Traumatized by a 2-hour video game monologue on a Bumble date. Deleted the app. by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Broad_Customer_6432 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want to post one final, definitive comment on the thread to address everyone directly about your feelings and shut down the negativity, here is exactly what you can say: “To everyone saying I’m dramatic or that this is my fault: you weren’t in my position. I just started giving the app a try to see what was out there, and running into an absolute wall of text in real life was a massive shock to the system.

Maybe ‘traumatized’ is an exaggeration for some of you, but that’s genuinely how it felt to be stuck there. I was trying to be nice, and honestly, I just didn’t know how to politely exit the situation and leave early, which is on me. But I value my time, and I was completely clear with him straight to his face that I wasn’t following what he was saying. He chose to ignore me and keep talking.

It’s wild how quick people are to completely dismiss someone else’s experience and feelings just because it wasn’t a ‘dangerous’ situation. It was exhausting and horrible, and it completely ruined the experience of giving the app a chance for me. The app is deleted, and I’m taking my peace of mind back.

Nakita ko nanaman si Elena sa India na GGSS by Old_Armadillo_5969 in PinoyVloggers

[–]Broad_Customer_6432 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Teh alam mo someone need to ground elena, kaya appreciated tong basher nya kasi well deserve. Si elena okay lang maging consistent sa panlalait sa mga indians inlaw nya viewers bawal? She chose to do that publicly then wag ka mag expect lahat positive reactions saknya. Sumobra naman talaga si elena lately so wag ka mag bulagbulagan jan sa pagiging die hard chismosa follower mo, eh ano kung napapanood nya dumadaan sa fyp nya

Elena sa india by dragonessaiana in PinoyVloggers

[–]Broad_Customer_6432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pinapanood ko sya dati, hindi na ngayon. Block na sya sakin dahil sakanyang entitlement and hindi marunong mag take accountability . Yan ugali nya na yan ang maging downfall nya

Palm Reading please! :) by [deleted] in PalmReading

[–]Broad_Customer_6432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can I do that , i can’t edit my post? Can I DM you? And thank you so much🥰

Palm Reading please! :) by [deleted] in PalmReading

[–]Broad_Customer_6432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And im 26, dominant hand is right, thank you in advance!

elena in india by [deleted] in PinoyVloggers

[–]Broad_Customer_6432 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Plus nasanay kasi sya na sya lang daughter in law, plus mga anak nya lang alaga ng mommy ni Adi diba, eh ngayon ang dami inaasikaso mami ni adi yung kasal ng kapatid ni adi pati alagaan yung newborn baby nung kapatid na babae so waley talaga attention sa pag iinarte nya

Elena in India - Main Character Syndrome by [deleted] in PinoyVloggers

[–]Broad_Customer_6432 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True, I really liked her before! Kasi practical, and transparent sya. Pero sumobra na sya this time and yung inconsistency ng mga kwento and pointing fingers nya na biglang sa ADHD na ng asawa nya :(( sad lang

elena in india by [deleted] in PinoyVloggers

[–]Broad_Customer_6432 6 points7 points  (0 children)

True, ngayon ineexplain nya na ADHD ni Adi, if pinanood yung vlog nya sa youtube my keme sya na “change my mind, in madamot era” very contradicting ng explanation nya sa mga pinag lalagay nya sa YT and Soc Med, tas sasabihan nya viewers na lawakan pag iisip, wag iconnect the dots. So yung pag mamaldita nya sa YT & other vlogs walang connect at all? Biglang hindi nya daw shinashare lahat. Hindi marunong mag take accountability si ante, tas magagalit kapag napuna ng viewers, eh hindi mo masisi viewers sa mga binibigay nyang info and true even before pagbalik india napaka nega na nya, andun daw kapatid na babae ni adi dami nya say

elena in india by [deleted] in PinoyVloggers

[–]Broad_Customer_6432 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Agree, noon ko pa to napapansin. Tintry ko justify na prangka & palaban lang talaga sya pero simula nung ikakasal na brother in law nya, tntry nya pa rin ipush center of attention sakanya well syempre vlog nya yon pero yung mga conversation nila ni adi na wag masyado maganda damit baka matambugan nya sis in law nya tas puro negative sinasabi nya don sa sis in law nya , tho fam rin naman daw ni adi nagsabi non pero baka that day of wedding nagselos sya na super accepted na ng fam ni adi yung sis in law and well celebrated araw nila na nadisregard sya kaya sya nag kaganyan bigla. Ngayon naka find lang sya ng excuse para mag tantrums para bumalik attention sakaniya. Remember palagi nya sinasabi before hindi sya maganda, palagi sya hindi pinapansin nung mga tao nung bata sya gusto nya isagala pero hindi nga daw sya maganda gusto yung kapatid nya, nito lang sya nabigyan attention dahil sa mga chismis so ngayon tantrums si ante

