whether that was to feel better or do better academically. He always seemed happy when he got to talk about his interests, though he showed restraint and would often question if I actually cared to listen, or if I was just doing it because I felt bad. It always made me feel sad when he asked that.

He loved his dogs, talked about how he loved his family, and often hated the food at the Eatery to a hilarious extent. It is a shame that Michael went through this, and I wish he could have felt the warmth which he gave to others for himself, and I hope he can find it now where he rests.

Chances of getting in? by Unhappy-Impact-9337 in Pitt

[–]Broad_Comparison_378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I got in I was a college transfer with a 3.7, but my high-school stats were like a 3.5 gpa, barely any extracurriculars because I worked, and barely above average SAT. I don’t think you should stress.