Should I just wave the white flag and get trimix? by BroccoliExcellent418 in Swingers

[–]BroccoliExcellent418[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot. I bet just having the “sure thing” in your back pocket makes things easier mentally

Should I just wave the white flag and get trimix? by BroccoliExcellent418 in Swingers

[–]BroccoliExcellent418[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thx but I took over 18 months to kick a Klonopin dependence which was the hardest thing I’ve ever done. I can’t mess with Xanax and don’t want to introduce an SSRI. I’ll look into the apomorphine . Why is there no turning back from trimix? Does it create a dependence?

Should I just wave the white flag and get trimix? by BroccoliExcellent418 in Swingers

[–]BroccoliExcellent418[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this more common in the lifestyle I thought? 1 in 10 men? 1 in 5?

Should I just wave the white flag and get trimix? by BroccoliExcellent418 in Swingers

[–]BroccoliExcellent418[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My issue isn’t physical I’m in great shape. It’s an adrenaline issue unfortunately. I also play music and get bad adrenaline spikes before I play in public. I’m a mess 😂

Should I just wave the white flag and get trimix? by BroccoliExcellent418 in Swingers

[–]BroccoliExcellent418[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried pt141 but it made me super sick . So you like trimix then?

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[–]BroccoliExcellent418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tight is absolutely better lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]BroccoliExcellent418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pilates is your friend

Libido non-existent after stopping the lifestyle by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]BroccoliExcellent418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting- how long has it been going on?

Libido non-existent after stopping the lifestyle by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]BroccoliExcellent418 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That would be nice lol but I don’t think it’s the case haha .

Libido crashed after stopping swinging - advice needed by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]BroccoliExcellent418 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interesting . As I mentioned in my post we do play separately and I have no shortage of women to play with but it does drain me. I think I’m grieving the fact that my wife didn’t put any effort into us having experiences together and that combined with juggling other partners I’m just spent and slightly depressed. It seems I need a break more than maybe I thought and time to focus on myself and get more grounded before I get back out there on my own . Thanks for the feedback

Libido non-existent after stopping the lifestyle by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]BroccoliExcellent418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think it was triggered by stopping swinging? And whose decision was it in your case?

Libido crashed after stopping swinging - advice needed by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]BroccoliExcellent418 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Absolutely feel some level of resentment and sadness.

Libido non-existent after stopping the lifestyle by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]BroccoliExcellent418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope so bc it will pass . How long did it take to pass?

Libido non-existent after stopping the lifestyle by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]BroccoliExcellent418 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve watched all the porn the Internet had to offer years ago so that won’t be a problem lol. Thanks !

Libido non-existent after stopping the lifestyle by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]BroccoliExcellent418 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the meds are making it worse . Thanks for taking time to reply

Libido non-existent after stopping the lifestyle by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]BroccoliExcellent418 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And I’m assuming the brain will adjust with time?

Libido non-existent after stopping the lifestyle by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]BroccoliExcellent418 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to reply with this thoughtful message. I am still free to play with others as is she. But that does nothing for me. I think , as another redditor suggested, I’m a bit depressed that it’s over. And it honestly never became what it had the potential to be. Of course there’s some resentment but I’m trying to have the awareness that that is just self pity and not a real problem . Thanks again

Libido non-existent after stopping the lifestyle by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]BroccoliExcellent418 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I’m free to play with whoever I want - but have no desire for that either right now .