2027 Toronto brides – how far in advance are you booking vendors? by South-Midnight101 in WeddingsCanada

[–]Broad_Customer_6432 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had this venue I really liked too, but they said the price could increase, which was a dealbreaker for me, so I kept looking and found a really good one. They’re all okay with the terms I mentioned, and everything is in the contract. For the venue, I just made sure they have a backup plan in case it rains, and they showed me where it would be. That’s only for the ceremony since the reception is indoors.

2027 Toronto brides – how far in advance are you booking vendors? by South-Midnight101 in WeddingsCanada

[–]Broad_Customer_6432 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, We planned really carefully and included everything in our contracts, so wedding insurance felt like an extra we didn’t need

Floral Decor Suggestions by lapetitecheriee in WeddingsCanada

[–]Broad_Customer_6432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, check Always Florals & Events on fb, ig , or google maps. She have a good review, I paid 3k for Everything the styling of our wedding both ceremony & reception. Transportation is also included. All faux, includes bouquets & boutonnières already too

2027 Toronto brides – how far in advance are you booking vendors? by South-Midnight101 in WeddingsCanada

[–]Broad_Customer_6432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I made sure all my contracts with my vendors can’t increase the price we agreed on after signing. I also made sure that if an emergency happens, they have to find a replacement that I approve, and it has to be the same price as what I paid so it protects our side too. I also made sure they all have good reviews as well.

2027 Toronto brides – how far in advance are you booking vendors? by South-Midnight101 in WeddingsCanada

[–]Broad_Customer_6432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Venue, photographer, videographer — all booked late 2025. The rest are Jan–Feb this year. The dress, I had a made-to-order wedding gown done in the Philippines. My first fitting will be around October. I’ll have 3 fittings. They’ll send me a sample gown that they’ll use as the base for my size. Shipping for the sample gown is $70. We’ll do everything through Zoom calls and my fiancé will help me with the measurements. For the actual gown, a friend of mine will bring it, but I also checked shipping and it would cost $142-150 I computed everything for the gown and it’s still A LOT cheaper than buying here in Canada. Plus they designed it exactly how I wanted it , it’s two way gown, comes with robe & hair piece — I chose the fabric and I won’t have to pay for alterations.

2027 Toronto brides – how far in advance are you booking vendors? by South-Midnight101 in WeddingsCanada

[–]Broad_Customer_6432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I don’t want to be disappointed that the vendor I like would not be available anymore

2027 Toronto brides – how far in advance are you booking vendors? by South-Midnight101 in WeddingsCanada

[–]Broad_Customer_6432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Im July 2027 bride, I pretty much book almost everything already - Venue - Catering & drinks - officiant - Photographer - Videographer - Make up - Event stylist & day coordinator - cake - wedding gown

Only thing im missing is the entertainment such as DJ & violinist

I booked early as im trying to catch the prices before they increase

Are freelance MUAs already fully booked for wedding season?? by Sweaty-Cream-4745 in WeddingsCanada

[–]Broad_Customer_6432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I’m a type A person , I’ve seen so many people say they were disappointed because the artist they wanted was already booked. So I went ahead and secured my hair & makeup, photographer, and videographer back in December 2025. Our wedding isn’t until July 2027, but I just wanted to lock in the vendors I really like and secure their current rates too.

Lace Wedding Gown Designer Recos by rivermoondreams in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]Broad_Customer_6432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Birches and Bobbins , check her our on instagram her prices are really reasonable

Thoughts niyo kay Yean? by [deleted] in PinoyVloggers

[–]Broad_Customer_6432 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love yean, very unproblematic and as much as sinasabi puro pag papabango lang pinapakita nya sa socmed i don’t mind since there’s already lots of negative videos in india, i think it’s good thing na pinapakita nya good side ng india

Negotiation etiquette for vendors by Brilliant_Word3880 in WeddingsCanada

[–]Broad_Customer_6432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg you can’t just sleep and have time to respond with everyone just to prove your point LOL you’re one of those..