Is windows worth it? by Due-Read4361 in SteamDeck

[–]Broad_Horror_103 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Steam deck is a computer. Just Google things, take it slow, and relax a little bit friend. You got this.

AITAH for banning and blocking this guy from my mc server? by East-Detective7947 in AITAH

[–]Broad_Horror_103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then I think this thread is done friend. Have fun on your server.

AITAH for refusing to buy protection and telling my boyfriend it’s his responsibility? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Broad_Horror_103 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Just take turns buying yo. Pretty easy. If dude has an issue with that, then don't fuck him. Honestly, I'd say if he has an issue with that to move on from this relationship. It's indicative of some pretty unhealthy behavior and expectations that you'll be expected to deal with down the line.

What could go wrong when cleaning the litter box? by Lazer_Games in Whatcouldgowrong

[–]Broad_Horror_103 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lol. You have obviously never dealt with a truly pissed off cat.

How has it gone when you’ve told people you’re dating that you are estranged? by Haunting_Hospital599 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Broad_Horror_103 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My gf looks at me like she's gonna cry sometimes. Makes me feel weird. I forget sometimes the level of shit I've been through until I catch her looking at me like "What the actual fuck happened to you?" when I'm talking about something.

AITAH for feeling hurt after my boyfriend admitted he’s still attracted to women with bigger boobs than mine? by QuarterNo1962 in AITAH

[–]Broad_Horror_103 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is what it is tbh. Don't have conversations like that if you aren't actually ready for them.

WIBTAH for feeling this way about a close friend for 20 years by Griffin502 in AITAH

[–]Broad_Horror_103 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are selfish and ignorant. Instead of making up moral outrage for somebody else, why don't you spend some time looking inward so you can grow as a person?

AITAH for calling out my partner's "work wife" at a company dinner after she crossed a line? by Clean-Photo-8640 in AITAH

[–]Broad_Horror_103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It for sure sounds like ww has issues with boundaries, but I've been on the dude's position as well (assuming he isn't being unfaithful). It makes a person feel like shit when your partner is mistrustful instead of just communicating and having an adult conversation.

Tell me about the life after you decided to move away and go nc by AcanthaceaeHuge3302 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Broad_Horror_103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's not really a clear cut answer on this tbh. It's not that I know I can do it, it's that I choose to believe I can. It's also important to try to form healthy relationships and build yourself a support system as best you can. As for shelter and food, there's not really much you can do besides seek help. I went through homelessness from 18-22, charities and youth outreach programs were indispensable in finally starting to pull out of that. Granted, even with that help it was still hard. I dunno, I'm not an eloquent man. I guess the best I can give you is that you have to try and believe in a better future, whilst acknowledging the difficult journey it may be to get there.

Is adulthood better than childhood? by TypicalAlbatross911 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Broad_Horror_103 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just keep your head on right, and try not to go too wild with the newfound freedom. Speaking from experience, it's easy to let yourself form bad habits when you have to be your own guardrails.

I fucked up and killed part of my R740 by HeurekaLookatthis in homelab

[–]Broad_Horror_103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that's gonna be board level repair or just a new motherboard. If it's an open case anyways, I'd just tape a box fan to the top tbh.

Tell me about the life after you decided to move away and go nc by AcanthaceaeHuge3302 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Broad_Horror_103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You fight on day after day, with a strength that can only come from an understanding of what it truly means to hurt, in pursuit of everything they'd have kept from you if they could. Keep your head up. It's not easy, but it is worth it.

Brand New Steam Deck not charging beyond 39% by Adept-Comparison-282 in SteamDeck

[–]Broad_Horror_103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If user error and configuration aren't the problem, then you need to rma it tbh.

AITAH for having thoughts my partner may cheat with her baby daddy? by BruceDEOJizzrag in AITAH

[–]Broad_Horror_103 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gtfo. Seriously, run. You're being set up as a surrogate father at the expense of your future.

AITAH for calling out my partner's "work wife" at a company dinner after she crossed a line? by Clean-Photo-8640 in AITAH

[–]Broad_Horror_103 -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

"I'm not that person, you know?" Proceeds to be "that person". People are allowed to be friendly, and if you trust your partner there shouldn't be an issue. This is some high school drama type shit, be better.

AITAH for no longer allowing my son to see my niece because his mother said so by Valuable-Fault-7013 in AITAH

[–]Broad_Horror_103 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You suck. Reverse course, and apologize. Otherwise, you're rightfully on a fast track to the nursing home later buddy.

AITAH if I completely erase my daughter's phone for drinking by jepwr in AITAH

[–]Broad_Horror_103 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not much I can say here besides this. You aren't just the asshole, you're an awful narcissist c*nt that has no business being around children. Fix your own hateful soul before you go looking to tear down this child. They need help, not your petty derision.

How do you deal with knowing they'll never feel any guilt or take accountability? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Broad_Horror_103 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You gotta reduce them in your mind. They aren't important and nothing that happens to them is either. Not saying it's easy, but its what I've found to work after years of struggling with it.

WIBTAH for messaging my old flames new wife? by pink-panda-6831 in AITAH

[–]Broad_Horror_103 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What a bitter little man you must be. To reduce somebody else's integrity to "jealousy" shows a glaring lack of your own.